We’re referring to spring as our mid-life awakening. After 15 years in ministry, we, along with our two energetic boys, are stepping out of church pastoring, packing our home, and following a stirring across the country. We can’t ignore the several-year tug to intentionally choose a slower-paced town (one we can afford), with space to roam, and creative souls with whom to connect.
The winter leading up to this decision has been marathonish. Much pruning. Much stripping away until I feel nubby and naked. Much shedding of protective, comfortable, layers.
Yet, deep go the roots. This stirring served as the catalyst to becoming our created, congruent selves.
And I’m scared, yet secure in the comfort of what deep-rooted dependency is teaching of my Savior’s nearness.
Our oldest son’s teacher assigned each student three caterpillars to care for through every stage. The goal? To eventually release dozens of butterflies as a class. One night Tanner collapsed in my lap, bawling, devastated about his three chrysalises that fell off his desk and perished on the floor. No chance of becoming butterflies, he saw only what seemed dead.
That’s how winter felt. Dead. No life. Waiting. Surrendering. Listening. But I allowed the winter to deepen my roots, to hold tight as God pruned and stripped away my comforts, plans, finances, identity, relationships, and all the extra that entangled selfishness in me, and found myself in the quiet of what deep roots offered.
This quiet became protection from noise and distraction and a temptation to burst out too quickly, to fly on my own accord, to create a self-manufactured bud where my roots still needed to go deeper, to become stronger, to be nourished by the gardener of my soul. The deeper the roots, the clearer He whispered, “Draw protection and answers from Me and Me alone.”
Deep go the roots as our family surrenders job titles, a paycheck, the nearness of family and friends, answers and control.
Deep go the roots as I cling to His truth and allow Him to lead me along quiet waters so He alone can restore my soul. Deep go my roots as I practice dwelling in the house of the Lord forever (Psalm 23:3,6).
The deeper the roots, the quieter and darker it becomes. Before, quiet felt paralyzing. Quiet felt like eternal winter, as if I’d be in this cocoon without hope of the day I can burst out a vibrant, free butterfly. But there’s something I’m finding God is doing with this gift of quiet. He’s inviting me to discover that when I meet Him in this space of silence, protection is quiet’s gift. Protection from pushing myself beyond a space I have to leave in order to calm the discomfort of no answers or next steps.
Quiet is actually the most holy gift, for it’s where I find His peace. An invitation to curl up in His arms and let His nearness wash over me, to sturdy my anxious thoughts, and attach these stirrings to a foundation that will not blow over when circumstances shift. The deeper the roots, the closer I grope in the dark to find Him right here.
So friend, if you’re like me and in a season of mid-life awakening, trust that winter will not last forever. Allow the pruning and stripping, allow what seems dead to be a surrender to go deeper. Let Him draw you to find comfort in His quiet nearness. And there, what do you hear?
The Lord is my shepherd, I lack nothing. He makes me lie down in green pastures. (Psalm 23:1-2)
The day after Tanner’s baby butterflies died, he came home grinning. “My teacher decided to combine everyone’s chrysalis together.”
Weeks later, from what seemed dead, thirty students walked outside, threw open their palms to the spring air and a flurry of monarchs ascended heavenward.
Spring will come and with it new answers. But one truth will not be forgotten: with every bud, flower, and butterfly bursting on scene is a beautiful reminder that what once seemed dead and cut back actually needed quiet and time, deep roots and surrender to create the very essence of life as it now is.
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Michele Morin says
With snow falling outside my window yesterday, these words about hope and spring with its promise of new life remind me that my job in these days of “in-between” is to sink my roots deep into Truth and to wait for God to work. Blessings to you as you transition and trust.
Bekah Jane Pogue says
Michele, I love the visual of snow and quiet and how God is drawing you close. Praying for you as you listen and cling and trust. Beautiful things ahead.
Bev @ Walking Well With God says
Bekah,
I will pray for you as your surrender to His calling – which isn’t always easy or convenient!! I pray that I would not be content with shallow roots. Sometimes we need to go through winters or even scorching summers in order that our roots will drive deeper looking for living water. God wants to give us living water that will quench forever….how willing am I to settle for a sip or two and then run on. Thank you for this much needed reminder to be at peace with the quiet and the waiting because in it He is preparing me for new life. Lovely post!
Blessings,
Bev xx
Martha McNeal says
Just beautiful response to post
Bekah Jane Pogue says
Bev, praying for you as you wait and refuse to settle for merely a sip. His timing is perfect and I can’t wait to see how your faith journey unfolds. Much love!
Callie says
This is beautiful- the spiritual truth wrapped in a simple imagery, expressed in such an eloquent way. I will long remember the remindee of “deep go the roots”. Thank you for sharing your heart- this was powerful.
Bekah Jane Pogue says
Callie, thank you for lettting me share my story with you. Cheering you on as you deepen your own roots and watch how He moves.
Katie M. Reid says
Beautiful words, important observations. Thank you Bekah!
Bekah Jane Pogue says
Thank YOU, katie. Much love!
Kelli McKnight says
Feeling nubby…..been there! I enjoyed immensely this glimpse into your mid-life awakening and have no doubts God will use this new season for your good and to His glory. I love stories that give us courage to seek the hard path of pruning. May abundant blessings await you!
Bekah Jane Pogue says
Kelli, to a fellow soul who’s felt nubby, how does life seem now? I admire your faith to choose trust, even when it’s uncomfortable. Thank you!
Lazondral Nelson says
Powerful! “That’s how winter felt. Dead. No life. Waiting. Surrendering. Listening. But I allowed the winter to deepen my roots, to hold tight as God pruned and stripped away my comforts, plans, finances, identity, relationships, and all the extra that entangled selfishness in me, and found myself in the quiet of what deep roots offered.” You wrote that just for me! You articulated perfectly the season I’m coming out of. Thank you for your gift, ministry and transparency. You have touched me today!
Bekah Jane Pogue says
Lazondral, if I’m journeying this trust walk to encourage you that you’re not alone, that’s a win! Much love as we listen and deepen and allow God to strip away our comforts and find Him and him alone. He’s got you 🙂
Lazondral Nelson says
Thanks! We have an Awesome God!
Serena says
Thank you for a most inspiring sharing. It’s so true, during the most challenging season of my life, ‘The last straw that broke the camel’s back’ brought me to my senses. I needed to get away and spend some good quiet time alone with Him after 15 years of full-time ministry. Good years of serving Him but my own inner life was neglected. That’s when I realized as you wrote here, ‘Quiet is the most holy gift, it’s where I find His peace’. When I found Him, I found me again…allowing Him to show me who He is and even more and who I am in Him, my real identity is once again affirmed. Shalom!
Bekah Jane Pogue says
Oh Serena, how encouraging YOUR journey is. I love hearing your bravery in stepping out and finding your most created self in the process. Thank you for paving the way. Hebrews 11 over you today!
Serena says
Thank you! Have a blessed day
Tyra says
Bekah,
Oh such beautiful words to soothe the dry dead soul. I had a baby nearly 10 months ago. For the pregnancy and thereafter I’ve been “in hiding”. God is calling me FORTH. I have so much angst about how to re-enter, about the time lost, about not “working” my platform. Thank you for showing the beauty of my time of quiet. With His palm open, He will soon release me.
Bekah Jane Pogue says
Tyra, I wish I could hug you and look in your new mama eyes and tell you what a rockstar you are. Not one second of your last 10 months will be wasted- I promise and He promises. There is a time to work, a time to rest, a time to listen… I’m curious how God is using this season to bring your most created self to the surface from a space of being filled to overflowing. Hugs, my friend. Big hugs. You are doing this with grace.
Tyra says
Bekah,
Your curiosity is my without cause for indeed He did something GREAT during that time. I have 6 children and with each natural birth, I’ve also given birth to something in the spirit. Well baby #6 birthed a BOOK! It’s scheduled to be released in 2 months. Pray for m le sweet friend for divine strategy to get it into the hands of those who need it. It’s called Purposeful Parenting.
Penny says
Bekah,
I wish you well in your new endeavors. I love how you broke it all down to reveal, all will be fresh, and new. So refreshing “I lack nothing, the Lord is my shepherd. He makes me lay down in green pastures.” (Psalms 23:1-2)
What a kind gesture on your son’s teachers part, I’m so glad that he got to share in the joy following his sorrow.
Thank-you for this post.
Have a blessed day all,
Penny
Bekah Jane Pogue says
Penny, thank YOU. As I respond, we’re trekking through Texas on our way to TN. Life from death. Butterflies from cacoons. Praying you will experience life in vibrant, life-giving ways today. Xo
Jasmine Ryan says
This is beautifully written and packed with contemplative truth! How good of God to give us natural metaphors that reveal His design, especially when it’s wide of our own tunnel-vision. In the darkness, in the cold, in the desert, this is where He shapes us. Jesus spoke to this in John 13–first the metaphor of a seed needing to die before it can bring forth life, then this verse: “All who put their trust in Me will not have to remain in the dark.” We have to bury our old selves to receive new life, but He promises that we will not remain there, He will pull us into His marvelous light. Thank you for sharing today!
Bekah Jane Pogue says
Jasmine, “marvelous light.” Yes! Love that! Such truth. Here’s to trusting, even when it’s dark, knowing we don’t have to remain there. I’m encouraged by your words. Thank YOU
Beth Williams says
Bekah,
Praying for you and your family as you go on your journey with God. It isn’t always easy to follow God, but He knows the best plans for our lives. In this day and age of go go go & noise we all need peace & quiet. It is the only way to truly hear God and sense His indwelling. My prayer for all here is that we never ever get content and stop learning about God. I pray all of our roots will go deep, way down deep into our souls.
Blessings 🙂
Bekah Jane Pogue says
Beth, thank you. “Way down deep into our souls” – your words are rich and encouraging. Cheers to listening and quiet in the midst of chaos. Praying over you today. Much
Stephanie says
I love this! Thank you for sharing! ❤❤
April says
Oh my, how I needed to hear this today. I am definitely in a “winter” season and have been chafing against it and against being quiet and still.
I am encouraged to think that maybe I won’t be in this season forever. Thank you for your wisdom and for sharing your heart.
Rebecca L Jones says
I love butterflies as a symbol of 2 Corinthians 5:17. I hope to see them flowing soon.
Sonya Thompson says
Wow!!! Reading your post I felt like you were describing my current situation ” a mid-life awakening” , “scared, yet secure in the comfort of what deep-rooted dependency is teaching of my Savior’s nearness.”
In January I resigned my position knowing the Lord was calling me out of the corporation I was working for and I am continually seeking the Lord on where and what He has next. However, during this transition God has truly given me a peace that has surpassed all understanding!
I too feel the leading to a new location with a slower pace and I am hopeful to see God’s divine plan for this season of life flower this spring like my beautiful dogwood cherry tree has.
Thank you for sharing your journey it has blessed me today.
God bless you and your family,
Sonya
Cindy says
Bekah,
I read the last paragraph of your beautiful post several times. It never ceases to amaze me how our Heavenly Father will use people and their shared experiences to comfort and give us hope even though our circumstances may be completely different. Our precious daughter went to heaven on March 31st of last year after a long illness and a month in ICU. I’ve looked for peace and healing this past year and with God’s grace have found it when I needed it most. This past week and the anniversary of “Kelly’s” passing has been especially hard but with Spring upon us and the beautiful newness I see in the buds, flowers and butterflies, I remember my daughter is with Jesus and her life has been restored! During the last month of her time on this earth, God blessed us with a lot of quiet time to reflect and surrender to his will. Our faith “roots” grew deeper. He gave us those last moments to say “See you soon, Sweetheart”, instead of “Goodbye”. It was and has been very painful with her gone but today you reminded me that out of the darkness and quiet of winter comes… “the very essence of life as it is now.” To the end of your last sentence, I added, “for Kelly.” Praise God for His continuing hope for our futures! I’m praying for you and your family as you move forward to a new place to call home! He will be with you every step of the way! Blessing and big hugs!!
Cindy
Emmylou says
I am exactly in the same spot. It may be spring outside but it’s definitely winter within. It’s amazing how God speaks to me through this article. Thank you for writing this 🙂
Marva | SunSparkleShine says
Bekah, thank you for inspiring us with your journey. Often the temptation is to keep going with what’s comfortable but I see how your leap of faith has drawn you closer to our Father — and what a blessing that is.
Please keep us posted, as I’d love to hear more as your journey unfolds.