We’re counting down to April 26 & 27 when our (in) real life conference kicks off! And these are a few of our favorite posts from women who participated in last year’s event. We’re sharing them here so you can get a peek at what all the excitement is about and come and join us. Register here — it’s FREE!

(in)courage, I clicked the link, said ‘yes…I’ll attend’, sealing it with a $10 commitment (which is like a $100 commitment in my current budget!).

(in)courage, I resisted the urge to back out the night before, using my oldest son, home on leave from the Navy as my reasonable and understandable excuse.

(in)courage, after driving an hour and a half to the event and circling the block no less than 3 times once I got there, I talked myself out of turning around and going home when I got to the address of this home I’d never been to – and there were no other cars parked and no indication that an event was about to be held here.

(in)courage, I put on my best ‘extroverted’ smile, dug deep to find my best ‘extroverted’ personality, stepped out of the car and said ‘Hi, I’m Tami’.

One might think I was going before a room of women to present myself for judgment and validation, feeling sure I would be the one standing alone, left out of the ‘click’ because I just didn’t measure up. I wasn’t…was I?

How ridiculous was my fear?  After all, I was going to a meeting of other like-minded women, put on by the founders of (in)courage, part of the DaySpring company.  The event was called (in) real life ~ (in)RL ~ and the theme was ‘community’.  I should have been excited to meet women who read the same blogs I read and worship Jesus as I do.  Instead, I was filled with insecurity and trepidation.

Why in the world did I sign up in the first place?


Psalm 143:8 ~ 
Let the morning bring me word of your unfailing love, 
for I have put my trust in You. 
Show me the way I should go, 
for to you I lift up my soul.

I just knew I was supposed to go.

When we come to God on a daily basis and start our day with this question “what do You want me to do today Lord?” we also have to be ready to obey.

And so, I walked in the door with my plate of Mini Pecan Pie Muffins… dying to self and living in Him. After almost a year of hiding and healing some deep wounds, I knew God had asked me to make this step so He could strengthen and encourage me for His purposes and His plans.

When my flesh is afraid, worried, intimidated…. If I am walking in obedience I just need to lift up my soul to Him and He will strengthen me for the journey.

And so my reward for obedience?

….Some new friends ~

…inspiring conversations

…encouraging exchanges

…and new possibilities

I am sure and confident of this ~ my God does not do random things.  He has a plan and is weaving a beautiful tapestry for His glory and our good.

The women I met on this predestined day had varied stories to tell of how they came to this one event, and all I could think about was ‘why God…what are you weaving here?’

I know it will take time for me to see the purpose for each thread of the tapestry.  Threads that He purposefully chose to weave together on this day, at this home, at this time in our lives.  I have time.  I’ll keep asking Him, ‘what today Lord’, and one day I’ll stop and realize this particular tapestry is done and each one of the beautiful women in the picture above will be represented by their contributing threads.

The recipe today is: What Today Lord?

The ingredients are from:  Psalm 143:8

The directions are: trust God completely, without question or hesitation.  Step boldly in obedience, knowing His love is unfailing and He desires to show us the way to go.

Father, I am blessed by Your daily, even minute by minute, care for me.  Your Word tells me…promises me…that You cherish me and desire good things for me.  All I need to do is seek You, follow You and obey.  Even if I obey ‘scared’…You do not condemn my fear but replace it with strength and courage.  And so, Lord, each day I come to you asking “what today Lord?”  Give me eyes to see Your leading and a heart ready to obey. Thank You Lord, for the blessings of obedience.  Keep my eyes wide open to seeing even the smallest of blessings each and every day I follow Your lead.  I trust You Lord. I’m lifting my soul up to You so You can fill me up, one day at a time.  I come before You in the name of my Savior, Jesus Christ.  Amen.

By: Tami

Photo courtesy of Dawn Camp

You’re each invited, you know. It’s free, it’s fun, and it’s so rewarding to connect with other sisters in Christ beyond the blog post. Tune in from home on Friday to watch the Webcast and meetup with friends on Saturday and watch together. Go on, you’re much braver than you think. Just CLICK HERE to register.
  • Margaret Polino Nicholas

    I loved your post. I clicked to have a meet up, now I am scared to death. But no turning back now. I am also going to watch and see what our Saviour has planned for my meet up. Please pray I can do it?

    • http://www.feedingahungrysoul.com Tami (@feedingahungrysoul)

      Praying now and will keep you in my prayers Margaret. Now go for it! It’s just one step at a time….we take the step out and let God plant it on His solid path. And it will be great fun too!!

  • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth (@MaryDeMuth)

    I am SO glad you came to my house, Tami. What a blessing you were. My heart enlarged because you were there. Amen for this post.

    • http://www.feedingahungrysoul.com Tami (@feedingahungrysoul)

      Thanks Mary… I truly was blessed by that day and was encouraged to move forward one more step at a time when the winds of change were pressing hard into me…making forward movement difficult. This year I found a meet up being hosted closer to my back yard here in East Texas…so while I’ll MISS you and gathering with old friends…I’m excited about enlarging the circle with MORE new friends.

  • Beth Williams

    Great post! It is often hard to step out of our comfort zone. God often asks that of us so He can bless us even more than we could ever imagine!

    Thanks for taking the step!