Not too long ago, I was at a mom’s get-together. I don’t remember what we were talking about but, in the middle of the conversation, one of the moms said sheepishly, “Well, actually I have a cleaning lady who comes every other week.”
She looked ashamed to even admit this audibly, but I quickly set her at ease by looking directly in her eyes and saying, “Good for you!”
We women tend to think that unless we’re doing every little thing to run our homes we are failures. We beat ourselves up if we can’t do it all. We feel guilty for even considering bringing in a little outside help on occasion.
I know the feeling because for years I tried to do it all, too. I juggled babies and toddlers and moves and job changes that involved surveys for kids and homemaking and home businesses and financial struggles and potty-training and blogging and friendships and church and exercise and everything else that I thought a good wife, mom, and business owner was supposed to do.
All of this left me exhausted, spent, and overwhelmed. I knew things weren’t working well, but I refused to admit that it was because I was trying to do too much.
Instead, I thought it was that I just wasn’t using my time wisely enough or being efficient enough. I’d resolve to try harder, work longer hours, sleep less, and cut out anything that wasn’t a necessity.
After my third child was born, I experienced a dark and frightening months-long journey with postpartum depression. For the first time, my try-harder, sleep-less method didn’t work at all. And, after years of being too proud to admit it, I finally said, “I can’t do this by myself.”
We hired a young lady from church to come over once a week and help me with laundry and cleaning and other tasks around the house. I cut back on a bunch of commitments that I realized I didn’t have to be involved in. And I brought on a skilled team of people to help run my business.
I struggled with guilt at first over the fact that I wasn’t always doing every piece of our family’s laundry or that someone else was mopping my kitchen floor once a week. But I quickly got over the guilt when I realized how this freed me up to be able to breathe and love on my husband and children instead of living in a continual state of exhaustion.
Truth be told, I’ve searched the Bible high and low and have yet to find where it says that I am commanded to scrub my floors or clean my toilets. Sure, I still often scrub my floors and clean my toilets, but I’m grateful that having some additional help on a regular basis has enabled me to focus on those areas the Bible does instruct me to focus on: loving my husband and mothering my children.
I am thrilled to be giving away five copies of my new book today — Say Goodbye to Survival Mode: 9 Simple Strategies to Stress Less, Sleep More, and Restore Your Passion for Life. I wrote this book specifically for women who feel overwhelmed, burnt out, and exhausted by life. In it, I share my own personal journey of hitting rock bottom and , in this book, I give you hope and step-by-step to help you stop feeling stuck in survival mode and start living a life of purpose.
To be entered to win simply leave a comment sharing one thing you would love to do if you felt less overwhelmed. Would you write more? Start a ministry? Reach out to your neighbors? Play with your kids more? Take more naps? Learn a new skill? Let us know!
To purchase a copy or read more about Say Goodbye to Survival Mode, CLICK HERE.
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Lady Dorothy says
Dream more.
Tammy Faulkner-Smith says
It is my dream to start a photography class for children with Autism, high risk, terminally ill, children from divorce, military, etc. I am a single mom of three boys, with the younger two on the Autism Spectrum. I do not have much of a support system so you can imagine, I live in survival mode. The road is paved for the class to begin. If only I had time to do it. Your book sounds like it is perfect! I would love to win the book!
Christy says
I would spend more time with my family and truly enjoy being with them instead of thinking about everything I should be doing.
Deana Martinson says
definitely spend more time with my kids instead of doing all the other “should be doings” …..you’re right we all “feel” like we should be able to do it all ourselves without any hired help…hate that guilty feeling when we can’t do it all.
Emma says
one thing I would love to do more would be to spend more time with the girls to whom I’m a leader at church and our youth ministry. I would like to be able to help plan the bible studies we use with these girls and find creative ways for them to be able to express themselves better.
Jasmine Wilson says
I would play and BE present with my kids more and my husband
Jeniffer says
Create. I used to draw, paint and sculpt. I have not done any of those in a very, very long time. That is what I would do!
Mary says
I would paint.
Dana pannell says
Learn better photography.
Andrea says
Go hiking!
Erin says
With five kids now I would return to taking those early mornings to journal, pray, exercise and just rest in the Lord’s still quiet.
Kathy heyerly says
I would exercise, take more time to plan meals, be more relaxed with my children, have more time with friends, and more dates with my husband. I’m really wanting to slow down.
Erin says
I would spend more time connecting with and investing in the women at my church.
Harmony says
I am just going to be honest, sleep! With two kids, a full workload, time at church, the home, and my husband, if I didn’t feel overwhelmed I would sleep better and longer.
Amy says
I would read more.
Jessica says
I would BE more. Just be alive, aware, in tune with life. I would enjoy the moment more and not focus on the next one.
Rachel says
Write more and invest more in my friendships and women at our church.
Kelly says
I’d pursue my dreams: write a book, start a radio show, finish my restaurant blog, and spend a week on the beach…every month!
Carlee says
I would spend more time playing with my children and being present with my husband. I would also like to read more and pick back up on scrapbooking.
Eleanor says
I would love to be outside more.
Heather says
I would journal and play with my children more.
va says
If I were not so overwhelmed with school there are two things I would really love to do. One is that I would love to intensively work on overcoming my OCD and social anxiety/autism. I would also like to be able to spend time intentionally investing in some other people.
Linda says
I would read more and NOT feel guilty for it…….
Crystal says
With 7 children (ages 10-2 months) I feel like I have been living in survival mode for a long time. I think I would learn to just sit down! To be with my husband and children, and not always doing.
Peggy Jarvis says
I would start at the top and clean out my house. I just put in for retirement due to health and am so far behind.
Brenda says
I would focus more on my child and my husband and I’d take better care of my health.
Lisa says
Create
Anna says
If I felt less overwhelmed, I would pleasure write more.
Ashley says
I would spend more time reading!
Cathy says
I would take time to encourage others.
Jeanette A says
Learn a new hobby or be more consistent with doing what I enjoy more often.
Julie S. says
Read more.
Meghan says
Sounds like a great book! I would reach out to friends more often
heather m says
I would paint and get to know my neighbors better.
Elizabeth says
I would finish more cups of tea while they were hot! And read, paint and write more too!
maggie says
There are many things I would do if I felt less stressed and overwelmed. I would crochet more! And maybe right a devotional book.
Alicia says
Create more.
Josie says
I would exercise more and eat healthy.
alison says
sleep more. or shower more. or both!
Julie Sunne says
If I were less busy? How about two: write more and be less “snappy” in my responses.
Shannon says
I would get my personal training certification. I’ve taken the class – now I’d like to find time to buckle down, study, and work on achieving my goal 🙂
Courtney says
I’d do more creative projects with my kid
Amber says
I would write more. Or sleep more than 5 hours a night. Or run more. Or do more art projects.
Tristi says
I’d either scrapbook (my third daughter keeps asking why she doesn’t have a baby book) or learn to play the guitar my husband bought me years ago. (I always envisioned my family sitting around the camp fire singing songs while we camped out or around the Christmas tree singing yule tide favorites.) I was just crying to my husband this morning about feeling like a failure about not being able to do what I feel I should be doing. I don’t live in a constant state of feeling overwhelmed, but this morning I was there in a downspiraling way.
Corrina says
Definitely write.
Barb Dittrich says
I would connect with God through arts and crafts. I sooooooooo miss things like scrapbooking or beading or cross-stitching or painting or photography. You get the point. 😉
Angie says
I would be present more. Being a single mom and working full time, there is never enough time to really enjoy all the little things God has to offer each and every one of us.
Bunny says
I would spend more time trying to be still before the Lord…
Susan V says
I would read more, journal more, and get started on mixed media art journaling!
Emly says
If I could feel less overwhelmed by everything I think needs to be done all of the time, I would learn yoga! I could also crochet and knit and maybe finish the projects I have thought about doing… 🙂
Theresa says
I would love to read more.
Jodi says
I would be MORE THANKFUL for what I have instead of being overwhelmed by all I have!
Becca holt says
I would try to learn how to cook. I’m so uncomfortable in the kitchen & lose so much time when I constantly flop another meal 🙁
Leah says
I would love the time to be more creative and learn new skills.
April says
I would love to just play with my son and I would learn how to use my camera better.
Wendy Hudson says
I would love to go back to school and get my degree. Homeschooling my two children makes it difficult during this season in my life.
Kim says
I would take an art class
Erika says
I would plant a flower garden, take my little boy to the park to tromp, and figure out how to make my blog more of a success.
Angela Wachendorf says
I would mentally relax more.
Carie says
I would exercise more. I need to set a better example for my girls and to have more energy for the time I have with them.
Debbie Kay says
I could finally get my vision board finished and start on my dream canvas. I’ve been wanting, dreaming, writing, of doing this since last summer and I am so afraid another year will go by without me putting my dreams down. If I had them in writing or pictures, I believe I would be taken more seriously that I, too, have my own set of dreams and goals. Turning 60 has made me feel I will never reach either of those.
Jill says
I would learn to play a musical instrument. I’ve always wanted to play viola. I’m considering brushing off my recorder and joining our church’s recorder ensemble. Wish I could find the time and be brave enough to try. 🙂
Teresa Davis says
Thank you for sharing! I am a newly married blended family of 6! We have 2 children each from ages 6 to almost 12! It’s crazy and stressful sometimes but I wouldn’t change a thing. I love our family. I’ve always wanted a big family and God took care of that.
If I had a little less of feeling overwhelmed with the house and work … I would devote more time to the youth ministry at my church. Specifically the girls. I work with 7th, 8th, & 9th grade and it is amazing. It’s also hard to watch these girls trying to find their identities In everything but Christ. I know this is where my heart is and where I’m supposed to be because I’ve been there. Looking to fill an empty space with everything but Jesus. It’s amazing the peace that you have after you realize He is the only one who should be responsible for telling youwhat you are worth. I hope everyone has an awesome day!
blessed beyond measure
Tenesha Davis says
It’s Tenesha Davis… Thank you Technology and auto correct! :)♡
Sarah M says
One thing I’d love to do if I was less overwhelmed is have people over for dinner more. It’s a huge stressor for me, but I know it helps facilitate friendships.
Sarah M
Dawn B. says
I am blessed to have the time to do many things that I love! My husband suggested that I not return to work after a major move across county. I was shocked and fearful the first year..fast forward to three years later. I now have time for my home, husband, ministry, reading, writing, resting and exercise! We live a simple life and I love it!! He loves it too! Thankful and blessed!!
Lori says
I would draw & paint… with a full time job, plus 3 active kids, husband, church, sports, laundry, food, house, (repeat)… it would be lovely to have the time to be “me”, not just employee, mom, wife, servant, maid, cook. ~lm
Lynsie says
Craft
Madeleine says
If I felt less overwhelmed, I would be present to the present moment. I would be a better listener, and take the time to see the the Lord in others. When I am in warp speed, the blessings of the now often whiz by me without me noticing. I am sure that the Lord wants more for us than that! I am grateful for all the ways He reaches into my life and slows me down enough to realize He’s there guiding me.
Kris says
I would go after friendships more! As the mother of a special needs child with a full time job, stress is just part of the package. If I could set some time aside to really nurture friendships, that would be awesome!
Bethany says
Take my kids on more “adventures” to explore the world (not like traveling far away–more like trips to free local parks, museums and places like that). I am going to start homeschooling my 5 year old in the Fall and I really want a hands-on homeschooling experience for her and my younger children.
Sue Ayers says
As a single parent who works full time while raising two teenagers and getting a graduate degree, spare time is a luxury. If I wasn’t so overwhelmed, I would go on a date. Or write a novel. Or do both just not simultaneously.
Alicia F says
I would spend more time with my husband for fun things….
Maria says
I would read more books!.
Elizabeth says
I would read and write more. Thanks for the giveaway!
RJ says
Write more, read more, volunteer more regularly.
Theresa says
I would learn to play harp, it has been my dream for a long time.
Elizabeth Murphy says
Bake with my daughter. She really wants to but I am to overwhelmed to want to dirty the kitchen for a non-essential. But on the inside I would feel pleased with who God made me to be and not always making a list of the ways I am failing.
Dana says
I would have more fun with my family.
Gina says
I would write…I love writing and putting my ideas down.
Diane says
There are so many things I’d do I don’t even know where to begin! I would love to spend more time reading and meditating and getting to know my Lord even better. I would spend more time with my aging parents. I would get organized in my house, cleaning out drawers and closets!! I would make a photo book, something I’ve wanted to do for a while but just never seem to find time to do it!
Susan LP says
I would sit with my husband and watch the birds on our feeders.
Koren says
I would be 100% with my kids when I play with them instead of 50% with them, 25% on what’s going on the rest of the day, 10% on my grocery list, 10% on …..you get the picture! 🙂 I would also love to take what I’ve learned (I’ve gone through a similar journey as you) and use it for ministry with other moms.
Lisa says
I would snuggle & read with my girls more;-).
RC says
Just one, huh? Number one would be to make my home a haven by getting it completely decluttered and organized. So many other things could follow if I started with that.
Brooks says
Start a marriage ministry for our community. I would also blog about what God’s calling me to do.
quiltnmama says
I would play more with my kids, I am around them so much but I feel like I always have a list to finish first… I would play!
kellik says
I would love to learn to crochet and I want to relax more and read aloud to my kids without feeling stressed
Jen says
Enjoy more creative projects….and see more of my out of state family.
Myra says
Be more of the ME I want to be.
Katy says
I would love to have more time to sew and knit 😉
Leslie says
Read…and minister more to other moms of special needs kids (and all moms too!)
Kathy says
Since I am divorced with adult children, I would develop my watercolor painting skills beyond their current level. Also, be able to drive to spend the day with my 3 grandchildren to just play and love on them.
Helen G. says
Connect with more women at my church.
Jenny B. says
I love doing crafty things but I just can’t justify spending the time now.
Linda H says
I would learn to sew 🙂
Marian says
I would spend less time seeking my version of perfection and more time exploring God’s version of joy.
Kathy Carlton Willis says
If I were less overwhelmed, I would probably end up doing less, not more, because my focus would be in the right places. The more I flounder with the overs-of-whelming, I try to take on more. When I’m not overwhelmed, I have enough focus to take on a few things and do them well (filtering out the rest as good but not what God wants me to do), and still feel rested when I’m done. Do I always do it this way? Sadly, no! I’d love to read this book!
Jules says
I would love to organzie my craft area. Stack my yarn in one place and my books in another neat area. I’m dreaming. But I can wish!!!
brooke says
Photography…
Trish says
I would get back into writing. I have not done it for years. It always refreshed me to get down on paper, the stories, the people whose storirs need to be told. Not only would I write, but I would take care of me more. I would get myself back on the list!
Michelle says
Honestly I’d spend more time creating lasting good memories, being active with my hubby and kids. More family time! Something I didn’t have growing up!
Deb Kennedy says
Crystal, I am a mother of four… who had them all by the time I was 26 years old! I spent most of my adult life EXHAUSTED, keeping up with those wonderful active amazing kids and keeping house in the face of many moves (and crises). I didn’t have help for financial reasons, but oh would I have welcomed it with open arms!!! God graciously gave me all of the strength I needed, though, and we all survived 😉 My four are now adults, with spouses and children of their own. When they all had moved out to begin their new lives, I finally had time and energy to dive into my creativity and start a business as a retail visual stylist. Expressing my creativity in that way was a wonderful experience, and SO good for my soul.
Now, years later, my youngest daughter is a wife and mother, and is facing all that that entails. She’s just become a full-time stay-at-home mom, and is loving every moment of being home instead of working outside the home. Of course, life throws things at us that we don’t expect, and she is facing overwhelm in several areas. If I were to win a copy of your book, I’d gift it to her. She’s the age now that I was when facing days filled with endless diapers and messes and noise and the yearning desire for a nap (for mommy, not the kids!) and I’d love to give her something tangible that would help her navigate this season of her life with grace and joy, while ministering to her about God’s great love for her. Thank you for the opportunity to enter! Blessings….
AJ says
Playing with clay:) creating with my hands and my heart.
Jodi Nairz says
I would spend time investigating in friendships and not feel so lonely.
Alyssa says
Write, create art, sew, paint, decorate my house, hike
christy says
I would spend more time reading and doing things for myself. I homeschool my daughter and I am my husbands caregiver so I feel overwhelmed a lot and I miss doing things I enjoy.
Shauna says
Just one thing? That is hard… I would sleep more, pray more intensely, journal/write, learn more about my technological devices, organize my home, and play more with my three children in a carefree manner. Sounds like I could use the advice in this book. 🙂
Elizabeth says
I would love to write books.
Mary Geisen says
I would create!!! I have this side of me that loves to make hand made items to give as gifts and it has been stagnant for too long.
erin says
start writing songs again.
Aimee says
Write.Pray.Listen.Laugh — ALL of them!
Shannon says
I would simply be. Be me. The one I was intended to be without feeling overwhelmed with all to do and anxiety ridden with the unknown.
Angela says
I would be able to serve God more. Specifically, I would have the time and energy to volunteer in my church’s Sunday school program using my God given talents as a teacher. Serving God more would spill over into being a better Mom and Wife as well.
Sybil K says
Reading this has come at the perfect time for me. I have been feeling like God is calling me to do more, do different. I would love to write more or find more time for ministry to other women. Just need some direction…
Hannah W. says
I would read more! I love to read but sitting down purposefully without thinking of everything else that goes on.
Kay says
If I felt less overwhelmed I could be me a little better.
Heather says
I would love to be able to spend more time reading, and doing things I love. Scrapbooking, shopping, fun, non-necessary things. 🙂
Heather says
I would get organized! I feel like everything is in constant disarray because I don’t have the time to just sit down and organize. With two kids, my cake business and basically just everyday life… I’m feeling a little dizzy these days 🙂
Sarah Reitsma says
I just want to be able to play with and love on my kids more.
Kathi B. says
Sip coffee and read a book without feeling guilty!!
melissa ens says
I would love to play more, pray more, write more, sing more, teach better, encourage, host, minister… 🙂 (live more???) SMILE AND LAUGH MORE. Yeah, all that. 🙂
Karen says
I would more intentional with my time. read my bible, listen to God and be more present for my husband and children. I would more in my journal.
Susan Kuhlmann says
Spend more time playing my guitar. I’m taking lessons, but know I could progress more quickly if I could practice on a more regular basis.
Sarah says
I would bake more and start song writing again
Barbara says
Cuddle my kids!
Brenda says
I would be more engaged with my husband & children; take more walks together, play more games together, get away w/just my husband more often, and get involved in more church functions and community service together as a family.
Nicole says
Be still…this would open the door to be more creative and more present with God and my family.
Charity says
I would build a ministry that blesses people who are going through cancer treatments. Incorporating meals, encouragement, financial assistance for utilities and daily needs. I know these needs by heart because I have been there myself with children hospitalized and the stress it brings to families.
Jodie says
If i were less overwhelmed I would take in and adopt more foster children.We have 4 biological children,adopted twin boys,and now have a 2 yr old and baby foster daughters.I love being a Mommy and Grammy to 1,but overwhelmed-Yes lol…..
Patty says
First I want to take a naps more often! Then I want to do more drawing, painting, sewing, sculpting, relearn how to knit — there are so many ways I love to create and I want to spend more time doing that. It always brings me closer to God when I’m making things — especially when I can work outdoors.
Michelle Champagne says
I would go into full-time ministry by helping those in the church with planning their wedding. I’m doing it now but I’m limited on what I can do and how many I can help/serve b/c I also work full-time. I need to learn how to balance out my time with God, husband, children, ministry and work 🙁
Kristina says
As a mom of 3 (under 9) and full-time in Children’s ministry, I’m overwhelmed A LOT!
I would spend more time volunteering in my children’s classrooms & exercise more.
Chondria says
I would read more and play with the kids more.
Karen S says
I’d love to spend more time with my family and working on my photography. And spending a little time catching up with some dear friends would be wonderful too! There are some ladies I really miss!
Rebeca Castillo says
I would be more present on my children’s lifes & be able to prepare healthy foods & concentrate on my weight loss goals.
Velda E says
I would scrapbook and read more books.
Holly Brown says
I would volunteer to help stop human trafficking, a ministry I’ve wanted to do for more than 3 years but just can’t with 2 toddlers at home and about to start homeschooling preschool. I mourn that loss of an outlet for my passion quite often.
Heather Curtis says
I would love to be able to take the time to take my kids to the park. Lately time is never on my side and with 5 kids there is always something that is more pressing to do. I always tell myself I am going to do it and then the laundry piles up or some other chore needs to be conquered. Argh!
Debrah Coombs says
I would get back to the gym because it makes me feel better in every way, I would volunteer @ a wonderful organization that provides mentally or physically challenged people w/assistive technology, toys & books, & I wld finish the children’s book that God has put on my heart to write.
Melinda says
I would bake more and share the treats with neighbors and friends!
Kristin says
I would be a better person to myself and to my family and friends.
Becky D says
I would love to take long walks and to get back into photography. I miss having hobbies.
Sarah says
I would read my Bible and be uplifted by God’s Word which would, in turn, help me with all the other “stuff” of which I’m responsible. I would play more with my kids! Not always be on task, but just sit down and play. Let the dishes and laundry soak-I must take time to be with my children while they are still children.
vickie garza says
Would love to give encourageto a single mom raising two boys and holding down a job..no doing of herself….
Beth W. says
I’m definitely in this stage right now. I have two little ones and another on the way. I would learn photography and help out in my church more.
Nada says
I would spend more time enjoying my kids than stressing over day to day tasks like laundry and dishes.
Amber says
Stop trying to be Pinterest Mom & just enjoy my 3month old & two year old, relax instead of stress, actually believe less is more
Melinda says
Wow, this couldn’t come at a better time. I have actually been thinking along these same lines, trying to figure out what I could cut out to be more efficient in my daily life. So far, I’m stepping back in some areas at church, and I’m going to be talking to some people in our homeschool group. And we even cut back a little in our school work.
What should I do with extra time? Read, exercise, sew, be creative, pray and read more scripture.
Melanie K. Lynch says
I would go back to college and finish the degree I started. 🙂
Sandy says
I would take some me time and not think about anything else. That is just one item, my list is long.:) My mind is always on the next thing to do. I don’t want my daughter to think she needs to be “Super Woman”, which we know does not exist.
Katie says
Play with my kids more.
Jacque says
If I felt less overwhelmed, I would cook & bake more and do more crafts!
Sheila Reed says
Ooohhhhh . . . there are SO MANY things, but I guess when I think about it, they all come down to the fact that I would SERVE more . . . my family, my church, my community and beyond! 🙂
Heather says
I would love to start a blog!
Robin in New Jersey says
I would volunteer at a crisis pregnancy center.
Katherine says
Time? More time?
I’d paint.
Read
Sew
Get some friends
Volunteer
Go to church
I have 3 kids, 14,11 &5. While I have some free time during school hours, it never seems to be enough. Laundry, cleaning, grocery shopping, cooking, shoot just picking stuff up off the floor can take an hour. I’ve yet to tackle the chore of actually filing for divorce…. such is life. It stops for no one.
Melissa Pedersen says
I would spend more time with my children, find some ‘me’ time, and spend more time getting my business off the ground!
Kim says
Learn to sew or quilt
Malynn Percy says
I am the mother of a three year old. My husband and I are sheltering my niece and 2 nephews. We run and both work full time at the air conditioning company God has blessed us with. I wear so many hats from school teacher, mom, owner, wife, chef cook and bottle washer plus whatever the Lord calls me to do. I would spend more time building my relationship with Lord so I could show his Love to those around me better and I would spend more time loving on the kids and my husband.
Dianne Stavropoulos says
I would listen more. I teach a class of women (50+ years) at my church. It seems they have so much to say and no one to listen. They don’t want so much to be fixed. They simply want to be heard and know they are still loved. And. they. are.
Kristena says
I would be more creative with my children. Sew,etc. My husband keeps ecouraging me to write a book. I just don’t feel like I have time 🙂
Karla Meachem says
Journal more…
elle @ being stepmom says
My goodness if I didn’t feel so overwhelmed… I would write more, play more, learn new skills… so much I want to do! Right now I am focusing on being present. I can only do so much! Thanks.
Kirsten says
Write.
Kim Nealey says
Serve others (outside of my home).
Leah Loy says
Thank you for this opportunity!! If I was less overwhelmed with a little more time, I would write more. I really want to start a blog but just don’t have the time. I would also crochet more 🙂
Debbie Oliver says
I would absolutely READ more! I am a book addict with wall-to-wall bookshelves, but no time to dig into them! I would also love more quality time with my kids. As a single Mom, we are often doing what “needs” to be done…not what we “want” to do. I also would get my ministry off the ground!!! Sooo much we could do with less stress!
Bridgette says
I’d be a better friend. . .Remember to mail birthday cards, have long chats, and really be invested.
Melinda says
Enjoy life! Be more and do less.
Lee Ann L. says
Work on crafts and sew! 🙂
Thank you for a chance to win.
Kellie says
Ahhhh, what would I do… Craft with and for my 3 babie more, read for me more, and try harder to have friend time. I miss my friends. Motherhood is a very rewarding role, but I find it to be quite lonely…
Nicole says
Thank you for writing a book that so many of us need! I could list a dozen (at least!) things that I would do if I had more time. In this particular season, I am making it a priority to spend more quality time with The LORD, abiding in HIM.
Jackie says
Play with my grandchildren more.
Jan says
I would document our family history through scrapbooking…and be available to meet with my friends who are widowed and lonely.
Courtney says
I would craft with my kids more!
Midnight Salty says
Use my talent of playing the piano more. Havent done this in years & miss sharing.
Rose says
I would create again – scrap booking, cards, writing… *sigh*
Linds says
Travel more – to see my family and friends. Explore more. Dream more…..
Kristi says
I don’t know. I’m sitting here laughing and then trying not to cry as I try to imagine living without feeling like I’m drowning. And now I’ve wasted twenty minutes trying to figure it out and I’m even more overwhelmed.
Southern Gal says
I’d love to learn to knit or begin smocking again. And I’d play more with my youngest and my granddaughters.
Colleen Nelson says
Be available to new experiences more.
Dee Evans says
I would love to get organized & declutter my house. I feel like I am just barely staying a float. I used to be so together… I feel like such a failure some days.
Paula Davies says
I would definitely read more…. I am in a book club and this would be a good book to share. I would love to read this book.. I want to start a blog. Then I would give it to my daughter. She is a wife and mother of two very active boys and a new born daughter. Her family is staying with us right now while her husband goes through job training. I see how, every day, she works hard to keep their family moving along in all they do. Loads and loads of laundry, school lunches, meals, kids homework, birthday parties to plan, doctors visits, Moms groups, time with husband, and did I say laundry?….etc. Thank you…
Becky says
Sleep. Read. Bake. Watch the birds. Sleep more.
Rachel says
If I wasn’t so burned out and overwhelmed I might read a book, actually work on our family scrapbooks, get to play games with my kids with no guilt.
Belinda says
breathe. I would be able to breathe. and maybe smile. I would love to stop running from the giant burden of laundry piled up in my bathrooms. To sit quietly and not see my life piled up around me waiting to be filed, organized and finished. I would love to be able to finally, actually begin living my life.
Donna says
I would take more bubble baths. 🙂
Danica says
Craft more … I do but that is one of the first things that falls off my plate when I am tired at the end of the day and just don’t want to do anything.
Kimberly C. says
I would cook and bake more if I felt less overwhelmed…. and then I’d go back to school!
Nicole says
I would dream more… and create more… I am learning to carve out small snipets of time to try new things… I’m learning to crochet… something I’ve always wanted to do, but no one would teach me because I was ‘left-handed’… and sitting across from someone who is right-handed just doesn’t work. I believed too many of the ‘you can’t’ statements over my life that, up until a year ago, I didn’t want to try anything unless success was guaranteed. Thankful for the truth of God’s word that is replacing the lies I have believed for so long!
Jessi Brandt says
I would be totally organized.
Tina says
I would try to prioritize the list of things I’d like to do.
Sarah Frobisher says
Sadly, if I was less overwhelmed I would get my house clean!
Carolina says
Sleep and cook more often
Stacie heisler says
I would spend more time with my 2 boys, enjoying them more, teaching them more, and simply being there, more often
Dawn says
If I felt less overwhelmed I would lie in bed longer with kids at bedtime and listen to all their thoughts and dreams and by doing so would be telling them with all that I am that they are the most important part of my day.
Laura Goral says
I would learn a new instrument and develop more of the music ministry I am already involved in.
Gina says
I would definately PLAY more; I would be happy in the little moments that are so often overseen in the busyness of everyday life.
Ann says
I’m a stay at home worker mama of 3 littles under the age of 3, and no, they’re not multiples! I LIVE overwhelmed and in “survival mode”…and wonder how this state will ever change? I would LOVE to have more outside help with the kiddos/house work so that I would be free to have a special ministry of some sort, time with my hubby and time for me! Hopefully some day soon… Baby steps!
Lindsey Woolard says
play more
Laura Goral says
I would also come beside a young mother who needs to learn this same lesson and encourage them in the journey. 🙂
Colleen Bartzsch says
I would scrapbook more, journal more and spend more time enjoying my husband and son.
Kristen @ Joyfullythriving says
I would invite more friends over – just because and just to visit. Whether I serve homemade cookies or simple cheese and crackers, it is the visiting I want to do more of.
Sheri says
I would give more attention to my hubby and kids.
Leslie says
I would write more and have more time with my husband.
Kristin says
I would learn more…take classes/read/whatever I could learn from. This is something I value so much that I just don’t have enough time for now with children and all my other responsibilities.
Donna says
I crave for more time to spend in studying the Word, spending time with God and praying. I also would like to get back in the habit of fellowship and attending church services.
Lorena Duarte says
I would have time to share with my family and myself;)
Christina says
I would spend more time interacting with my 3 teenage children, exercise more, & learn to enjoy every moment.
Kristy says
I would do fun stuff with my kids instead of just being the task master.
laura says
I would love to read more.
Debi schuhow says
I would live in the moment more.
Christy Twait says
I would start a new blog.
Stephanie says
I would spend more spontaneous time with my kids and husband!
Darla Bunyan says
I always feel so guilty when I do anything that interests me, like I should be doing something “important” around my home. I would love to let go some, to learn how to enjoy my life more.
Kendall says
Have more fun and laugh more!
Paula Blake says
I would scrapbook – the one thing that I truly enjoy doing the most but just takes too much time and cannot be done with 10 minutes of free time here and there!!
Casey says
I would live more instead of managing life!
Mary Lehman says
I would write more.
Erica says
My one thing would be to spend more time in the kitchen loving my family with made from scratch, good for you food. I have a real passion for nutrition and not lots of extra time to spend on it. We eat healthy but I’d like to really prepare all of our food and increase my own knowledge and abilities.
Phronsie says
I would take better care of me. As it currently stands I get up, maybe eat but for sure feed the kids, make sure we have everything for school, do school, feel bad that dishes/laundry/etc aren’t done because school takes so long… I try and make sure I’m at least in jeans and a t-shirt for the day but sometimes that doesn’t happen and I know it would help me feel better about myself to do it but I just don’t feel like I have time.
Rebecca Krueger says
Pray more, encourage others more, plugged into life more – dream more, breath more….. When I don’t try to be all it allows me to really REST is who God is & who I am in Him! Resting, praising, breathing removed my fear of failing, disappointing & the utter feeling of being overwhelmed – so thankful to be learning this & looking forward to the next 40 years of really holding fast to my Savior & really resting in God alone! I finally can breath & it is a wonderful wonderful thing! #1000gifts
Andrea Peterson says
I would spend more time truely listening to my kids when they are talking to me…instead of thinking about all of the things I still need to do.
Liz Lacy says
I would finish projects that I have started, photo albums put together being one of them.
Krystal W says
I would read/study my Bible more
onemotherslove says
I would enjoy being home more.
Mindy May says
I would worry less about making sure everything was perfect and would enjoy the moments of just being with my family.
Charlene says
I would create more.
Janine says
I would do those things I’ve been saving for “tomorrow”…journaling, writing letters, sorting photos, making scrapbooks of my kids’ ‘stuff’, and on and on….
Stacy says
Oh how these words speak to my heart! I dream of enjoying life again instead of just surviving it. I would be more intentional with my husband and children.
Dawn in Ohio says
Relax…right now I don’t feel I have time for that.
Juli Evans says
I would try to learn to be comfortable with “being still”
Deanne H. says
I would take a little bit better care of myself and work out daily and I woud reach out and connect more with the people I love.
Mollianne says
I would write again. And bask in the absence of something hanging over my head all. the. time.
Jenny says
I would enjoy the small things in life…because they really end up meaning the most.
jessie says
relax in the sunshine
jody says
I would spend more time doing things with my daughters and go to the Beth Moore Bible study at church. My oldest wants to go, but with school work I don’t have the time…and stay exhausted mentally and physically. I didn’t plan on parenting alone. Praying for God to change me.
Stefanie says
Oh so many things come to mind! Mostly I would just love to have the time and “mental energy” to plan and do fun outings and activities with my daughters and husband!
tricia says
Just BE more!!! Be in the moment… Capture more moments (photography)… But most importantly, BE IN THE MOMENT, with my kids and husband… And also spend time in the presence of the Lord… *sigh*…
Susie says
Honestly, my family and I would both enjoy our family time more because I’d be less stressed and cranky. Also, I would have people over more to deepen relationships with people from church – our church desperately needs more community and relationship.
Kathryn B says
I would love to step out of survival mode long enough to figure out what I’d do if I wasn’t so overwhelmed! I think I’d just cherish hanging out with my kids more..
Maria Greene says
With less stress/overwhelming I would begin playing piano again with the goal of playing for my husband when he sings for church. It is a lifelong dream. 🙂
Tanya S says
I yearn to have time to quietly listen to God. Be it through devotions, more church activities or being still.
Amanda says
I would pray more and exercise. I would listen to my body and honor it. I would create healthier meals. I would laugh more.
kristyl galli-berg says
I would just breathe! Someday’s I feel like I’m so overwhelmed I don’t even do that correctly!!
Amber says
Since having our fifth baby a month ago, I would say naps. 😉
Marlene says
Read more.
Elvera Neudorf says
I would make more cards n send out more cards . Sending or giving a card has truly helped or encouraged those who received a card. It is a gift God gave me.
Laurel Williston says
What I would LOVE to have time and energy for are cross-stitch & crochet.
Amanda says
There are so many things I would do if I were not as stressed! But, to start, I would spend more time with my dog fur-babies – playing, going out to the parks, visiting people who are sick or need some comfort… In the midst of life, I’ve lost sight of my dream to have therapy dogs who can volunteer and work with me.
Robin says
Honestly, I live in a survival mode so often that even considering doing more overwhelms me….even if I somehow did have more free time. Not good! ;/ So, for me, just not living in that constant survival mode and having more JOY in life sound SO good! I feel like it’s a battle every single day to make Jesus my everything and let His goodness be my joy.
Becky says
Time. With more precious time my husband and I would love to adopt a child. Right now we simply don’t feel we have the time to adequately devote to a child.
Cindy says
Hiking. I would go hiking. I love to get out in nature, even in the dead of winter, enjoy God’s wonderful creation and spend time talking and listening to Him. It’s been a long time since I’ve gone hiking.
Debbie says
one thing? Silence the voice inside my head; usually aided by writing.
Teresa says
I would write more. I used to write professionally before I became a full time mom, and I miss putting my thoughts on paper. Sometimes I feel like it would be selfish to take the time away from my son.
Suzy says
I would love to just be able to think more clearly. It’s all just a blur of stress and chaos and living with the feeling that I’m missing out on the important things in life. With a husband, three kids (5,3,1) and a full-time job I miss slowing down and recognizing and reflecting what’s meaningful not only in the moment but down the road.
Teresa says
I would love to have the time to volunteer with the elderly. They are such a wealth of information and wisdom. It is very fulfilling to spend time talking with an elderly person, and they love to have conversation.
Ali G says
Be more present with whoever I am with – my kids, neighbors, husband, etc.
Alisa d says
I would start my own business.
Kandi says
I could cherish and enjoy my children and husband more! We could have fun, do play dates, go to the zoo or museum, etc.
Lorna Jansen says
I used to love to explore my thoughts and feelings by writing creatively at times. As I come to the end of nearly 7 years in graduate school and contemplate the next season of family, Lord willing, I wonder how I will find time to add this back into my schedule…we’ll see how God provides.
Laurel Emory says
Have a second cup of tea while spending an extra hour a day reading.
Michelle says
Scrapbook! Miss working on them everyday like I did before two kids 🙂
Yolanda says
I’d likely watch a movie and buy myself popcorn!
Meredith says
Help with our church’s Kids Small Group program! I loved being involved but it is the only time I am away from my homeschooled children and I treasure that break.
Laura says
I would most definitely write, create, and connect more. (Just imagining having the time and energy for those things is dreamy!)
Jen says
I would make more time for things that I enjoy. Reading, crafts coffee with friends!
trudi says
I follow your blog and see how far you have come! Kudos! If I would win a copy–I would make time to read it! I have been really trying to keep moving forward with “stuff” that has taken two years to subside in our lives. I need to put the my health first…I take care of so many…I am a little behind in this.
Christen says
If I were less overwhelmed, I would repaint a bunch of rooms in my house.
Polly Hagedorn says
If I won a copy of this book I would gift it to my daughter who has a special needs child…she is often overwhelmed with the daily tasks she has to accomplish…working full time and taking care of the children and being a good wife.
Mary Beth says
I would restore my family home to its former beauty and comfort.
Carolyn says
I would rest more, guilt free!
Kelly says
I would make more time for one on one quiet time with The Lord. To allow my brain to stop and “just be”.
Alissa says
I would get back into jewelry making. I miss it and find myself eyeing colors or shapes and thinking “that would make a great palette for a necklace”. But I just don’t have the longer stretches of time I once had to pull out the wire and beads and just create.
Amy says
I would finish a bible study! It seems like I can never get them done when the group is done and then how do I catch up and continue with the group in the next study? :/
Sarah says
I would love more time to play with my kids and read.
Emilie Leach says
Play more with the kids and bake more for the neighbors!!!
Nancy ball says
Just live more. Just had our fifth baby 2 weeks ago and our fourth child passed away last November and we have been in survival mode for so long I don’t even remember what anything else feels like.
tamara says
Start writing a book!
Shaye says
Spend more time with my children.
Lindsay says
Work toward my dream of being a doula someday
Julie N says
Spend more fun time with my family 🙂
Cheryl says
I would get more exercise
or I would photograph more
or I would figure out how or hire someone to get my house clean enough so that all it would need after that is a simple quick weekly cleaning.
Stephanie says
Bake more
Adrienne says
Photography!
Julia says
Is it ok to say, I would be more affectionate with my husband?
Melissa says
If I had more time I would love to start a group for older, lonely men in my village. I work in my local pub and we have many widowers who come for lunch, sitting by themselves. I try to reach out to them, but, as I’m working, it’s difficult to find the time to have a chat with them – which is palpably what they’d like and what they need. I pray that God’s plans for me include a way of achieving this.
Pattie says
I would write more. For sure.
Rhonda says
Would love this for my daughter in law. She is very much overwhelmed to the point of shutting down. I know she would love to learn to sew and craft.
Stephanie O says
I would sing more. For myself and for others.
Marlo says
It would feel good to have my muscles less tense and to enjoy being in the moment with my family.
Leigh says
Enjoy the outdoors more!
LeAnne says
I would carve out the time necessary to write my book about “The Tapestry Of Adoption”!
Nadia says
If i had…I would simply be. Be more present. Be more mindful. Be more…be.
Cheryl L says
I would pursue one of the many creative projects I have awaiting my time and attention.
Jenn says
More time playing with and teaching my children and more time with God.
Thanks for the giveaway!
mary says
Write and Paint
Lacey says
I would sew again.
Christie Sloan says
I would take more time for “family time” and maybe be able to finish a children’s book I started a couple of years ago 🙂
Vicky Blackwell says
Scrapbook more!
Lisa K. says
I would play more with my kids, spend more time with my husband and read more!!
Lisa says
I would read more!
Kristin says
I would build furniture with my husband. We’ve always dreamed of having a small side business of our furniture creations.
Sheri Price says
finish the quilt I’ve been working on for 4 years, clean out my closet, paint my (married) daughter’s bedroom, clean out the pantry, make a “Family recipe” cookbook, oh so many things…..
Lindsey Bell says
I would play with my kids more-undistracted and on the floor with them. Thanks for the giveaway!
Lisa says
I would love to spend more time with my family. Doing whatever. And mentoring. Maybe mentoring to my own family.
Jen says
I would love to spend more free time with my kids – not schoolwork or housework or anything else, just fun time to spend with them.
Jennifer says
I would do more arts and crafts and cooking projects with my 2 1/2year old. Also be able to have a little me time :).
Kim says
I would spend more time with my family, become more involved with my church and just enjoy life a little bit along the way…
April R. says
I would give this book to a friend with two little ones who is really struggling to find balance and is going crazy! Thanks for the giveaway!
Jenni says
I would invite people over spontaneously for meals ….. & take pottery classes:)
Belinda Wilson says
I would sew.
Amy says
I would teach…
Tammi says
I would do more creative projects with my children.
Danielle says
I would relax in the evenings and spend quality time with my husband.
Nita says
I would go outside and build a snowman with my children
and take them to the movies.
Iva says
I would write more. I’m actually thinking of steps I could take to make this happen.
Carmen says
I’d practice hospitality more – since my house would be cleaner.
Jennifer says
I would be more patient with my kids and just enjoy being with them, instead of always rushing around.
Lisa says
I would play the piano again.
Beth Anne Qualls says
I would take my children and go volunteer at different places, ie: Salvation Army (serve the homeless) and teach them how to serve others. I can’t ever seem to catch up with my own life to even be able to think about what is beyond these walls at our unorganized home. Thanks!
Shawn says
I’d date my husband. Reconnect with him and pour the time into our relationship. Not focus on the tasks that we are to manage, but on enjoying one another’s company.
Gill says
I would do a course on dyslexia so I could help my daughter who had just been diagnosed and help out at her school with other kids struggling with dyslexia
Martha says
I would write more & play with my kids more! And nap. 🙂
Amanda says
I would read more – Strike that- I would read 🙂
Erin says
I would read more, play with my kids more, and cook more.
Meg says
My dream is to write. I’d like to make that dream a reality someday.
Jessica says
I would actually use all of my scrapbooking supplies instead of planning to use them someday.
Angie W. says
I actually really want to start a book club at church. This book could help me find the time/way to do it and be a great choice to share with the group.
Darla Baerg says
Read
taylor conrad says
I just turned 56, I would attempt to ride my bike more. even saying that sounds selfish. But I gotta start somewhere.
Jenny says
I would be more deliberate-to pray, to breathe, to praise, to shower daily:)…to be present and enjoy His presence.
Valerie says
I think I would want to study more. Something other than 1st grade phonics! Then again, a nap would be fabulous right about now!!
aplaceforthoughts says
I”ve been wanting to volunteer for an organization close to my heart. I’ve tried in the past two years but haven’t been able to commit the way I had hoped with everything else on my plate as a mom of two young boys. So, if I could, I’d offer up more help to this beautiful local organization.
Kimberly Peterson says
Do nothing more!
Stephanie T. says
I would love to work out more (and on a consistent basis) as well as read for fun more often. 🙂
Jaime Walden says
Oh my goodness! I would love to write more and also spend more time developing our worship ministry at church. I am the worship leader and also mentor to the youth praise team. However, I am wife and mother as well as work full time job. 🙂 Craziness…..
Amanda says
I would play more with my kids and have more devotional time!
monica says
I would love to work outside in my garden.
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Shirley says
I would love to do a road trip with some of girlfriends!
TaraJ says
I would like to find a nice balance of family, church, hobbies, and work. Right now I don’t feel I can give all the attention each area needs to be fulfilled. I love cleaning and it feels therapeutic but none of my house projects get done for all the time I spend on routine stuff. I spend time with family which I love but have very little social life as a result.
Alicia Turner Beard says
If I was less overwhelmed, I would love to spend more uninterupted, lingering time with friends.
Michele Morin says
More leisurely, unhurried time with my children and husband
Jessica paybe says
I would love for the constant pit in my stomach to go away. If I had more time, taking a sewing class would be top on my list!
Sue Parkin says
I would do more volunteering. I always meet interesting people, have great conversations and come home with a grateful heart and a new perspective.
Jamie says
I would meditate and enjoy life.
Jan says
I have been feeling so overwhelmed and stressed for so long! What I long for is peace and some time for myself, just to be. Time just resting at Jesus feet and soaking up His peace.. And taking time to simply breathe.
Randee says
I would relax and enjoy my time spent with my husband and children!
kathy w says
Be more in the present and smell the roses.
Tina says
If i suddenly found my life miraculously “in order”, I would spend time again with morning coffee with My Savior, rediscover my creativity and spend more happy, relaxed days enjoying my husband and children.
Debbie says
Enjoy the simpler things in life. Travel.
Suyai says
Write! xx
Ryan says
Read my bible. Plan. Organize. Help others. Get involved in some sort of mission work/ministry. Just your title alone whispers/screams at me. I keep thinking……surely survival mode won’t last forever.
Renae says
I would finish that book I started writing a few years ago!
Linda says
I would remind myself over and over that I work to live and not live to work! I would read more, craft more, sleep more….I’m an empty nester & still exhausted. How can this be?!
Heather says
I would create more- sew, paint, design, needlework….
Amy Carter says
I would start a ministry in our community that helped teach self worth to teens and young adults that have been caught up in the tangle of drugs/alcohol and/or crime. Praying for the time and energy resources since I have felt the Lord putting this on my heart for a very long time.
Qhippie4ever says
Think, process, do. 🙂
Kathy Cote says
I would use my extra time to spend with my kids who live in different states I miss them so much.
Diane says
I would volunteer to tutor reading at a local elementary school. I’m too overwhelmed to spend time volunteering right now…
Michelle says
I would scrapbook & play more with my kids!
Marisa Slusarcyk says
I would spend more time reading the Bible and focus on memorizing scripture. I would also work on being more organized and removing that extra chaos from my life so that I could be a less frazzled mother! The look sounds great. Thank you!
Kelli says
I would live!! Like truly live rather than manage. I would be present in every moment & soak up my life rather than knit-pic it to death with all of the many things I haven’t gotten done, forgot to do, didn’t have the money to do orwhat I’ve rolled over to tomorrow because I can’t make another list 😉 If I were less overwhelmed with my life….I would LIVE!!!!
Amy says
I would scrapbook & paint!
JoAn says
I would also write a book or screenplay that the Lord has put on my heart.
Judy says
Be creative… (I’m not sure what or how yet!)
Tammy B says
If I had more time/energy, I think I would love to play more with my kids. It’s hard now that my 6 year old is gone all day. My work is teaching piano after school, so I feel like by the time I’ve taught and then cooked dinner, I don’t have much time with her at all. My 4yr old and 2 yr old get a lot of my time and energy and I’m really tired by days’ end.
Connie says
I would learn sign language!
Angela says
I would have a spa day! 🙂
Rochelle Southard says
I would take a craft course like knitting or a cooking class like cake decorating
Elizabeth says
Paint, take naps and read a good book on a hammock and not feel “Mom”guilt. I would love to win this book. I have 2 children under 2 1/2 …I think that says enough 🙂
Sara says
I would just live more. I’ve forgotten what that’s like.
Heidi says
A year ago my husband’s job started requiring travel, quite a bit of it. Leaving me at home with our 3 darlings & working full time. At the time our house was on the market & we had a sweet cleaning lady who came once every other week. Our house sold & in an effort to save money we’ve not brought our cleaning lady back….yet. 🙂 I just said to my husband on Friday that when he’s gone I feel like I’m in survival mode. It’s so very hard. I don’t want my kids’ childhood to be full of memories of me in survival mode. So if I were less overwhelmed, I’d spend more time being the mom God made me to be.
Mary Jane says
If I were less overwhelmed, I would be able to exercise more and take time for myself without feeling guilty.
Sandy says
I would put me first maybe for just an hour but none the less do something for just me for one hour.
2tiredmama says
I was like you. The third child was kind of my breaking point also. I hung in there a bit. Then I lost my job, and that 3rd child was diagnosed autism spectrum disorder. A bunch more stuff happened & my life came crashing down. I went lower than rock bottom….for 3 years. I am now ready to climb back out (slowly have been), but how? I would like to live a “normal” life & play with my kids & go outside & just do things away from my little messy house. Where do I start? Seems I only know one extreme or the other 🙁
Dayna says
I would spend more quality time with my husband and not be so tired when he comes home.
Megan says
Exercise and spend more time on Project Life scrapbooking.
Lindsey says
I would definitely read more. I would also love to volunteer in my community. Hopefully, once my children (ages 4, 2 & 7 mos.) are older we can all do that! 🙂
Amber says
Make my daughter clothes, take my son to storytime
Krissy says
Well, I have no children, so I automatically feel guilty for waiting more time. However, I would take a class. Cooking, crotcheting, etc. knowing I would available at the give time to attended a class would ROCK!
Emily says
Spend more time with my sweet hubby!
Heather says
Volunteer at my son’s school more, attend a morning Bible study at my church, etc.
ruth Firl says
I would definately hire someone to do housework for me so that I could work on my hobby of quilting so that I can make quilts for my loved ones. I have a long list of people that I want to make a quilt for so that they have something to cherish that I made for them:-) Thank you Crystal for your ministry:-)
Manri G says
I would use my time to spend with my boys…hiking, biking, cooking…teaching them to paint. Oh to have more time 🙂
Sheila Smith says
Spend more time with family. Never enough when you work full time plus overtime.
Kim McCulley says
invest time in relationships and creative pursuits
Thespina says
I would compose more music on my piano.
Cathy Brand says
I would quilt more often and not fill guilty about it! It’s so hard to take time to do what you love when you know the dishes need done or the floors need mopped. I need help I’m recovering from two spine fusions and I can’t do it all anymore.
Nikki Thomason says
I would learn to relax a little!
debbie says
I would take time for myself 🙂
Sarah says
Learn sign language and teach it to other kids and parents of little ones. (My third child was born with a hearing impairment.)
Nicole Smith says
to be honest, i have no idea what i would do. maybe sit down and organize my life so i could figure out what i really wanted to do! ha!
Shelley says
As a single mom and holding down a job in the corporate world I would actually love to find time to volunteer with the Anna Crawford Childrens Center. I feel things we have been through as a family over the last few months has been so that we can help others who have experienced similar situations but are afraid to come forward.
Ashley says
I would be more present with my children and Husband. I’m a stay at home mom so I’m with my kids literally all the time, but I always feel so distracted by all the things I need to get done.
Andrea Rigdon says
I would immerse myself into my love of Spanish!!! I lived in Spain, but have not time to read Spanish books or practice grammar/speaking…
leslie says
Breathe. I take the time to laugh with and my love my family every day. yet we have had an incredibly stressful.8 months including my husbands spinal.cord injury and two tragic deaths. i would use the book to learn how to just breathe and be each day.
Brooklyn says
If I were less overwhelmed I would spend more time making art. I’m an art teacher that feels like there’s always something else I should/could be doing for my family, and that I shouldn’t be spending my time practicing my craft.
Jessica says
I would love some time to read just for enjoyment. 😉
Deanna says
Start a side business and have fun with my family more.
Jess Bors says
I would use the pottery wheel that is collecting dust.
Codi says
Thanks I would love to take up piano lessons again if I had free time. Im on our church worship team amd we are in need of a piano player and I want to be able to have God use me through music and singing.
Kendra says
I would love to spend more time just being totally present with my children!
Jennifer says
Honestly I’m so overwhelmed and exhaughsted I don’t have any idea what I would do with extra time.
Kim dimauro says
I would take more time to read.
Kris says
I’d live more. I feel constantly under a huge weight of lists and obligations and requirements. Nothing I do is ever enough, there’s always more I could be doing. Sometimes I chuck it all and laze around but guilt finds me and stress comes back. I’d like more time to just be content, love on my family, play games, do art again.
Melissa says
I would sew!
Kristen says
Thannk you so much for this! I really needed to hear this today! I would be able to help my husband start his own business. He lost his job last month, so now is our golden opportunity to try it!
Nichole says
The first 3 weeks of 2014 have been the biggest set backs of my life in a decade. No matter what I try more and more things go wrong. On a daily basis there is something new added to my pile that I feel I can’t overcome. Increased child support my husband owes, increase in this years property taxes which correlates into increase house payment, lost financial aid for schooling making me drop college, again, children needing, wanting my attention. And I’m too busy trying to come up with a plan to keep our lives intact to give them that time. Dinner is late. Laundry is stacked up. Dishes are in the sink. Budget won’t balance. I used to do everything and more as a working mother. And since quiting to go back to school it’s been one issue after another. I hate to go to sleep because I dread what tomorrow will bring.
Beth says
Read more!
Amanda says
I would love my husband and kids purposefully instead of giving them what’s left over after all the “stuff I have to do.”
Heather says
Honestly I’d sleep. A consistent sleep schedule would allow me to be a more effective mother, wife, leader and student.
Jamie says
If I could find more time in my days, I’d write more letters of encouragement, exercise more, and, hopefully, make faster progress on my writing projects.
jennifer says
I would love to write more and bless others in simple ways.
Gwen says
I would probably be able to sleep more because I wouldn’t be working until past bedtime to get it all done!
April says
I’d learn how to knit and relax with my family.
Jessica says
Volunteer/ community garden
Sandy says
I would absolutely start my Etsy business with my handknits (I’d have time to knit), photography (I’d hopefully have time to take photos) and my jewelry………it would be my personal achievement dream!
Amy M says
I would pamper myself more-haircuts, pedicures and maybe a little shopping.
Jessica says
Though I am happily married, my husband is a truck driver and away from home on the weekdays…every week. So in reality I am a single mom during the week and hold down a full-time job. I quite frequently feel guilty because there just never seems to be enough time to spend with my daughters or deepening our spirituality. I dream of the day I might be able to quit working full-time (which seems like we will never financially be set enough for that to happen) so that I my family can spend QUALITY time together and enrich each other spiritually.
Sharon says
I would work on becoming more patient and understanding.
Sarah says
Be happy. Be still. Just be.
Jheri says
I’ve spent the last 6 years of my life pouring into my husband and childrens’ lives – as I daily learn to die to myself desires. So I honestly have no idea what I personally would enjoy doing. I love being a wife and mommy, but it’s very easy to loose sight of who I am, what I love, what my hobbies are. Even in the precious times when my awesome husband lets me go out for a day without the kids, or even a weekend away with my sisters and mom, I find I’m so consumed and focused on My kids and hubby, that I have a hard time embracing the relaxation or break away. So I don’t really like to even let myself think about something else that I would like to do…because I’m trying to be and stay content with where I’m at. Kind of a tough position 🙂
Cassie B says
Finish school.
Hallie says
I’d paint or draw more!!!
Aimee says
I would focus more on my family overall absorptivity their/my life. Doing things together and creating a happier/healthier lifestyle. Some much time is now spent on getting the day to day / survival stuff out of the way and completed.
MC says
I would sew more and diy every room in my house.
Ellie says
I would love to have time to just daydream in complete solitude. With a latte, of course.
Thanks so much for the giveaway. 🙂
Margaret says
Play with my kids more!
Brecklyn Ferrin says
I would take a bath. A bubble bath!
Lynn Kaufman says
Figure out what I’m called to do in my next season. (I currently serve as our denomination’s Director of Women’s Ministries which ends in 2.5yrs.) What’s next ?
Katie says
I would start having more people over to my house during the week and be more involved in my church.
Donna B says
I would spend more time sewing & get (& stay) all caught up on the family scrapbooks
Sarah says
I would exercise. With a 3 yr old, a 3 month old, and record low temps I can’t seem to find a way to fit it in. I know it would help me feel better in so many ways, but I”m overwhelmed with everything and don’t know how to make it happen.
debbie says
I would find time to exercise more and learn digital scrapbooking
Sarah says
I would read more, scrapbook and maybe even finally learn to use Photoshop!
Heidi says
I would spend more creative time scrapbooking, painting and writing, especially with my girls.
Robin says
I would be n the moment more with my husband, children, and friendships. Focus on others and my ministry in life.
Hillary says
Head out on walks with my kids
Meg says
I would love to do crafty things, like scrapbooking 🙂
Ashley says
I would stand still more- enjoy the little things more and just spend more time trying to enjoy my family and our two young kiddos instead of trying to take care of everything else
Magen says
I’d probably scrapbook more! 🙂
Marcy says
Go back to school, work on becoming healthier and play the piano again! Just try to ‘be ME’, rather than mommy or wife-y!
Lisa says
I would spend more time with my kids.
Anne says
I would get more sleep and get more exercise!
Suellen Jennings says
Spend more time with my family!
Rachael says
Scrapbook more to keep all those precious memories in a beautiful book that my family can look at often. 🙂
Kris says
I would keep the camera in my hand and take pictures–fun pictures, artistic pictures, goofy pictures……just take pictures. Document life. enjoy the process.
Aimee says
Laugh more:)
Nancy says
I would live my life with less guilt and more contentment.
Laura says
I would find “me” again. She is lost somewhere.
Denise Porter says
She’s in there, Laura. Keep looking and piece and piece and bit by bit you WILL find her again! Like finding your long lost twin sister!
Angie W. says
Daily devotionals instead of when I find the time devotionals. Sing and dance just because. Ordered the book, would love one to give away to a friend. What a great conversation starter.
Chaya says
Go outdoors and get some more fresh air
Rachel says
I would read more.
Tywanna says
I would play with my son more and read whole chapters at a time.
Marisa says
I would play with my children more and start playing the piano again.
Jennifer says
I’d think quietly. Just sit in a quiet place and try to catch my breath, maybe listen to my own heartbeat for a short while!
Denise Porter says
In a nutshell – Lived for 13.5 years with a spouse who suffered from bipolar. I didn’t know how much walking on eggshells and his occasional tendency with violence was affecting me (and our children who were 18 months and 7 when we finally split 7 years ago). Now remarried for 5 years and only NOW coming out of the fog. Trying to clean my cluttered house, babysitting two boys without a Mum, wanting to quilt more and do those “creative” things that fell by the wayside. As my Aunt said, “You’re getting your confidence back.” Your book sounds like it would be very, very helpful! One step at a time. Sometimes it seems like it is taking forever and someone says something and it makes me feel inadequate and like a useless Mum. But I know that I’m doing my best, everyone is different and it is okay. Sometimes I feel like I HAVE to be superwoman — especially when I am down at the other end of the block with the babysitting kids and running down to my house with food for my husband and older son and then running back to my charges. There has to be a better way to do it that this!!
Diana Campbell says
I would update my blog daily, walk the dog, sew, and clean my house more. I would clean out my attic. I would be caught up so that when I spend time with my husband and children there is not a sense of guilt because other things are not done. I would live fully in each moment with them.
Amy L says
Hold baby more and not feel guilty about it. Cook more – for my family and others who need a ready-to-go meal. plan more “fun” things with my kids.
Amy says
I would enjoy more quiet moments. I am often over whelmed by the “noise of life” and can’t truly focus on me.
Tracy says
I would just love to have time to be able to play with my kids. I’m always rushing, cleaning, reprimanding, caring for them but I never get have fun relaxed time with them. I have an 8 and 7 year old and can’t believe they are so grown already and its just flying by while I spend my life cleaning!!! 🙁
staci says
I would do more creative art projects and science experiments with my kids. Thanks for the giveaway.
Debbie says
I’d love to focus on being more in the moment with my kids, instead of shuttling them around or doing chores while they are temporarily parked in front of a screen.
Jenny Jackson says
being less overwhelmed would mean I’d actually be more productive and make more $ 🙂
Thanks for all you do and hosting a giveaway!
Katy Atwell says
I would have some “me” time to recharge.
Denise L. says
I would love to have spend some quality “care-free” time with my teenage daughters before they don’t want to spend it with me. I want them to know and understand how valuable they are to me.
Cathleen says
Hands down… Play with my kids!
Bridget Crosby says
I would play with my kids more. Maybe finally decorate this old house, travel/explore locally.
Sherri Shirk says
I would have dates with my husband, play more with my daughter, read and get caught up so I don’t feel guilty when I’d like to take a break!
Jennie says
How about all the above, write more, play more, dream more, enjoy more.
Liss says
I would practice more hospitality. My husband and I love to have people in our home, but with 4 kiddos and homeschooling, I feel like my house is constantly a mess and that makes me feel self conscience about having people over.
Melissa says
Crafts!
Heather says
I would sew or do something creative every evening, instead of feeling like I don’t deserve to do something fun because the house isn’t spotless.
Beth says
I would read more with my children and by myself.
Mandy says
We just had our third boy… Our oldest just turned three, so clearly sleep is the optimal, clear cut. But second to that would be the gift of being intentional rather than reactional.
susan says
I would hang out more with friends and exercise more. I have someone help us clean too!
Stacey Odland says
I would play with my kids and not always tell them I was “too busy”. I would read the stack of books I’ve been trying to get at for years and I would re engage in friendships that have been pushed aside for too long.
Rhonda Vanderwest says
I would enjoy reading more. It has taken a backseat in the midst of a busy schedule.
Jennifer says
I would be a volunteer with a crisis pregnancy center and finds ways to be a mentor in this environment. Spend more time just playing with my children. I want a clean house and with two boy toddlers my definition of clean has had to change. Still I spend a huge portion of my day cleaning, cleaning, cleaning…something! Thanks for the giveaway.
Mandi Barwell says
I would love on MY kids and husband more 🙂 I feel like I’m so busy keeping the house afloat that we don’t get enough snuggle and play time!
Lesley Paul says
I would call a friend or go to the craft store and finally learn to cross stitch or quilt.
adria says
I would breath more. I feel stressed always and I’ve realized I don’t let myself breath until right before bed where I actually sit down and exhale!
Diana says
I would exercise more. I wish I had more energy to play with my kids.
Tracy Ahlers says
I would like to be able to spend more one on one time with my daughter and potentially start a home website design business.
Diana P. says
I would ride my horse more and take my granddaughter with me.
Jennifer C says
I would read more!
Malissa Feragne says
Even though I feel overwhelmed with three young children and a full-time job, I use most of my extra time to play with my kids or read to them and take them places. I think if I had more time I’d still do that, but I’d focus more on the ministries God has called me to. I’d read and write more for sure. And I’d love to have more date nights with my husband. I think we are in desperate need of those!
Shannon says
I would love to just breathe without feeling like I should be doing something else. Yes I dream of writing the great American novel. I want to workout everyday and have a great body. I want to have time to date to find a mate. But mostly right now I just would like to take a guilt free breath. I have so much going on I don’t know where to start. Thanks.
Jen says
I would read, then write. There’s a writer inside me dying to get out.
Leslie K. says
I’d definitely play with my kids more…without the looming to-do list making me distracted.
Chrissy Murray says
I would do more for others and slow down and try to enjoy the little moments in life with my family and friends more than I do today.
Jen B says
My office closed & i’m now able to stay at home with my 9 year old. Things have gotten better, but i’m still not where i want to be. I’d love to be able to nap more as well as volunteer at shelters or something similar.
Jana M says
I would read more!
Ashlee Pettit says
Read.
kelly says
i would just “relax”…no thinking i have this and this and this and this to do..i’d just sit and relax…
sheila says
I would take the time to enjoy the moment with family and friends.
Rajitha says
Play with my kids more, write more and learn a new skill
Sarah Margetson. says
I would plan fun crafts and simply play with my kids more!
Diana says
I miss taking dance classes and singing with others (whether in a choir or a band or on stage in a musical). And reading. Always, always, appreciate more time to read.
Linda D says
I would do photography. I love nature photography but have given it up.
Stephanie W says
I would like to be able to enjoy life without feeling guilty that I should be doing something else.
Elizabeth says
I’d give in when my kids said “one more book!”
Beth says
I would feel more free to play whenever my boys ask me and I would tackle some fun projects that always get shoved to the back b/c fun for me often gets relegated to the bottom of the list.
Jen says
I would love to read more with my kids.
Ebie says
Help my husband with his new business. Starting up is hard and it would be nice for him to have free help.
Jamie D. says
I would invite people over for coffee and invest in other peoples lives.
Morgan says
I would do more for myself (yoga, reading), spend more quality time with my kids, seriously consider having another baby, and give my husband a little extra TLC.
Lillian S says
With baby #7 on the way – including 2yo triplets – I would love to not feel like I have to choose between keeping up on the bare minimum of housework and playing with my kids. I’d love to have the time and energy to do crafts and other activities with them.
Stephanie Race says
If I wasn’t overwhelmed all of the time I would take up painting again and read more. I’d use the time to re discover what makes me happy, instead of worrying about everyone else all the time. I can’t wait to read your new book!! 🙂
Rachel says
Scrapbook my family’s memories!
Christine says
I would read more & do more hands on learning/field trips with the kids.
RJane says
Have more energy!
Anna says
I would love to have the time to play piano again. Something that doesn’t happen too often with either children napping or more important things to do or when I do try there are little fingers trying to play right along with me! =)
Kathy Cook says
I would do something for myself. Having 2 children still home and my momma living with us after multiple strokes I just want to run and hide!
Wendy says
I would get up earlier again on a regular basis for quiet time with the Lord and for journaling. I miss that so much…..try to fit it in when I can, but it’s not the same.
Lindsey Keating says
I would play with my kids more, plan meals better and definitely try to nap more.
Kim D says
I would be able to relax and enjoy my family.
Cassandra Hess says
I would spend more time with my husband and children. I would also read for the sheer enjoyment of reading.
amanda says
I would spend more time with my husband and kids.
Emily N says
I would play with my kids more. With four kids and homeschool I never feel like I have the time, there is always something that needs to be done.
Sarah M says
I would read a book every night with a cup of tea and not feel guilty about it.
Candice says
I would love to have time to slow down and think about what I could do to bless my friends and family with help in a way they need it that day.
Tara says
Play with my kids more.
Shannon says
I would be more intentional about interacting with neighbors and really learn how to garden successfully.
Cambria says
I would spend more time reading and loving on friends and family.
Elizabeth says
Be more hospitable.
Debbie says
I would love to develop a free dance ministry at my church for people (adults and kids) in our community to learn how to dance in a family-friendly environment.
Mellissa Meadows says
I lost a 25 year old brother very tragically in September of 2012. Several months after suffering the loss, I began leading a grief recovery small group. God has truly BLESSED me sooooooo much by just allowing him to use me to help otehrs on their journey of grief. If given the time and resources (I am still working a full-time job) I would love to do this on a full-time basis and not have limits or boundaries to what God would or could use me to do!
mar says
I would write more and sleep more!
Rebecca says
This year, less stress means less pain after a brain injury left me with a lingering, debilitating headache. Those moments are not spent “practically” often but on simple things like dancing with my little girls, drinking tea with them or baking. Finding more time for what is good and valuable in life right now is so important!
Sara says
I would be present in the moment with my kids more…and have some alone time too!
Beth says
I want to actually read books again!
Heather says
I would laugh more and get back to the ‘fun loving girl’ I used to be
Bernadine says
If I had some free time I would make a schedule to help me get organized. Everyday I need to clean, organize, cook, exercise, blog, assist my kids & husband with whatever they need, and manage to set aside time for meetings, appointments, errands, & time with friends.
Lisa N. says
I would serve my neighbors better and spend more time being present and playing with my kids.
Ann Burke says
I would love to start a ladies Bible study at my church.
Ambrosia says
I would love to be able to lie in bed without feeling bad about all the things I could be doing… (I am on modified bedrest right now… This is my third baby in the last two years. Lost one to SIDS, and one to a early birth.)
Melissa Wallace says
I would spend more time just hanging out and having fun with my family and I would love to sew and create more.
lynn c homan says
I would be able to be more the woman that God intended me to be…with more time/smiles towards others. The way it should be!
Sarah Graw says
I would definitely spend more fun time with my kids, I feel so torn between all of the housework and schoolwork that never ends and its so hard to get any “extra” time in my day-both for my husband and my children. I would LOVE to read your book!!
Brienne says
My husband travels 5 days a week so feeling like I could let go of survival mode either when he’s home mon-wed I’d love to just sit and play board game with my family. Wed-sun I crave being able to playout side with our 3 little boys and not worry about the magnet that’s pulling me in to do all the work I always have to do inside, for the house or for everyone else. I have lived in survival mode for 6 years and it’s like living in the movie “ground hog day”.
Jenni says
I would research and write more on the psychology effects if infertility.
Laura says
Write a book or a blog about Living free from Fear. How it changed my life.
Winnie says
Hi Crystal,
Thank you for your sharing and generousity!
First and foremost, i would want to be still before FatherGod, be overwhelmed by His Perfect Love, Amazing Grace and Wonderful Promises for me as i focus on an intenstive walk cum intimate relationship with the Endearing Him. Amen and amen …
Blessings to u and your family too! 🙂
Michelle says
Volunteer more 🙂
Erin says
Sit down with two little boys and read with them. And then work on fun messy crafts with them.
Macy Holton says
I would find Mag Alice! My Dad ( who passed several years back) called me Mag Alice as a kid. That kid was fun loving easy going and up for any adventure. My kids deserve for me to ” find Mag Alice”.
carrie says
Hang out with friends, read
Jo says
Bike ride, weather permitting!
Jillian says
I would read more, actually do something with our wedding photos & maybe even develop my blog.
Sarah says
I would smile & laugh more. Baby #3 is due in April and I feel overwhelmed daily with the demands of life and my two little ones outside of the womb.
Patti says
If I weren’t so overwhelmed, I’d go back to seminary to finish my MA in Spiritual Formation and Discipleship <3 <3 <3 <3
Melanie says
I would laugh more be more present with my kids and have friends over more often.
Kathleen says
I would read more
Stacy Dunn says
I would spend more time on the floor playing games with my kids!
Danielle G says
I would be more involved with a ministry at church and take the time to go to the gym more often. Between work and grad school, right now I have time for little else.
Kim says
I would volunteer more with my church or in my community.
Melinda says
I would read more books to my kids and for myself and bake more.
Erika says
I’d continue my education… Either a degree or even just a modge-lodge of adult learner courses
Courtney says
I would love to sew!
Mal says
Regular quiet time in the morning and finish the months-long decluttering our house project that still has so far to go.
Katie Shannon says
Really learn to use my camera & fall back in love with outdoor photography
Courtney says
Teach ballet to adults. I loved doing that before becoming a mom. Now I just don’t have time.
Heidi Sebree says
I would go on dates with my husband.
Mary C says
I would read more.
Marcy B. says
I would spend more quality time with my family.
Billie Osborne says
I would spend more time with God and my kids.
Jennifer says
I would learn to be a gardener with my three children and give away my extra produce to women who are struggling to feed their children well.
Ashley says
I am a mother of 5 beautiful children, ages 1, 3, 5, 7 and 9. I am often, more than not I suppose, completely overwhelmed and struggling just to keep my head above water. My husband is gone a lot for work but, when he is home, I find myself getting very resentful that he can sit and play with the kids without a care in the world. That’s what I want. I want time to sit and enjoy them without worrying about how late I will have to stay up to accomplish everything that needs to be done. I want quality, care-free time with my children.
Christin says
Be more present with my family and not preoccupied with what I “need” to do
Rachel Obro says
I used to sew a lot…I would love to make more time for that again!
Kim says
I would ride my horse more!!!
Nina says
I would love to spend more time with God.
Sherilyn says
So many things, but especially spend more time with God!
Amy Boone says
I would take time to re-discover my passions.
Kari says
I would love to learn more about photography and do more “memory keeping” for my family.
Stephanie says
Quite honestly, I’m not sure what I would do. Most likely do more outdoor activities with my family.
Abigail says
I would dance more- in my closet, in my living room, in the yard, it in public. Just to let my soul sing!!
Chrysti says
I’d play with my daughter more and have guests over more often.
Candace at Sonbeams says
I would love to feel free enough to simply spend a little extra time with my husband again! With 6 children, one with many special needs and one an infant, I’m Mommy all day (and a lot of the night…).
Nicole says
I would just sit in my chair for an hour reading to my boys and making my baby girl laugh 🙂
Dana says
Definitely sleep more!
Rachael Brothers says
More vacations with quality time!
Brooke Irwin says
I would sit down and just play with my kids more. And be fully present, not worrying about other responsibilities that I need to do.
AJ says
I’d love more time to play with my kids!
muriel says
I would sew.
Kayla says
I would do photography again. Photography is my passion, but I haven’t had the chance to pick up a camera in months!
julie powell says
sleep more
Sarah says
I would be more focused on my girls and husband, instead of being so distracted with what needs to get done or what I should be getting accomplished.
Ashley M says
I would RUN. Shave my legs! Enjoy creative projects. Drink coffee on my front porch at sunrise.
Amber says
I would not feel guilty for taking better care of myself.
Rachel says
I would be more present daily with my kids and every day life. I would balance the have to’s and want to’s more efficiently.
Andrea says
I can so relate to living in survival mode. If I were less stressed, I would spend more time interacting with my kids- playing or reading. I would also spend more quiet time with God.
Cara says
I’d spend more time investing in friendships. I would spend more time just having fun with my husband. I’d focus on lowering my stress level which would improve my health and improve my quality of life.
Patricia Hawes says
Spend more time with my granddaughter.
Janet Ulrich says
I would spend time with my kids, reading and watching movies.
Leigh says
Read more & work more on building my business
Sarah C says
If I were less overwhelmed I would have a tidy enough house where we could entertain friends on occasion. We used to be able to before we had 3 kids in 3.5 years. :-O
Gloria says
Spend more Fun time with my 5 children and have a moment for myself to experience something new.
Melissa Bieniek says
I would exercise more. Also, I think I would be less stressful around my girls!
Susan says
I would like to send more notes and cards to people. I have the best intentions I just don’t execute well.
Rebecca says
I would probably smile more or go to a spa… Haha Being maxed out is so hard- my two kids and husband deserve a happier, relaxed me!
Elise says
So many things. Work on photography skills, more DIY projects, play with the kids, learn piano… The list goes on lol.
Mari says
Hang with my 9 yr old little girl more and do stuff she wants to do!
Laura says
Spend more quality time with my husband and children!
Annie Gustafson says
I have really wanted to learn how to use my old sewing machine to make outfits for my daughter and even blankets, etc. I get so overwhelmed by my daily duties that trying to learn something new causes more stress.
Catherine says
I would spend more time reading.
Kim Mills says
I would be more present with my family and would start writing.
Jen Schmidt says
I’d spend more time playing games with my kids. 🙂
TIffany says
Study God’s word and exercise- take better care of myself so that I could offer more to my family.
Kathy Smith says
I would take piano lessons!
Pam says
I would take a photography class and figure out how to use a DSLR.
Holly says
I would spend more time enjoying and learning from my kids.
Tricia in NC says
I would take the time to find out who I am.
Shawna says
I would teach and play with my kids more.
Sarah says
I love to plan trips (even just short day trips) and love to research travel. Since having my 2nd baby and moving 1500 miles away, basically flipping my world upside down, I just don’t have time to do that anymore. And I really miss it.
Trish Dorton says
If I wasn’t overwhelmed, I would spend more time with family. Too much time required at work, running errands, etc., I feel I am always behind.
Sara says
I would read more or sew more or both!
Erin says
Exercise, invite people to dinner for fellowship and watch a movie with my husband at night every so often.
Kristin says
Play. Love. Listen. Invest. Serve. Laugh.sit. Cuddle.
Diana leblanc says
Wow! there are a lot of women out there that feel overwhelmed. Comforting to know I’m not the only one, but also very sad. I would love to just stop and enjoy the moment without watching the clock. Listen to my child tell their story instead of rushing them out the door because the clock is ticking. Hold my husband’s hand a little longer just because I’m enjoying his company. To all the powerful women out there that think we can do it all. We can, but why should we? Who is going to care?
Angela says
I would read more.
Lois says
Learn a new language 🙂
Tera says
Really learn how to play my guitar.
Lisa Eldridge says
I would love to crochet and play the piano again. I would probably also plan our meals better and actually stick to a meal plan and do some freezer cooking.
Sarah Negovetich says
Gosh, I hear this. I work from home full time, but because money is tight and I’m home, so are the kids. So many days I am lucky to get a shower, let alone spend real quality time with my kids. What I wouldn’t give to feel like there was more time to just sit and play with them without the need to keep looking at the clock so I can calculate how much time I have left to get everything done.
liz k says
I would truly enjoy the moment, not worry about what else I should be doing, know that i’m doing exactly what i should be doing, not having my mind off in the laundry list of todo’s.
Dana says
I would spend more time writing – I would love to have the time to write articles, about roadtripping with kids, for magazines!
jennybc says
I would enjoy my hobbies more ~ and maybe take up some new ones. I would love to be able to really invest in some friendships as well.
Ludim says
Play with my kids more and not feel guilty or stressed out because I should be doing a chore instead
Judy Pearson says
As a fulltime and part time working (young) grandmother of 10 I said 5 years ago I would make one day a week a day for me, I would go to the movies or I would see a play, 5 years later and I have seen one play and no movies alone, all cartoons…the best part is, with less stress I would still spend as much time as I could with those 10 grandchildren, their friends and any other children we could reach and inspire….I’ve learned to do my painting, creating, writing, movie going, all “with” them…the days for “me” perhaps will come, perhaps this is my path…and I am happy! I know there are many lives to touch…free me up to be a part of lives! 🙂
Karisa says
I would have people over, for a meal or coffee and visiting!
Heidi P says
Do personal photo projects on a regular basis.
Steph says
Have company more often.
Raymie Spencer says
I would date my husband more, and give him the time and attention he needs and deserves.
Chelsea says
I would write and become more active in a non-profit organization like the Stolen Crown Foundation or The Genesis Project, which focuses on helping women and girls in sex trafficking!
Nicole M. says
I would love to be able to learn more than just basics of sewing and to use my sewing machine to make things for my children and family. Also to read more books for pleasure.
Aimee Kelly says
I would create. Before kids, I sewed, embroidered, made cards, scrapbooked, etc. I miss it.
Sandi says
I would blog, and refinish furniture, and read a good book.
Brooke says
Sleep more, exercise more, and read a few good books!
lori says
I would play more with my kids & spend more time with my husband. Then I would catch up on some sleep.
Rachel Anna says
I would read, write, draw, and paint.
nooreen says
I would love to learn to paint.
Chris says
I feel like I rush through every moment of the day to get everything done. I’d love more time to linger over my coffee, chat with my children as we work together, and stop saying “we gotta hurry!” ALL the time!!
Christy says
I would like to work on my book of mom comics that will let woman know that they are not alone. I will teach basic lessons throughout the book such as breast feeding techniques while protraykng a funny scene that may happen while nursing. 😉
Amber Davis says
Find my happy self and start a book
Pamela says
If I were less stressed I would LOVE to simply play creatively & be silly w my toddler!
Rebecca Sarine says
If I felt less overwhelmed, I would sit and play with my kids more. I would spend more time outdoors, talking walks alone and with my family. I love to be outdoors but in this current crazy season of life, i find myself giving it up for all the things I think that I need to be doing.
Leslie says
I would spend time scrapbooking all of those pictures of our family. 🙂
Elizabeth C says
WRITE! I’d write a children’s church curriculum and books about the Bible for middle schoolers.
Breana says
I would spend more times with my children, playing instead of constant nagging. What time we were all together with my husband, maybe we’d be able to enjoy each other as a family instead of me barking orders feeling exasperated.
Amanda Warren says
Say no less often to my girls.
Angela says
I would spend more time with my children and be more engaged with my Husband.
Sarah says
sew and bake with my girls
Kelli says
I would be able to crochet more and learn to knit. I would have more me time which I really need to do. I would spend more time in studying the Bible 🙂
Kelly says
I would BE more present with my kids & husband, volunteer and spend more time connecting with friends and those who lift me up.
Kris M. says
I would read more and stop listening to the narrative of undone tasks constantly repeating in my head.
Michelle Adams says
I would take more walks. Explore more places….slow down….
Linda says
I would make cards for Operation Write Home for them to send to deployed servicemembers to help them stay in touch with their families back home. It’s something that’s been on my to do list for months.
Nicole m says
I would spend more quality time with my kids
Loree Pittman says
If I felt less overwhelmed, I would actually get a good nights rest for a change
April says
I would camp/hike/be out in Nature more. Nature soothes me. Nature brings me closer to God. Nature, calms me and lets me take a step back and think about how my days do not really need to be so complicated and fast. Nature reminds me that there is something more out there than my daily routine. I would take my children on longer walks and lazy days.
Tiffany Senio says
I would go back to school (even part time) to specialize in palliative care nursing (I’m an RN) as this is a huge passion of mine!
Nuta says
Exercise!
Jennifer Powell says
I would write more and play with my kids more.
Brenda says
I would definitely want to finish getting a college degree.
Jessica says
Exercise, crochet, sew, and go on dates with my husband and my kids (separately!), but not in that order!
Jenn Davis Wolfenbarger says
Early in my journey of faith, I am experiencing an insatiable hunger for anything God. I actually just asked someone if he thought it is possible to be ‘God Obsessed.’ I have gone through many different trials in a short time period that I now see as my direction to turn to Him. However, I am still so ignorant, I am learning simple facts they teach in Sunday School (Mary and Joseph were returning to Bethlehem because of a census? Hmmm…). If I had more time, I would delve and soak up as much of His Word as possible…and at the same time, make sure my three-year-old will have a stronger foundation of faith than I could imagine!
Michele says
Yay for you inspiring so many women today! I would feel less guilt, and I want to clarify my dreams so I have a road map when I have that free time!
Sarah says
I’d takes kids outside more…help them savor every moment if their childhood!
Katherine H. Burnett says
I would finally get my home organized, save money and begin writing…which I feel God has laid on my heart to do for sometime. I “retired” from my career less than 2 1/2 years ago because my husband and I were adopting two boys from foster care. Well, fast forward and we now have four children; a toddler and a baby too. Boy, are we busy and things just keep piling up. I seemed to have it all together as a professional corporate speaker who traveled for a living. Not so much now…I’m a bit out of my element. I need this book! 😉
Tina says
Can I have 2 things,please? You are so kind! Thank you!!
1). Invest love into my family !! 2). Build relationships & encourage other women.
Tiffany says
I would spend more time in my garden and enjoy the outdoors!!
Becky Keife says
Write more!!! Then read more. Pen and send more snail mail to encourage and delight those I love.
Krista says
I would learn to play piano and read more!
KimS says
Similar to another Mom’s post, looking back at all the “wishes” of things I’d have changed raising 4 children: spend more time playing, not sweat the little things, etc., I, now see my daughter struggling with those same issues (don’t all moms!?) She’s spent the last several months expressing her fears, while expecting her second child. Their new addition arrived this past Friday! I would gift this book to her, so hoping it would help. 🙂
Kristin says
I would love to have time to tackle the projects on my list of “someday” to-do items.
Jessica says
I would exercise more!
jennina pratt says
Not feel inadequate, worthless,and like a failure all the time or feel guilty for sdoing things for myself
Kaylee wadge says
Spend more time doing crafts with my toddlers 🙂
Stella says
I would do lunch more, lunch with my husband and children. With 7 children (2 grown and 5 at home), M.S., and a home to run, stopping to have lunch with one of my amazing family members (at their school or work) is not as easy as it sounds. If there’s not laundry, cooking, cleaning, doc appts., errands, etc., to do then there’s something else (not complaining, I enjoy my SAHM status). Yes, definitely lunch is what I would do, I enjoy that one on one time and I would love to be able to do more of it!!!
Brittany says
I would love to spend more time genuinely listening to people.
JENNY says
I would DEFINITELY want to learn how to relax more with my family. Spend time actually playing with my kids instead of always worrying what I should be getting done instead. And maybe squeeze in a date or 2 with my awesome husband! With 4 kids, that can be a tall order sometimes, but it’s possible 🙂
Cheryl says
I would love to spend more time with my husband & children just having fun.
Dianna says
I would play with my kids more. Although I am getting better at just putting things down and doing it, I still have a ways to go.
Jodi D. says
Play games with my kids! Or even print/scrapbook all their pictures.
Jen says
I would spend more time playing with my kids, while not worrying about everything else that is waiting to be done.
Kara says
I would play with my kids more!
Jill Koly says
I would start watching movies again.
Julie says
spend more time maintaining relationships with women friends
Gramma Sandy says
Spend more time with my grandchildren
Karen says
To be present in the moment and not worrying.
Nadine says
Right now being crafty keeps coming up, but just one thing? Gosh, that might be why it’s so overwhelming to feel stuck – because there are so many things I think I could/should be doing!
Christi B says
I think I’d sing more! Singing is something I do when I’m free to be me, free to worship and free to experience life so I’d definitely be singing!
Lisa says
I have had major superwoman issues in the past, thinking I had to do it all including homeschooling all my children, all the way through. It lead to complete burn out for me. If
I wasn’t quite so overwhelmed, I would write more and help other women more.
Beth WIlliams says
I would do more from scratch cooking for my husband. I enjoy it when I have the time to create a nice meal for the two of us.
Working full-time and taking care of my aging dad some just seems to take its toll some.
sindy simpkins says
I would like to give up the Martha Syndrome; to sit relax and enjoy life. To not always feel the need to worry about making everything be perfect for everyone else just to be filled with angry resentful thoughts at those people who take time to sit at the Feet of Jesus and draw near to him. I want to not feel guilty that I’m not doing everything on my list for the day and then some, I want to be still and know that its ok and the world will not fall Apart. I want to take time to fill my bucket before I start pouring into others.
Vanessa says
I would visit with friends more often either by hosting or by heading to their place.
Katherine says
I would get more sleep (3 kids, 4 years, 2 years, and 8 months). Once they’re bigger, I’d like to write a devotion book for preschool age kids.
Fiona says
I would create printed photo albums for my children, incorporating the hundreds of photos we’ve taken over the years (which are currently just sitting on my laptop and not being enjoyed.)
Valerie says
I would love to love life again. Find a new passion maybe. I’m thankful for many blessings but would enjoy a day different than the rest sometimes
Anna McB says
I would start journaling again and pray more!
Deborah Golden says
I would spend more time BEING a mom and wife in love
robbie @ going green mama says
I would enjoy things more instead of just focusing on my task list.
Jenny says
I would be more present in the lives of those I care about.
Lisa says
Spend more one on one time with the kids.
Vonda says
Make things with the kids and DIY projects for the home.
Kristen says
I would sew more!
Lydia says
I would relax more…something I rarely do. And part of that would involve spending time just being and enjoying my husband and children.
Ashley P says
I’d help my hubby get his dream job. That would help both of us, because then I could be a stay at home mom! 🙂
Mel Y says
If I felt less overwhelmed I would love to spend more quatlity time with my husband and kids!
Shaine says
In one word it would be HAPPINESS. I just do not have any down time. Working,going to school, three children(teens) I have no “me” time and I honestly feel too overehelmed to sit down and try to pencil it in to my life. I want to enjoy all the little things and want to be able to stop and smell the roses! I have missed out on so much and do not want to miss anymore moments.
Amy says
I would get my house in order/clean as I go through my day of homeschooling. It just piles up so fast that I can’t keep up.
Beth says
I would write and scrapbook more.
Kim says
I would take up piano lessons again, maybe read more and spend more time with family and friends.
Michelle says
I would read more.
Lindsey says
Fall in love with my life, my husband and my children. I want to slow down and appreciate what I have instead of seeing all the areas that require more more more.
Kelly says
Read more or play with my babes more!
Melinda says
Do more with the kids
Nicole Griswold says
I’d learn how to knit:)
Lori says
I would spend more time playing with my 5 kids instead of being constantly in motion. Also, get my sewing machine out more and teach my girls.
Sherry says
I would spend more time with my husband!! We are both working so hard we have no time or energy at the end of the day to have any fun.
Rozelyn says
I would live to spend the extra hours doing community service with my kids.
Jennifer R says
Be a calm present mother and wife. To just be able to be still and enjoy the chaos of 2 little boys without dreading the mess that they create. To be able to enjoy the company of my husband without thinking of a million other things I should be doing.
Stephanie says
I would feel free to play more with my kids
brittany stewart says
I would definitely write more if I was less exhausted. By the time I’m done with the girls, cleaning up after dinner and trying to get the rest of the house in order, I have a hard time finding the energy to really tackle the writing.
Stacey says
I would relax more which would give me the energy to focus more on my husband & kids.
Anna Kenison says
I’d spend the time thinking, get into my own head, figuring out how to improve me, improve my “family” skills, concentrate on new ways to build bonds with my kids, how to help guide them into being positive, healthy, loving, happy successful kids!
Laura says
I would take a class and cook more!
katie l says
spend more time with my husband
Angie says
I’d go on more date nights with my husband.
Jodi says
I would love to take better care of myself by exercising & learning to cook more healthy foods for my family!
Bethany says
I would take care of myself better, be more playful. And write more.
Terri Speight says
I would read more. I have shelves of books waiting to be read to share their personal insights with me. I would be more involved with a church ministry. Arts & crafts projects waiting to be made….my creative side is crying out for release. So many ideas so little time. But God first before anything else. Then it falls into place.
Alicia C says
I would spend more time enjoying my family rather than always running from one task to the next until I literally crash at night, too tired to even engage in the present moments.
Trina Zschering says
I would live and be in the present more, instead of worrying about what needs to get done in an hour, tomorrow, or even weeks from now. I would worry less, live more!
Ramona says
I would help the homeless by coordinating collections of needed basic items for them.
Amanda Johnson says
I would be less stressed and therefore I would be more patient and loving to my kids. I love them so much and I find my self being so harsh on them with yelling when I am stressed. I hate that. Also I would like to read and study more
Jessica Smith says
I am a mother of 6 children (one includes a 2 month old) yes, i gave birth to them all. I would definitely take time for candlelit baths & reading scripture more.
Ramona says
I would volunteer my time to help others.
Savannah says
I would read more, talk less, and be more at peace with learning by making mistakes.
SarahJane says
Find the time (and money) to treat myself to a massage (on a more regular basis than just Christmas and my birthday) . Spontaneous “dates” with my husband (after the kids are asleep). Make cookies with my 2 year old… something I have NEVER done with him, but had done countless times with his 4 year old brother by the time HE was this age. Blog more. Scrapbook. Organize my computer. Find time to EXERCISE… as I’ve been WANTING TO do it for…. well…. FOUR YEARS and have not found the time (with hubby’s 50-60 hour workweeks and ever-changing work schedule while I stay home with the kids). • • • THIS BOOK LOOKS FANTASTIC!!! Reading Hands Free Mama right now, but YOUR BOOK is high on my MUST READ list, too! Sounds PERFECTLY well-suited for my life right now. Thanks for the opportunity to win a copy; Fingers are crossed!
Teresa says
I would spend more quality time with my family. I would volunteer more at my kids school. I would stop and focus on becoming what god has called me to be not what others say I should be.
Teresa shane says
I would take my kids to do something fun without stressing about the things that need to get done and then relax.
Shannon says
I currently work full time, homeschool one of my 4 kids (he has asperger’s and dyslexia so he needed extra help), go to school part time (online) and participate in my kids’ afterschool activities. I thrive on being busy so that doesn’t bother me. What I would love to have though if finances allowed it is someone that would come clean my house. I hate housework and so it is at the bottom of my list even when I have down time; so being this busy allows me to excuse more messes than I should. I am blessed to have a husband that helps out so that removes a lot of the stress of the busyness and I also have the blessing of working from home so I don’t have the 75 mile round trip commute anymore.
Stephanie McKee says
This is me to a T..mommy of 3 wonderful toddlers under 4. Full time mom and housewife, part time banker….exhausted :/ I would love to let go and forget about if my house was clean, really I would.
I would love to read more and play with my 3 budding babies while they are still young and innocent 🙂
Christina says
I would give my time to hold a little one at Children’s hospital boston after a surgery or who is struggling to hang onto life. I couldn’t imagine not being there for my daughter in 2012 with five brain surgerys. I saw so many little ones with out any family to love them, it broke my heart.
Karissa says
I would spend more time reading books to help me grow personally
Kayla H says
I would love to be able to craft/sew more and introduce those things to my 4 year old daughter, just like my grandmother did with me at that age :).
Angie says
I would scrapbook and bike with my husband.
Tara S says
I would be more involved in the community
Theresa says
More quiet time in the mornings…because of going to bed earlier! 🙂
Sarah M. says
ONE thing? I always come up with great, feasible ideas for a small business, have dabbled in a couple, but always end up realizing I just don’t have the time. I need to focus on my kids (homeschooling with five kids aged 7 and under), my home (housekeeping, etc), my marriage (it’s a bummer to be too tired for a decent date-night), and the business my husband and I run together (www.blackmoosechimney.com). Even just a couple of days ago I thought of ANOTHER business idea and had to reel myself back to the reality that God has set before me yet again. Of course the goal is noble–earning extra money on the side to pay off debt–but clearly not what God really wants for me or my family. So maybe when my kids are older…or out of the house…or in retirement…I’ll be able to pursue my own little side business. In the meantime, maybe just a solid couple of hours here and there to nap, to read, to take piano lessons would be nice. But I am in a stage of life that is so full that I understand the need to put aside any *selfish* desire for “me” time and be fulfilled in meeting the needs of my family. We are all so much happier when I do! Did I answer the question? Not sure… just the morning caffeinated ramblings of a busy mom procrastinating at the computer before starting school with the kids. 😉 Would love to read the book, though!!
Jennifer Rehnquist says
I would love to be more at PEACE when I try to be PRESENT for my family, instead of anxiety overwhelming me in my mind.
Wendy says
I think I would like to take on more DIY home projects. Paint, repurpose furniture, make some artwork, just change the “inside” of the house. I’ve always wanted to do more of that, but time is just not my friend.
Janey L. says
I would love to learn more homemaking skills such as knitting and sewing.
Tiffiny Travis says
I would start back painting 🙂
Sara Kuhlman says
I would pursue my love of singing !
Jennifer says
Be with my family playing more
Melissa davenport says
I would love to blog more and sew more.
Jackie says
If I was less overwhelmed, I would start up a local Pregnancy and Parenting Center, offering free biblical help to women in need.
Marcie says
We adopted our daughter and I would love to have time to volunteer at the pregnancy crisis center. I’m a WAHM and am exhausted! Excited about your book!!
Seidy says
Spend more time with my husband and playing with my daughter…
Robin C. says
I have always wanted to write a book or a blog, or maybe even go back to school.
Jill says
If I didn’t feel so overwhelmed and exhausted, I would spend more time with my kids. We would try and get out of the house more instead of everything seeming like it is a chore, read more, and play more.
Anna says
I would learn to use my camera in manual mode to take many more pictures of my beautiful boys.
Kristy Degraaf says
Can I do three? Play the piano (besides just for church), scrapbook and yoga. And I think those all qualify as nurturing my passions so maybe that’s the “one thing” 😉
olivia says
Put a little focus on myself
Amanda S. says
I would craft more and have more mom friends over so our kids could play weekly.
Nancy says
I would focus on my husband more. Life has sucked the romance and zest out of life. We would have more time to focus on each other, without the distractions of kids and other responsibilities. 🙂
Jennifer says
I would spend more time immersing myself in the word of God, pondering and journaling. And also teaching my kids the things I was learning.
Angel Marks says
Take care of myself. Sleep, relaxing baths, lotion. manicures, hike, take care and love me!
Anna says
Mom of 6 under 7 here….would read more, play with my kids more, go for walks, scrapbook, sew….and the list goes on. We recently adopted our 6th child from foster care and now that I don’t have to worry about social workers constantly dropping by I have relaxed a little about the fact that my house seems to be in a constant state of disorder!
Heather says
Read a book and drink a cup of tea without feeling guilty
Margarita says
I would use my time more to write more on my spiritual journal, something i feel called to do and love to do, thanks!
Jeanette Puckett says
I would write and paint!
Jessica says
I would write more and work on being present where I am.
Karen Banister says
I would sew more.
Jenny says
I simply don’t know if I can write only one thing…. I could write a million. But for right now I just want one full day off with my family. No running, no schedules, no craziness, no late night editing, and most importantly no guilt.
Family is what is important. Period.
Missy says
I’d love to spend more time enjoying my kids. To have a picnic & lay on the blanket after & see what shapes the clouds are!!!
catherine says
I would exercise. It’s been on my list for so long and the one thing that always gets cut
Kindra says
I’d love to be able to rest more, enjoy my kids more and do fun things with my husband instead of worrying what needs to be done or wallowing in the work .
Karen Levy says
Would love more time to study scripture and read, but would also like more time to sew for my grand-daughter. I think she needs some play dress up clothes that only I can make!
Tonya says
I’d run more & I’d finally learn more about photography.
Tabitha says
Start a ministry
Lori V. says
I’d love to enjoy my husband and kids more. Feeling overwhelmed and exhausted leaves me feeling resentful of how much they need me. I know I need to make some changes!
Tracey R says
I would do more with my kids and with crafting I enjoy like knitting and scrapbooking. Thanks for writing this!
Melissa M. says
I would write more, record our family memories. And I would start Crossfit. Really want to try that :o)
Rebekah says
This is going to seem silly bc I’m a SAHM, but I want to read to my children more and go to the park or on walks. That’s what I’d do. I feel that I MUST get chores done, do projects for my son’s school and the community, help others, etc. I realize I’m missing this time, precious time, with my children because I’m overwhelmed with doing it all.
Kim says
Be more present in the moment with my hubby and children
Jennifer says
I’d love to be able to find more time to relax and spend time with my family. It’s a never-ending battle to get it all done!!
Marci Hubbard says
I would love to write a book, so many things to get out and express I think it would open so many doors for me and help me get over so many things.
Corrie says
I want to be a better mom and wife!!! Got to understand I have 6 kids a 18 year old boy, twin girls that are 12, a 7 year old boy and twin girl/boy that is 6!!!! I have always juggled everything great but the last few years have been very hard on me!!!! I just want to be a good wife and mother again!!! I would love to read your book. Thank you and congrats to whoever gets wins the books!!!!
Amy says
I am a mom to 6 and homeschool two that are school aged. This is our first year, so I make sure we learn the basics, but I would love to have more time to get into the things that take a little more time. They want to learn to bake and paint on real canvases. These are the things we just can’t seem to get to.
Jennifer Russ says
I will start with being more intentional. More intentional with the relationships I am building with my 4 children, with the love I have for my husband, with understanding the word and drawing closer to God. Just living a more focused life on the things that really matter, instead of being hung up on doing the laundry or making sure the bathroom is “fit for company”. That’s a lot of things, I know.
Sarah says
I have five children under seven and am homeschooling, so if I’m honest I would probably spend a little time alone…. Breathe, read a little, write a little, maybe exercise…
Sarah M. says
I, too, am Sarah, with 5 kids under 7 homeschooling. 🙂
Stephanie says
I would play with my kiddo more and get a nap occasionally! Can I add… Take a sick day when needed??
Marci Hubbard says
Email was wrong on last post
I would love to write a book, so many things to get out and express I think it would open so many doors for me and help me get over so many things.
Amanda says
Run and volunteer more at my kid,s school
Gina M Sampson says
My gosh! Like so many others this is exactly what I suffer from! I am my own worst critic my husband says. It’s so true! I enjoy helping others and would love to create a group that gives back to the community in different ways. I can’t wait to read your book! Thank you!
Jocelyn L says
I would use my gifts from the Lord to help others come to know Him.<3
Tina says
To be able to play with my girls more and not always be in a rush when I do promise them a bedtime story. Or to play a game etc…Just to be able to enjoy the moments.
Deb says
I would love more..naturally and be able to feel joyful and ENJOY my family and life.
Danielle says
In the time that I DO find…I take a nap. So if I were able to squeeze out some more I would make some IRL friends! I spend a lot of my time online due to my business and the rest of my day is filled with 2yr old exhaustion and house necessities. I need to find the time to make some friends.
Marcie says
If I could do one thing for myself I’d start a group at my church focusing on health, nutrition and exercise. If I could do one thing for my Family I’d stop yelling so much and spend more reality time with my precious babies!
Mara says
I would spend more time with my little boy. I want to go back to the simple things, like playing with worms, kicking leaves, and jumping in puddles.
Courtney says
I would spend more time with my husband & kids…I’m always here, but working from home, I’m never really engaged with them:-/. Everything is always so rushed. I don’t feel like we get enough together time just being a family & act actually interacting together:-(.
Angela says
I would definitely play with my kids more. They are almost too old to seek me out…have to do it while they still want me!
Mary says
I would carve out exercise time for myself.
Autumn says
As a momma of 5 boys,a wife,a daycare provider,a ministry leader for our church, a daughter,a friend, and all my other many hats I wear I would just be still…. I get overwhelmed a lot! I would like to take a deep breath,finish my coffee while it’s hot, listen to what God has to say and just relax in Him.
Dawn P. says
I have 4 children and am a full time student attending nursing school. If I felt less overwhelmed I would really love to spend more time with my family doing things that are important to them, playing games they love and getting involved with things they are interested in. For example, I have a 10 year old son interested in robotics, I would love to just watch him do something he loves and learn a little more about it. They grow up so fast, I would really love to put up my feet and see the world through their eyes while I still can.
Rhonda Daniel says
I would read & cross-stitch without feeling guilty. I know I need “me” time but I can still see all that needs to be done
Brandy says
I would do more photography. It’s always been a love of mine but with the shift work that my husband does, I never really get time to do it b/c of the ‘single parent’ roll I play.
Meleice says
As a new mom of twins with a 4, 6, and 8 year old I would spend more individual time with my babies.
Rebekah says
I saw this on Sarah Mae’s page and she had such a strong recommendation for it. Looks terrific. One thing? Probably spend a little more time on my house to make it more home like and less like a disaster zone so we could have more focused family time. Sometimes, the piles DO overwhelm me and I get caught up in that rather than in the moments I should be focusing on.
Joanna says
I would read more. I have always loved reading throughout my life, but with kids, and work, and home, etc., it is something that I don’t always make time to do…and I miss it!
Wendy says
I would exercise with my kids and enjoy some fun time instead of saying we can’t do anything because we have to stay home and clean…
Edith says
I would love to write some children’s books!!
Brittany says
I have three children two and under. Three wonderful little boys and while they are wonderful they are often the bane of my existence too. My husband deployed last January around this time and just returned in late November. With a year of “single” parenting under my belt, I have become a very angry and bitter person. I am trying really hard to get out of that place whether it be by skipping a load of laundry before bed, taking time for myself or just relaxing in a 15 minute bath when my husband walks through the door after work.
I think if I had the time, I would absolutely read more. I miss those quiet moments where I could just sot and read a few chapters out of my favorite book. No dishes were piled in the sink and there was nothing for me to do but sit. I would settle for a good, long nap!! My children bring so much joy into my life and I love being a mother. I just find myself wishing there was a way to have an identity outside of motherhood as well…..
amanda says
I would play more with my daughter and argue less with my husband, If I had less stress.
Jordan Rishel says
I would take the time to just sit and play with my kids. As a single mom with two kids and working three jobs to try to keep doing everything that we want to do, I would LOVE to just have some down time every day that we can sit and enjoy eachothers’ company. They are growing up too fast and I don’t want to have regrets later on that I didn’t have that time…..
Tiffany says
Take a dance class!
Andrea says
I would spend more quality time with my husband and focus more on my marriage.
ana says
I would spend more time doing the things that make me feel more fulfilled. Playing with my kids, doing crafts with them, reading books and spending more time with my immediate family.
Greta says
I would catch up and get back in to our family blog. It’s something I love and is sort of therapeutic for me but I haven’t had time for it since my 3rd was born over a year ago.
Nancy says
If i felt less overwhelmed, I would start a ministry in my neighborhood. I moved into a rough part of town a few months ago because I lost my home. My husband who has several addictions, left on New Year’s Day. Not having the chaos of living with an addict has made me think- What might God be bringing me into this season? I know He has been at work in this neighborhood, and I know that some people who live here have asked for a Bible study. I don’t know if that is my calling, but I know that I enjoy teaching children, and that all of my children are good at science and nature. The kids in the neighborhood all seem to congregate in front of our house when they play outside. I am wondering if God would like us to start a program to teach these kids about creation and about it’s Creator. I’m a Biology student and work part time, but I wish when I was home I had more energy to engage our family in serving our community.
Kelly Lescarini says
I saved for several years for a really good sewing machine…. I finally got it & have only sewn dance costumes and hemmed a couple things. I would love very much to be able to create something beautiful with it.
Amanda Musselman says
I would spend more quality time with my son and husband first and then I would put more time into my business. My goal is to retire my hubby, but I don’t feel like I have enough time to focus.
Jennifer A says
Time for more patience!
Becky Pepin says
I would take the time to help my children learn to be organized rather than just barking orders at them when we’re late because of disorganization.
Misty says
I would concentrate on memory making and keeping with my husband and children.
Kerri Brodehl says
I would play with my 3 kids more and not feel guilty about the dirt waiting for me. I wouldn’t have to set a limit on the amount of books to read with them. I could cuddle until they were ready to do something new.
Cristy Tucker says
I would get a full night’s sleep! That way I could be more functional (and fun) for my quality time with my twin toddlers…..and my high schooler if I am not too uncool for her 😉
kristy says
I think id help more people. . Its what i love to do.. . But i must say that i think us women have all felt like we need to do it all, but we dont, and God doesnt expect us to. We are not judged by God on if our laundry is perfectly pressed and our toliets clean(yes some things are a must!) But we dont need to kill ourselves or rob our family or self by trying to do it all… i learned this after my 3rd child was extremly sick for a loonngg time n i never could sleep, and i do mean never as in mayb 2 hrs all together in a night. . therefore, housework went to the wayside. . Everyone expected that i should b cleaning the house(yes, i shoulda, but no sleep makes u to tired to eso w a sick child) so moms, wives, do yourself a favor, and your family, and put some things on the back burner, or even off the stove if u can, and dont sweat the small stuff, OR have a spotless house and attend every pta meeting n give everyone else all of you, except yourself and your family because lets face it, . . Who and what is more important??
Jennifer says
I would spend more time with my Husband and more time playing games with my toddler.
Lesley says
I would spend some time doing absolutely nothing!
Megan says
I would garden more!
Megan says
I used to paint and draw. I would love to do that again. I would also love to actually feel like I had time to spend with my family that wasn’t scheduled. I would also put more time into my cake business because it is like my edible art.
Jennifer T says
I would take more time for myself- take relaxing baths, start reading books again, or even an occasional nap.
Audra says
I’d like to have more time to do creative/craft activities with my kids.
Jen c says
I would love to volunteer at school helping in my sons classroom. I would also finish my youngest sons Christmas stocking that I started when he was first born. Every year I get it out hoping to finish it and only get to put a couple hrs into it before putting it away again. Oh and to learn how to better organize and structure my house so I can come home to less cluttrr
Diane G says
I would spend more time making memories with my kids instead of just what has to happen. Spend more time with my Momma who has recently been diagnosed with Alzheimers. I always say we are going to go spend time with her once a week at least and it seems to hardly ever happen. I believe I would feel the excitement of going to church again, and my husband and I would really go on a date once a month.
Kellie says
I would spend more time playing with my kids.
Joan says
I would sit and color, draw and create with my kids. My Grandma spent hours doing this with me and I’ve never forgotten it. My kids will probably just remember me as the crabby lady who always had a laundry basket in her hand.
Michelle B says
one thing you would love to do if you felt less overwhelmed: i would feel less stress around my family and take up on my old hobby: sewing to do fun projects for my family! Especially got new machine which has barely touched. Also play more with my 2 children especially growing up so fast.
Megan says
I would spent more time with my husband.
We are apartment ministers together, and are both in graduate school (he’s in seminary and I’m getting my MBA). I work a full-time job an hour from home, and he just accepted a coaching position. We celebrated our first anniversary right before the holidays, and between all of our commitments, I feel like we haven’t been able to have that “honeymoon” period where we are just… married.
Looking forward to the day that the commitments ease up–it’s just a season, but it’s been a tough one! Survival mode is exactly where we’re at.
I’ve been eying this book since I heard about it… I think it’d be a good read for BOTH of us. 🙂
Jennifer miles says
I would spend more time with my kids and husband and would love to learn more cake decorating tips and photography tips.
Cassie says
It’s not easy to admit but I would build more time in for my kids. It’s something that makes me tear up thinking about, and something that I dream about while sitting at my desk in my office. When I had my babies, I never imagined being that full time working mom. I thought I’d probably work part time and devote most of my time to the boys. Yet 4 years later, I sit here at a GOOD full time job, with laundry and dish piles to the ceiling at home, and an ever looming feeling of stress that I can’t get it all done. I’d love to learn how to do it all and have enough time for everyone before my kids grow up…
Lindsay says
Sleep and spend more time with my husband
Melissa says
I would go hiking with my son.
Susan says
Commit to a more involved fitness routine or go back to volunteering at a local animal shelter
Amy says
I would be fun again!
Christy says
I would do more for myself. I mean going out with my friends for lunch, putting on makeup and wearing pretty shoes!
Marla says
I would play with my kids more and I would finally learn how to use that really cool camera I bought fort self but have never really figured out.
Jessica says
I would do the simple, important things tht I’ve just stopped doing- I mean as simple as drinking enough water throughout the day! I would exercise, I would read a magazine for fun. Most of all, I would be in the moment. These times with my baby are going so fast, and I feel like I mentally miss out because I’m always thinking ahead to what else needs to get done for my family to survive.
Carrie Everett says
I would be more intentional in playing with my kids and spending time with my husband. I would also love to learn more about photographing my children in the everyday life.
Julie says
I would do family history.
Micaela says
I would spend more one on one time with my kids. I would create more……. More love, more art, more togetherness.
Desiree J says
I would love to sew more, especially with a baby girl on the way.
Leah says
Yoga. Having more time to focus on myself, both physically & mentally, would no doubt help me to be a better mother, wife, and boss.
Amanda says
I would love to have a better quality of family life. I play with my kids but don’t enjoy it like I use too. I would love to not feel like I’m failing as a mom and wife because I don’t have anymore to give at this point.
Tammy S says
I would spend quality time with my kids.
Jasmine says
I would re-incorporate our family reading time each evening. We would all have either hot chocolate or hot tea, (no tv) and everyone read a book of their choice for 30 min, and then we each take turns talking about what we have read, and then as a group, discuss the book, plot, and characters.
Being recently divorced with 2 boys and a full time career, this nightly activity has slipped away.
Cheri Arellano says
I would get down on the floor and play with my kids more. I’d also be more committed to myself and make it more of a priority to take some quiet time.
Ange says
I would create more art, love on my kids and husband, cook and bake for my family….just be happy….
Sarah S says
I would like more focused playtime with my child. It’s fun but I feel like I always have housework pulling me away.
Maria Mitchell says
for me = exercise for my kids= play more for my husband= be more attentive to his needs
Megan says
I can think of so many things! I would definitely sleep more, be present more with my family, and take better care of myself.
Anah says
Spend more time with my 5 children!!!:)
Raquel Beaty says
I would have more time to sew and spend time with my 3 “babies.”
Melissa Wagner says
Live in the moment. I am doing better as I have gotten older. I realize time is fleeting as next year I will have two in college. I am trying to stop when my kids want me to sit with them as I know all too soon they will not be here. I have four kids. I don’t think it will be a perfect house they will remember (well it won’t because it never is) but it will be the little things and just having time to listen.
Shastin chin says
I would be present with my family more and spend more time with my son.
Sherry says
I would like to have the extra time just to spend with my children. And maybe some me time!
Tara H says
I would buy a sailboat and sail. Not only me but with my kids and my husband. The water is what calms us the most.
Melissa says
I would sew for fun and focus on decorating my home better instead of just maintaining.
Corrie says
Appreciate life’s moments rather than focusing on things that could be done.
Jolene says
I’d write more music, as I have in the past, as a learning tool for our kids to memorize scripture and other important truths.
Sandy M says
I would be more present when I’m with my kids- I would read to them, sing with them, build block forts and castles, cuddle dollies, and do more art projects; now I watch them do these things from a distance while I run my business, cook meals, vacuum floors, or fold laundry.
Paula says
I would spend more time with hubby and kids, and less time frozen in indecision and overwhelm. I would create more, and stress less.
Katie says
If more time was freed up, my husband and I would open our own business. It’s been our dream to start a Christmas Tree farm since my husband was a forestry major in college. This past year we started making Christmas Wreaths to sell and save up, and although it was great, it was another commitment.
Heather R says
If I had more time, I would spend it with my children. I’d love to be able to take them places more often – like the zoo or museums or the library. Even just picnics in the park. I fit those things in when I can, but would love to be able to do it once or twice a week instead of once a month.
Jodi says
Oh my. I just discussed this with my husband Sunday evening. I would serve! Although he’s trying to get me to understand that I am serving by being here for him and my girls, I would like to be able to serve others, as a family, with the blessings, gifts and talents we’ve so graciously given.
Cindy says
I would like to receive this book so I could give it to a precious friend of mine. She is active in so many areas…teaches school, Sunday school, church youth, and other outside activities. She just has a very hard time saying NO. She desires to spend more quality time with her family. This book would be a blessing to her.
Thanks for offering the giveaway!
jennell says
what wouldn’t I do with less on my plate?? put more focus on homeschooling my oldest, play with my sweet baby, jump start on potty training my middle baby…maybe even a date with my husband **gasp** maybe even attend some church events ((and maybe even become the leader for my American Heritage Girls again))
Dawn says
God has been working on me for a while now about writing a book. I find myself trying to write, and the things running through my head are the laundry, bath time, vacuuming, daycare kids…the list is eternal! I would love time to just think!!
candice says
I would do more yoga…..because it centers me and allows me to breathe. Im a better mom when I do.
I hope you choose me because this book was made for and about me, I can tell you right now.
Blessings all…
Melanie @ Carmel Moments says
I would love to have time for more diy projects. I desperately want to learn to crochet. But I don’t learn new things quickly. I would also love to have more time to make some of the fun simple projects I’ve pinned on Pinterest.
Time management is my goal this year to make more room for fun and important things in life.
Thanks for sharing Crystal!
Loren-Li M says
I would use that time for family activities and outings. My husband and I are both active duty Army, so besides the few hours after work when we pick up the kids (three boys ages 3, 2, &1) from daycare until bedtime, we really don’t get a whole lot of time to go places. I want my kids to see so much and I would love more time for just me and my husband.
Rhiannon says
I’d exercise & play the piano – both huuuuge stress relievers for me that I can’t find time for anymore.
Amy says
I would spend more time exercising, reading, and meal planning.
Lynn says
I would get back into running. I felt so good and was healthier when I “had time” to do it. I miss it. It helped make me a better mom.
Krystle says
I would make our home more beautiful and interesting. I would open an Etsy shop. I would write.
Sona says
I would share your message with my DIL who judges her worth by her ability to keep every thing perfect. It is exhausting to watch and my son and the relationship suffers.
Bethany says
Be a better wife!
Christi says
I would exercise my body, cook healthier meals, spend more fun (not just task-oriented) time with my husband and baby, and, most of all, spend more time each day in God’s Word and prayer!
Melissa says
I would be more present in the moment with my son and husband, not always worrying about what to do next or feeling guilty for sitting down for a few minutes instead of cleaning
Tanya says
I would go on dates with my husband. We’ve been married for almost 9 years, and I feel like we don’t “date”. Our current dating regimen is watching one or two of the multitude of shows taped to our dvr, hoping we stay awake. Not that I don’t like our time together or the fact that we finally get to catch up one of the shows that we are currently 8 weeks behind on, but going out for a dinner, a movie, or even a trip to Lowe’s would be nice every once in a while.
Laura says
I would love to have more time to just live in the moment. Too often I am on the hamster wheel trying to keep up and stay one step ahead of what we need to do next. This often leads to me feeling overwhelmed and stressed to the point that when the moment is happening I don’t actually get to just enjoy it with my family. I can’t wait to read the rest of the book…thanks Crystal!
Teri says
I would spend more time with my son.
Laurel says
I would love to read more!
Julie says
I would have more fun with my four girls instead of being frustrated with them all the time. Also learn to use my new sewing machine…
Bernadette Turner says
Take more time for myself I put everyone else on front of my and this year I finally realized I’m not getting any younger and my health will not get any better if I do not do anything about it….so exercise haircuts regularly spending money on myself…The little things 🙂
Kristen says
I would learn to play the piano.
Shanthy says
I would enjoy nature more
Sheena says
I once read that carving out a little solitude can make a world of difference. I believe so… I think this is oh so true especially for us moms who think and feel that we are really responsible to get everything done and yes Mom, I am also guilty that I hate running in “beta” mode… I want them done as quickly and as perfectly as possible. Those multiple priorities and mental notes are also screaming loud and clear, makin’ my head burst & yell… sad but true, so difficult to admit that sometimes we are oh so blue… well, what can we do? Yes, It’s still a beautiful world. Breathe. Live. Smile and repeat. 🙂 Happy Momma equals Happy Home Sweet Home, right?
So, I would love to reconcile with myself & my deserted dreams if I felt less overwhelmed. 🙂
Heather says
I would visit with friends more often.
Kristen Baird says
I would do more crafts and make things if I weren’t so overwhelmed.
Debbie Kelley says
I would spend so much more time in Gods word soaking up everything I can learn about Him. I feel there is a calling on my life and in order to be who He is calling me to be I need to do this. But…. Yes the big BUT…… due to financial issues and just simply to much to juggle with work, family, housework, meals, errands, customers, friends, paperwork, laundry etc… EVERYTHING feels important and demanding to the point I can’t sort it out and I never seem to get to it ALL.. Would love to read your book and just see how someone else has conquered the insanity.
Debbie
Lisa Saunders says
I would read and create more. I love to do all types of crafts but never have the time.
Riana says
I’d spend more quality time with my girls and husband, I feel like my mind is always looking for something that needs to be done…. I’d try to go out and make friends, mom friends, because all my others work… I’d journal more for my girls, love to pick up sewing, just so many things, but right now I don’t feel like I have the time to do….
Chris says
I would love to spend more time with my disabled daughter.
Brandi says
I would def play with my children more and exercise more.If I exercised more often,I would have more energy to play with my 3 kids!I feel like I am constantly cooking or cleaning and no one helps!It seems so unfair that I work 24/7 with no one that seems to appreciate what I do and I get a bad attitude about it sometimes which leads to a lot of griping and nagging them to help.i don’t want things to be the way they are and I am ready for change!
Kelli says
The top two things I miss doing are: getting lost in a great book and spending time at the gym, focusing on my health!
Kelsey says
I would “be still” more often. God rewards me with peace when I do this with Him!
Jodi S says
I would spend more time being creative!
Andrea R. says
If I had more time, I would do more craft projects with my kids!
Janet says
I would do more crafts with my kids!
Stephanie says
I would spend more quality time w my family instead of always worrying about something else. I hear my kids, I don’t always listen. I see my kids, I don’t always interact. I’m constantly worrying about what needs to be done and what I haven’t done that I need to.. I need to s l o w d o w n.
Heather Barbee says
I would love to play with my kids without that lingering feeling that I should be doing something more productive.
Jen says
I’d date my husband.
Cindy says
I would love to have a day with just my husband and be able to have the time to really talk.
Mary Link says
I would work on my art….it’s my passion, but it lands at the bottom of my “never-ending” list.
Karen Reep says
Read and write more!
cassandra rauscher says
Take classes. I am a student at heart, I love to learn, and to share what I learn. I would really like to learn Hebrew!
Melissa says
I would relax and not feel guilty about it.
Emily says
I think I would like to try writing if I had more time. Or take up piano. It depends on the day you ask me!
Sheryl Fielbrandt says
Love on my husband and play with my kids.
Samantha t says
I would play with my family more, sleep more, exercise more, .
Christine W. says
I would train for a mini marathon again, something I haven’t done since before I had kids
Kerri says
At first I thought I would spend more time with my kids, but then, I thought what I really need is more time to workout and lose weight.
Rene says
I would just enjoy life! I would spend more time with my 5 daughter’s and truly marvel at what wonderful young women they have become. I would spend more time with my fiance who is such a kind, gentle and very understanding man. Then for myself, I would start writing. Writing is something that I have always wanted to do, but always felt that I never had enough time to write, re-write, and hone my craft.
Maria Donofrio says
I think it is already too late for me. I had to work when my kids were small and now I don’t know how to stop! But if I could do it all over again, to be a SAHM would be my ultimate dream! Spending real quality time…playing with, reading to, and loving on kids would be heaven. I will make it come true when I have grandchildren! That is my new goal!
Jayma says
The thought of having 5 minutes without an agenda is so unrealistic I can’t even think of a response. I wouldn’t know what to do. But, I would love to volunteer and ‘give back’ more.
chantel says
I would read more!!
Erica says
I would let my kids have more playdates with their friends.
Chritine B says
It feels selfish to say, but I’d love to sleep more! 🙂
Dawn says
I think if I had more time, I would simply… breathe. Take a deep breathe and exhale. Then I could open the eyes I’ve had clenched closed, to shut out the chaos, and see the beautiful things around me.
Laurie says
I would go on a missions trip to Mexico or Africa where there are little children who need to be shown what Love looks like, what loving a father (Jesus) looks like & a mother who loves them & cares for them. I am not a young mother anymore I’m a grandma & some day I would like to also take my granddaughter w/me on a missions trip I have heard that it changes your life in dramatic ways.
For today being a 24/6 live in caregiver I would love more time to get involved at church, to take a sewing class, to have more time to be crafty.
Kelly N. says
If I wasn’t so overwhelmed, I would be more willing to allow the kids to do more, spend some of my time volunteering, and hopefully grow my business! I’ve reached the point of admitting I can’t keep up, so I would love to read your book!
Linnea says
I would spend more time intentionally loving my husband and two little boys…delighting in them, planning fun times, just being with them without always thinking about the next things “to do”. 🙂 I’d love to win a copy of this – looks like it will be great!
Rachel says
I would be able “stop” my thinking, planning, doing & worrying to be present & in the moment with my kids. I would be free’d to soak in the small moments which often turn out to be the most important moments in life. I would stop to feel the sun shining on my face and the wind blowing through my hair. I would smile more. I would be the best version of myself.
Sarah says
Saving the world! 🙂 Really it just consists of just helping other people more.
Adriana Bedwel says
I love to bake, its a passion of mine and I want so bad to have a bakery. I am an Air Force wife and I bake as often as I can for the base(not as often as I would like) so extra time would be spent baking for my Airmen and spending more time with my kids and husband hands down.
emalee says
I’d go back to learning the cello and take time to practice. Beautiful music in the house is a real delight.
Varsha says
I would love to paint and draw.. it has been 9 yrs since marriage and I have not done even 1 painting or drawing..
Adriana says
I would paint watercolors again. I loved doing that way back and it was so relaxing and restoring, but no time for that these days.
deb benjamin says
I would love to have more time to quilt and maybe start to paint again.
Joanna says
I would find more fun things to do with our son 🙂 And I would LOVE a copy of this book! 🙂
Megan says
I would devote more time to getting my business going.
Linda says
I would do all of the fun things I wish I would have time for….attending all of my kids events, home crafts, parks, visiting my aging parents (now it is mainly only for holidays, they come here, but to babysit while I try to catch up with errands, appts, etc), having friends and family over to our house (and the kids friends, our house is a dump), volunteer at my kids schools and church, volunteer in my community, go on more than one or two date nights with hubby in a year (financial reasons too), sigh…. I am blessed with happy and healthy kids, 4 of them! 🙂
Trisha says
Spend more one on one time with my children.
Linda says
… Oh, and I would take some time for me….just me. I really don’t know exactly what I would do, it has been so long since I have had me time, but I would come up with something.
Sarah Bryant says
I would learn to sew so I could make my own curtains instead of paying a gazillion dollars for ugly ones!!
Vickie says
I would spend more time playing with my children and find time to crochet, knit, and read!
Amy says
I would spend more quality time with my family, our ministry, and with friends. Also, I would try and have more people over for meals.
Kelly says
I would play! I don’t play with my children as much as I should. I always feel like I should be doing something else so I don’t hear “what did you DO all day? The dishes are a mile high” I really want to play guilt free with my kiddos 🙂
Sue says
Smile more! my older kids say they remember a lot more calmness and a lot more smiling than my younger ones 🙂
Kim Chadwell says
The list is long, but if I had more time, I would definitely devote more time to writing. I have always wanted to write a book, but with a family and work, I never seem to have time to allow myself to pursue this dream. I would also love to travel with with my husband. One day .
Karrie says
I would volunteer. I would love to teach my kids the value of service but feel so overwhelmed by our daily obligations that it too often goes by the wayside.
Meghan says
Two things:
1) I would sit with my kids. Just sit with them. When they’re playing. Even when they’re watching TV. There are a lot of little things I love about just watching them in action. Watching them play with each other (or watching my son TRY to play with his still-baby sister). So many great moments I miss by running around, folding, switching laundry loads, loading the dishwasher. I would just sit with them.
2) I would write for my kids. I’m a copywriter by day so I write for brands and websites and ads – all things that are important to today’s marketplace but that won’t be around when my kids grow up. I’d love to focus on writing more for my kids. Writing down things that I want them to know when they grow up in journal posts, writing little poems for my daughter that I’d like to frame on her walls. Just really using this love for writing to help my kids become better people, feel more loved.
Thanks for pushing me to really think about it.
Rikki J. says
I would go to a women’s bible study and volunteer if I was less overwhelmed and had some free time. I don’t think my husband would be on board for any outside help. I work part-time and take care of the kids and house and I feel like a failure every day because my house is a total disaster and I am terrible at meal planning. What we really need is for me to make more money, which means work more, but then even less would get accomplished at home and in our lives. I just don’t know how other moms who work full-time and single moms do it. I definitely feel inadequate when I can’t perform half as good as they do.
Carissa W says
I would spend more time actually being with my children.
Amy L. says
I would love to host big dinner parties for friends, for all ages and for lots of fun occasions. I really love to cook, and I would love to have a few WOW! parties for my family and others who I want to get to know better. I’d end most meals with creme brulee, my favorite dessert that I’ve never learned to make!
Brittney says
I would get more done around my home vs. barely getting by on everything!
Ashley says
I would go for more runs!
LeeAnn J. says
I would write and encourage more! Encouraging others encourages me and I would love to have more time to do it!
Tracy Snedeker says
I would take the Foster Parenting classes and become a Foster Parent. I’ve always wanted to and have even gotten all the information about it but I’ve never believed that I had the time to get started. Then I start to feel badly that I can’t even get going on taking the classes, so maybe I don’t have what it takes to be one after all. Arghh!
Jessica C. says
I would start blogging again, and go back to school.
Kristi A. says
I would read more and take better care of myself.
Joy H says
My kids are older, and pretty self sufficient now, but if I had more time & stopped trying to do everything, I think I would definitely read more. In addition to that, I would like to try and find out WHAT I would like to do more. I have spent my whole adult life being wife & mom that I’ve lost a little bit of who I am and what I like to do. I’m not the same person I was 20-something years ago when I started having children, so it would be exciting for me to just find out what I would like to do for myself now!
Suzanne says
If I had more time, I would play more games with my kids and plan more get-togethers for my kids with their friends–the fun stuff seems to get put at the end of the to-do list.
Lisa says
I would spend time with my kids other then just getting them ready and having dinner together. I would also do ministry again. It’s been years since I have done ministry and feel like I don’t have time. I would also take care of myself more by exercising and having ” me” time without feeling guilty.
jillian says
If I had more time I would try to spend more time with my husband. We work complete opposite shifts, plus with both of us in school, we’re trying to start a family and if we barely have time or each other I can only imagine how it will be when a baby comes into the picture. I would also put myself first, sometimes. I’m that type of person that does everything and anything for anyone else before I do something very small for myself. I always have put others before myself and I feel as if I had more time maybe I can do something special for myself, I deserve a treat too, right? (:
Amy says
I would spend more time with my kids and husband.
Brandi Bussard says
Just play with my kids, 1 and 7. I work full time, feel like I never get to just play, with no time restriction!!!!
Rhonda says
I would put my husband back where he belongs after God and before our kids.
a. macdonald says
I would spend more time in the moment with people letting them know how valuable they are (and a little more gardening too!).
Andrea F. says
I would sleep and also probably get some freezer meals done to make life a little more simple.
Melissa Rouzer says
I would spend more time with my two little boys (2 1/2 and almost 5). Time is slipping away from me right in front of my eyes but I always feel like I’m running behind.
Maribel M. says
Would spend more quality time with my kids and start potography again.
Nikki Haile says
Gosh I wish I knew where I would start with what I would do! My hearts desire is to love and serve my family. I love my work…but I sure would love to find balance to do it all “better.” 🙂 Thanks for your words of honesty…they do give hope! 🙂
Audra S. says
I would make a vegetable garden, and grow food to eat and also give away to others.
Sheila says
I would exercise, sleep more, read more & play with my kids!
Christina says
I would spend more time doing activities with my kids- arts and crafts, outdoor exploring, etc!
Nicole M says
Wow when I read this, I thought it could have been me writing this! I am a 33 year old mom to two beautiful children ages 1 and 7. I work full time from home while taking care of our daughter. Between work, taking care of the kids, my sons sports schedule and taking care of all of the household duties, I feel like I can’t catch up! I’ve often thought about hiring a housekeeper to come help out once per week but I felt that I should be doing my family’s household chores. If I had more help with the house, I would spend more time playing with my children and less time trying to catch up on laundry, dishes, sweeping, mopping, vaccuming and trying to keep the house picked up. I feel like I’m trying to be super mom and I’m failing.
Courtney says
I’d love to get back to sewing, for myself and the kids. They need to see me doing it and enjoying it if they are going to learn to love it.
Melissa says
I would play more with my kids instead of constantly worrying about the housework and other things that need to get done.
Robin says
I would try my hand at blogging.
Jennifer says
If I were not feeling so overwhelmed, I would sleep and exercise more regularly.
Jennifer says
I would be more present with my son instead of worrying about all of the things I need to cross off my to-do list.
Amanda morris says
I’ve just presently joined and I love it! Since my 2nd 3 months ago its been hard. Reading your post today made sense! I’d love to win your new book! I want to repair my relationship, play more with my daughters, read, sleep, go to church, be more Positive! And get a maid!!!!
Erinne Sikich says
I would exercise more!
Mary says
I would go on a date with my husband, cuddle with my kids, and exercise. (Exercise is my stress relief.)
Alicia says
Spend more time with my husband and kids, and improve my food blog… Those are at the top of the list!
Melissa says
I would take more adventures. There are so many interesting, fun places I want to check out locally, foods I want to try at restaurants and things I feel like I want to explore more…but the day always seems to be jam-packed with the endless tasks of laundry, cooking, errands, this and that. Thank you 🙂
Jessica says
I would read more, cuddle with my kids, & travel!
Kristy says
I would most certainly write more. I love to send letters, notes, cards to those i am praying and thinking of but there just doesn’t seem to enough time. I would also get some free journaling for my own benefits. Thank you!
Jennifer says
I would exercise and spend more time becoming a better cook.
April says
I would focus more on playing with the kids rather than keeping the house perfect.
Emily R. says
I would love to have more one on one time with my children.
Erin says
Oh how I long to PLAY. Build a fort, set up a dollhouse, have a tea party…
Jill F. says
I would take some time to myself and read. It is something I love to do but haven’t had much time for lately due to the season of life I am in.
Melinda says
I would take more time to just enjoy spending time with my husband and two beautiful little girls…and not be preoccupied with thinking about all that I feel I need to do.
Connie Brown says
I’d love to be able to take online classes to further my education. Between homeschooling, traveling for hubby’s work, routine ‘mommy’ stuff, I just don’t have time. A girl can dream right?!
Lindsay says
If I had money the money I would stay home, make my art instead of teaching it in an over crowded public school, be in the moment with my family, and actually make art with my own child. I’m in constant prayer for that to happen!
Andrea West says
I would learn how to golf!
Nancy says
read more
Deirdre says
I would like to pursue birth support work. I’m already a doula but haven’t been able to focus on it like I want because of my crazy schedule.
Ashley says
I would love to be able to just relax after the kids are in bed. No body needing anything, nothing to be done, I could just sit and enjoy the quiet if i wanted or watch a movie or whatever else. When they are awake I could spend more time playing with them instead of trying to get things picked up so they can play.
Sheila says
I would actually sit back and read along side my son or do some scrap-booking , something that has been non-existent since my husband passed away in 2006 and left me a single mom that has tried to do it all ever since.
Christen says
get to my reading pile (which would also clear my bedside clutter!)
Nikki says
Enjoy time being with my family instead of always feeling like I’m behind and trying to catch up
Rachel says
I’d LOVE this book right now! We just moved to a new state 3 weeks ago, and took on a new youth ministry. I’m staying at home trying to get settled in, make our house a “home”, and prepare for our first baby (only 11 weeks to go!). I worked full-time before, but now that I’m HOME full time, I am EXHAUSTED trying to do all the things I thought I’d have time for once I was a stay-at-home-mom.
I’d LOVE LOVE LOVE to have the time & energy to build relationships with some of the girls in my husband’s youth group, as well as some other young women in this area! Maybe even do Bible studies with them!
Maureen says
I would love to create more. Write, knit, sew, garden.
Stephanie says
I would be present to my children and husband more.
Melissa Ervine says
Honestly, I would create “me” time. As of now, there is none. Take a hot bath, paint my nails, read a book or magazine…. I think some “me” time would leave me refreshed and I could be THAT Mommy and Wife. 🙂
Heather says
I would scrapbook and work on my boys baby books. I am a tad bit behind they are 4 and 7!
Shaylin Morgan says
I’d focus more on improving my photography skills and truly consider starting my own photography business.
Mama Murrey says
I would take a nap, so I could do mothering and homemaking and wife-ing better.
Kelly says
Wow! What a relief to hear this from someone just as focused on family as me. I spend so much time trying to manage my time to get everything done, and being angry because I just can’t do it all. I try to change my husband and demand his help, but he can only do so much. I need to spend more time being happy, and no sweating the small stuff. So hard to do:(
Liz Landes says
I would love to go on dates with my husband.
alissa says
Have more one on one time with each of my children!
Joy says
I would definitely spend more time playing with my daughter if I was less overwhelmed!
Rosalinda says
I would actually put together scrapbooks that I have “trying to get to” for the past 10 years. I would spend my weekends and days off doing more than catching up on housework. I would LIVE life instead of just trying to always catch up to old tasks. I think I would smile more, laugh more and be a better wife, a better mother, a happier me, the way I used to be… so long ago. I would not feel guilty over having fun, and would not dread that doing so would mean more work later.
Janeen says
I would love to do more with reading and hobbies (like cross stitch). Thanks for the giveaway!
Denise says
If I felt less overwhelmed I would have my personal moment of peace. I would crochet someone an afghan or some slippers. I would sew a nice bag for my daughters for their batons and cheer items. I would read a book within a reasonable amount of time (as opposed to several months). But most importantly I would be able to stop and listen to the world around me as God’s love is expressed in nature in my own backyard.
Christy Grimsbo says
I would play with my kids more and date my husband more!!
Ann says
I would be more of a Martha instead of a Mary. This life is too short to be wasting with much ado about nothing 😉 I need to be disciplined to rest and recover so I can work on what I’m here for!
MelissaJoy says
Sleep! Gearing up for homeschooling our first born, taking care of a new baby and supporting my husband in a new job has me a bit overwhelmed some days. I can’t soak up all of the goodness happening when I don’t have enough sleep. So many women can relate and I know I am not alone. Thank you for writing your blog and now this book. Such wisdom you impart.
Alisha Books says
I would love to be able to make more baby rag quilt blankets to donate to a local pregnancy center which helps women though the process of choosing life for their child.
Jason says
I would love to go to school to learn some new things! If only I didn’t want to add more stress to my plate!
Ann Ray says
I’d love to be able to play with my daughter more and nap more. Thanks for the contest!
Lisa says
Sleep, first. One-on-one time with my husband, children and friends, next.
Marilyn says
If I felt less overwhelmed, I would practice being present in the moment rather than mulling over all the things that need to be done in the future. Rest, play, and peace are a few things I could use a lot more of!
Andrea says
I would like to read more…it would be fun to have the brainpower left to read both challenging books to expand my mind and fun books to relax.
Sarah S says
I would read more!
Cj says
I would love to spend more time learning alongside my kids and maybe think more seriously about homeschooling them.
Noelle says
I would love to blog 🙂 but there’s just no more time in the day right now!
Teish says
I’d do more writing and spend more time just hanging out with my kids.
Amy says
finally start my blog!
Jenny says
I would love to volunteer more at my daughter’s school!
Rhonda Gillon says
I would like to know my neighbors better. We have been here in TX for 2 years and I haven’t meet anyone because I’m always so busy taking care of my family and house. I have 4 kids and a 5 bedroom house and no outside help. This book would be idea so I may learn some tips.
Kelly says
Have a little “me” time without feeling guilty about time spent with my kids and being frustrated and depressed about all not getting done.
christa says
I would definately spend more time being present with my children instead of trying to hurry and get everything done.
Jamie says
I would sit down to eat.
Jessica says
Definitely spend more time with my husband and child (soon to be children)…and not having feelings of guilt for something else not being done.
Yanee Claiborne says
I would join a running club and work my way up to a half marathon. I work full time, attend college part time and parent 18 yo twins in the final years of hs. One of my twins has multiple intellectual & physical disabilities so it’s hard for me to get away. I’d also like to have a standing biweekly hair appointment. Haven’t had the time to look like a girl.
neisha says
I can only name ONE thing that I would do? just ONE? ah, I fantasize ALL THE TIME about what I would do if I had less obligations or felt less overwhelmed. I literally have a bucket list. I guess if I could pick just one thing to do WHEN I am less overwhelmed (ah, see that ladies? positive thinking in action right there!!), I think it would be READ. I want to read my Bible, I want to read the magazines I have been saving, waiting for that day; I want to read the books on the list that I’ve kept since college; I want to READ THIS BOOK!!!
Thanks for posting – this is a good one. And I can’t wait to read the book too.
jaimee w says
I’d work in the yard more
Stacey says
Breathe! Honestly, I would love to not feel like I had 100 pounds of responsibility on my shoulders at all time. To just take a break, breathe and enjoy the moment – it would be wonderful.
Kerri says
Love this article! Honestly, I would take better care of myself- spiritually, physically, emotionally. I know that the rest of my family and friends
suffers when I am frazzled and sleep deprived!
Erin says
I would love to have time to read again.
Kathy says
I would get caught up on my scrapbooks and be crafty and creative more often.
Carling Snell says
I would read more.
Anna says
I would be less stressed enough to show more love to my family.
Aimee says
If I had more time I would probably spend it finishing my degree.
Ashley says
If I had more time I would love to spend more time reading.
Jana Andersen says
I would definitely play with my children more and not feel guilty about it!
Tracy says
Every so often I adjust my process with the intent of finding a way to be more efficient and get more done. But more often than not I still do not find the extra time to place the things I want to learn or do as a priority. As the present becomes the past I often feel as though one day I may realize that I missed my window. I fear someday regretting not making my wishes a priority. If I didn’t feel so overwhelmed I’d spend more time….learning techniques to take better pictures with my camera so I could be inspired every day by a photo I was proud to hang in my house; exploring nature with my kids so through example they learn to appreciate the outdoors and to make fitness a priority; spending time in the kitchen to cook more using whole foods to nourish my family, etc.
Jessica says
I would work on being present throughout the day with my family instead of constantly thinking about what I should be doing instead or how I can do multiple things at once to get everything done. My kiddos are growing up too fast as it is and I don’t want to look back and feel like I missed so much.
Erica Stokes says
If I wasn’t so overwhelmed, I would play more games with my kids and do the arts and crafts they want to do every day! I love arts and crafts too, but with a 5, 3 and 1 year old creating the craft/art, the place gets messy quick and so I just avoid it altogether. I know I will regret this if I don’t just allow the mess to happen sometimes.
Suzanna says
I would read more in the winter months and keep up with my garden in the warmer season. Not to mention, just spend more time with my kids and husband.
Chelsea says
I would spend more time with my children and husband. And nap more!!!:)
Deanna says
I would really love to have more time to read my bible more and write.
Anna Freeland says
I am a mom of five. I would play with my kids more and read more.
Debbie Medsker says
I would create and share that joy with my children…scrapbooking, cross-stitching, paint, etc.
Kristine says
I would just PLAY with my kids more… and start on a writing project that’s been in the back of my mind for a long time.
Sarah Silvester says
I would do some exercise that I could enjoy – yoga or swimming or something. And I’d read more books!
Courtney says
I would enjoy the moments as they pass, instead of gearing up/worrying about/planning for the next one.
Sadie says
I would set aside some time to take a photography class, and maybe even start a business.
Stacey says
I would exercise and relax a bit from the chaos in my life.
Amanda Edwards says
I think I would sit in the living room with the rest of my family. Im always up doing different things like cleaning the kitchen or laundry or whatever need to be done. I would just love to be where they are! I have only been reading these blogs a day and have already made a huge difference in my life! Thank you!
kristi says
Definitely take a nap!
Jennifer says
Sleep!
Sharon says
Scrapbook! Read, sleep, play more with kiddos- although doing pretty good there, but would enjoy more play time.
Jodi R. says
I would spend more time with family GUILT free and spend more time with my kids BEING a kid. I would also read and exercise more.
Marrissa M. says
This leaves me in tears. I have 4 children under the age of 9, the youngest who is 7 months. I have struggled so much since my youngest was born. I am a full time stay at home homeschooling mom. My husband works varied hours and usually isn’t home from work till all the children are in bed. Which leaves me with a full work load! I have been so frazzled and truly feeling like I just don’t have time to spend with my children the way I want to because there is always 10 more things on my “To-Do list” that I need to get done.
Just the past week the Lord has really been speaking to me, that its ok to let some things go. That bathtub soap ring isn’t going anywhere soon, we can live with it, but can my 9 year old live without that precious heart to heart mommy talk she needs right now? Thank you so much for your post!
Crystal Storms says
If only … I would read and scrapbook more guilt free and not watch the clock while I enjoyed these things 🙂
Lindsay Witt says
I would be a more fun mommy.
Morgan says
Thanks, Crystal. It would be great to win a copy. I’d spend more time finding fun things for my Wife and I to do together, then doing them! Take care. 🙂
Susie R says
I would spend more time just being with my family and enjoying my kids. It’s so hard to stop doing “everything that needs to be done” and just spend time together.
Laura G says
Read, try more fun projects with my kids.
Lauren says
I would take better care of myself. I focus so much on work, kids, etc that I forget that I’m important too.
Susan says
I would take more actions toward long-term family contentment.
Chris Emmons says
I would definitely exercise more and meal plan better…..for healthier living!
Melissa Jones says
Right now, I don’t _feel_ overwhelmed. Am I getting everything done? Nope. Not even close. But we’ve finally cut out enough things that life has a peace to it again, and for that I’m thankful. As an introvert, I’m even getting to the point where I _want_ to get out and see people instead of hiding in my hermitage! But I’d love some more tips on how to prioritize and set boundaries – two things that I’m very poor at (God was the One who removed some things from my life while I kicked and screamed).
But if I magically had more time on my hands….time that wasn’t already designated for any of my current “life” things (parenting, work, homeschool, homekeeping, ministry, fellowship, etc.), I’ve got a couple of ideas that I think would sell if I put some time into them. And there are things that could be written. And I’d love to get to knit/crochet/cross-stitch again. Books to be read. Baths to be taken. Music to be played (and maybe written!). So much! And that’s just selfish stuff that only has to do with me! I’d love to be able to take some time with my kids – play outside, do science experiments, bake cookies. And with my husband – hike, take a weekend away, etc., etc. Vacation in places and discover things together! Play board games!
Susan K says
Praying. Photography. Scrapbooking.
Monica says
I would sew, nap and play legos with my kids more 🙂
Shealyn says
Be outside and bake more
Carolyn says
I would spend more time being with my husband and children, instead of always doing.
Thanks for your post!
Amy says
I’d be a lot more Mary, and less Martha.
Cindy B says
I would love to spend more time playing and reading with my kids! The time seems to go so fast and we are always so busy! I would love to give my husband some more attention too!
Lynne says
I’d like to be able to help others with budgeting … or write a book/blog to help inspire others who are on a budget, with ideas to save money. We don’t have couponing in our country so our food bills are a lot more than US, therefore making savings in meals/food even more essential. Thanks 🙂
Sonja Ahuja says
I am doing my best to live my life in a way that will help my son to grow up to be happy, healthy, and balanced in his own life. It took some major life changes, some voluntary and some not, to get to this point, but here I am. My son deserves the best!
Lori F says
I would love to finally get all of my photos into albums! I love my pictures, but most of them still live in my computer. 🙂
Jan C. says
Definitely spend more time playing with the kids and reading to them.
Ashleigh says
I would spend more time playing with my kids. By the time I get home and get through dinner and bedtime, I always feel like I’ve missed out.
Amanda P says
Be able to be present and have fun with the kids
Mandy M says
I would play with my kids, imagine with them every day, dream with them…
Kim says
I would devote more time to my direct sales business so that I can achieve my next goal of team leader.
Renee G says
I would love to learn to quilt and exercise regularly.
Lindy says
I would read again!!
Sarah Haden says
Only a little more time? I need another full lifetime to enjoy it all! But even that wouldn’t be enough. Where to start? First, I would rock each of my kids to sleep one at a time EVERY SINGLE NIGHT while we talked about imaginary friends, superheroes, faeries and other delightful things. We would walk to town on Tuesdays for story hour at the library and every Friday we’d spend an unrushed afternoon at the Market playing, listening to live music and visiting. For once my reading list just might get shorter instead of longer. Evenings would find my husband and I on our porch swing dreaming of our adventures; past, present and future.
We do these all anyways, but it sure would be nice to do them AND have clean clothes and floors, bathed kids and well groomed animals. Maybe someday…
Natalie says
I would teach my daughter to ride her bike and laugh more. I’m not sure she knows what to do when I laugh a good sounding hearty laugh.
Tiffany B says
I would spend more time with my little girls. We would play outside, have picnics, and have much more fun together.
Renee M says
I would take more time to really listen to my God, my husband, and my daughters.
Rose says
Write more from my heart and less from my “have to”.
Pamela says
I would take more me time…to read, to listen to music, to play the piano, to daydream…all without the guilty feelings that seem to come with time for myself.
shannon M says
I’d love to have more one on one time with my children Just having fun or relaxing with them. There is always stuff that needs to be done at work, at our business, cleaning is never ending!
Barb Joness says
More time for playing games. More energy to play and have fun.
Julie says
Love to have more time with my girls especially when they ask mummy can u watch us play outside and I know I have heaps to do inside
Bonnie Toney says
Relax without feeling guilty about it.
Cindy says
listen.
Dinah says
I would love to figure out who I am now and what I want to do with the rest of my life.
Tammy says
I would enjoy more little moments with my kids, and make more things by hand.
Lyn says
I too so wanted to be the mom/ wife that does it ALL. I do feel overwhelmed, stressed, and maybe depress too. I’m stressed out because I feel that I can’t do it all daily and weekly to keep my home clean and family organize. I have 3 kids, two are toddlers. I take my toddlers to the park for play date and I get so stressed out thinking I have to get laundry done, cook dinner, clean, help with homework, and get them to bed. All of this on my mind. I really need help!!! I would love to read your book. How do you manage it all?
lindsay says
I would go back to school for myself. We homeschool, so I’m with my kids all the time already. We clean together and work together, but I still get so overwhelmed, especially since my husband isn’t currently living with us. Also, I would like to take up a productive hobby.
Jess says
I would learn to crochet! I spend so much time watching hockey practices & ballet classes etc it would be great to make gorgeous things during those times.
Judi Siegrist Stahly says
I’d love to teach you, but you can learn by watching videos on the internet. Or find someone else who crochets. First, learn to make a chain. Practice chaining until your stitches on the chain are loose enough that you can pass the tip of your crochet hook through each one, and until your chains are neither too tight, nor too loose, and until they are all the same size…..regular and uniform in size. Then you are ready to begin with learning single crochet. After that, it’s just fun and easy to learn double and triple crochet stitches, and special stitches and turns. Then, you can find photos and patterns and books to teach you everything you want to know. Have fun! Find someone else who crochets. Knitting is lots of fun to learn too!
Sarah says
Yoga, cook, play outside, learn a craft
Karen says
I would read more or sew.
Doreen says
I’d spend more time reading
Tricia says
I would spend more time just enjoying my kids and reading more.
Kendria says
I would craft and create more!
Stephani Sawyer says
I would love to reconnect with friends, rediscover what I like to do as a woman, not just a wife and mother. I would love to read books about things besides babies!
Denise says
I would spend more quality time with my children and SMILE more.
Yarelis says
I would practice yoga.
Robin Gasch says
I want to learn how to juggle my responsibilities and illness so I have energy left at the end of the day to love on my family. Make memories that instead of Mommy being so exhausted and in pain I just sit on the couch, we get to play board games, go to the park, and enjoy getting to visit with each other sharing each day and our dreams.
Kelsey says
Cook/ bake more, garden and feel less guilty about all of it
Lynette says
I would write more. I have a couple books rolling around in my head. 😉
Louann says
I would work on my marriage and my relationship with my daughter
Erica says
I would love to learn how to sew!
Kristen says
Read and spend more time playing with my daughter
teresa says
I would read more.
Michelle says
I would actually start (and hopefully finish) first year photo albums for my now 5 year and 16 months old daughters!
Judi Siegrist Stahly says
One thing? Ha ha! I have 20 things I’d like to do if I didn’t feel overwhelmed! But that’s why I am overwhelmed. I’m learning to reduce to at least doing one thing at a time and enjoying that thing. This morning, it is writing notes to mail (in real snail mail) to friends, my mother, and a daughter in college, so that their mailboxes will contain something personal and tangible when they check their mail. I’m also enjoying staying home more by cutting out some activities….letting my husband and children go without me to basketball games or shopping, and instead, cooking and baking so that the house smells good and supper is ready when they come home. It makes for a much more peaceful evening….and with my busy teaching schedule, it gives me some alone and quiet time in the house. Read/Crochet/Start some plants for spring garden/Knit/Journal/Exercise/Write a book…
Susan says
Enjoy my every day life… no matter what the circumstance. Have trust in the Lord and let Him be my HOPE. (Jer. 17:7) That would free me to pour myself into loving on my husband and children and complete my days in peace.
Meghan says
Read! I would love to have more time to dive into the Word as well as some great fiction books.
Kay says
I’ve always loved the creative aspect of sewing: making clothes, curtains, even slip covers a couple of times! I’d love to get back to my “stash” of fabric and create some beautiful things again.
Wanda Hufnagle says
I truly identify with your feeling of needing to do it all MYSELF in order to be taking good care of my family. As a 30 year old widow with two young sons it became totally too much for me to do it all, and I felt guilty for even using a boxed cake mix. I didn’t realize my kids just wanted a birthday cake, and they didn’t care if it came from a box. Now my kids are grown, I have granddaughters, I’m still a single woman, and I have realized I can’t do it all. I have made myself STOP feeling that need, and have learned that I need to set aside some time for myself for renewal, but I can’t seem to get that figured out yet. I look forward to the insights your book has to offer in that area. Thanks for sharing with us!!
Rose says
Would love to write more
Mamalion says
Sleep. Kidding. Sort of. I’d try to find more time to do things that nourish my soul. I am so burned out right now.
crystal perez says
If I were less overwhelmed, I would have more time to spend with my family without worrying about the sink full of dishes or basket full of laundry. I would actually enjoy the time instead of feeling guilty for slowing down. I’d also have more time to care of myself for a change and would start exercising on a regular basis.
Renae says
I would exercise. Real exercise, not the kind that barely gets me sweaty but something that makes my muscles shake and sweat break out from every pore of my body. Right now I’m going throught the motions. I’m tired. I’m overwhelmed. I don’t know how to ask for more help. So with a little extra time, I’d exercise and hopefully gain some energy to do all of the things I’m too afraid to ask for help doing.
Virginia says
Play more with my kids 🙂
DJuana says
I would garden again! I used to find that very relaxing.
Becky says
I would use the extra brain space to figure out what I actually enjoy instead of only focusing on what I *have* to be doing. Your question made me realize I’m not really sure what would be “fun” or how I would spend my time if I felt like it were my own.
ellie says
I would love to make handcrafted cards and send them!
Jada Smith says
Spend time being creative through scrapbooking! Family time, listening to music, etc while making something beautiful! 🙂
Katie says
I would give more and model giving more to my kids. We’d spend more time together as a family and learning to give to others.
beth says
I can’t wait to read the book! If I had more time on my hands and felt less overwhelmed and obligated to do so many other things, I would do the things I love: play the piano, bake for my husband, read, sew…
Tracy says
I need to FOCUS more on what I’m doing…get it done before diving into something else and then nothing gets done. FOCUS my word for 2014.
Beeb says
There are so many things, but one thing that I stopped doing over a decade ago was play guitar. I still have both my guitars and amp, sitting a few feet away and collecting dust, but when my life became overwhelming there just wasn’t time to think about it anymore. Of course, I’ve pretty much forgotten how to play at this point, but eventually I’m going to pick it up again!
Abby says
I’d develop friendships and have women over so we could all feel a sense of community.
jen says
I would exercise and volunteer! These are two things I find bring me so much balance, and joy, and when I am overwhelmed, they are the first to go!
Nikki says
I would spend more quality time with my little girls!!! Stressing less would be wonderful!
Lynne says
The book sounds like it would be such a blessing to my overwhelmed daughter!
Alice says
Exactly what so many other said. Be PRESENT with my kids.
annie says
Hospitality.
Enjoy cooking again.
Read for enjoyment again.
Have more compassion in my voice when the girls ask me something instead of sounding like they’re interrupting me.
Go on more dates with my husband.
Amy McWilliams says
Read, yoga, run and plan meals. Enjoy minute by minute and pray more.
stacy says
I would spend more time serving people who are lonely, sad or struggling with something, taking them dinner (or just bread or cookies). I often think of people and think of how much they would enjoy a visit or could use a dinner because of what is going on in their life, and my intentions are kind and thoughtful, but I rarely seem to turn them into reality.
Carolyn says
I would run, craft and play with my kids. Just today my oldest son said to me, “Mom, someday you are going to wish you had played with us more!”…and i know it’s so true.
Megan says
I would love to do many things but I think the one that would have the greatest impact would be to read and cuddle with my girls more.
Nay says
More naps!
Rachel says
I would love to have more time for crafting. There are so many projects I want to do, and it relaxes me. I would love to have some ‘me’ time to do that!
MieMie says
Rest, listen to my heart, play more, love stronger, create beautiful things with my beads and my yarn.
Lora says
I dream of having the energy to do more projects and fun activities with my children. I’m trying so hard to be intentional with our time, but I constantly feel like I’m dragging myself along and, ultimately, failing.
Hope says
I’d write more, spend more time with God, and learn how to teach yoga.
Elaine Bowman says
I would do something creative. I always have a craving to do something creative, which I usually give away 🙂 But I never can get done with “the basics” enough to take a moment to fill my own cup.
Lynn Bauer says
I was just thinking about this exact thing this past weekend when I was inside cleaning, organizing, doing laundry, putting clothes away, making food, taking care of our baby girl and glanced outside to see my two older boys playing hockey with my husband in the backyard and how I so wanted to be outside enjoying the nice weather that we were having and cheering and playing with my boys and doing something together as a family. I feel like I can never just sit down and do nothing because I would sit down and see or think of all the things that I should be doing and that need to get done. It’s a constant struggle for me and it makes me sad that I cannot just sit and let things like that go…or maybe I have and now I’m trying to play catch up. I need to find peace and be content with how things are and enjoy doing things with my family and let things go!
Sarah White says
I would love to read more! haha
Heidi says
read more … just for fun!
Cheryl says
I would write more and focus more on my physical health.
Nicole says
Sleep, exercise, make more food from scratch, and if I had time, I would write.
Joyce says
Relax more
Becky says
I would read more and read outloud to my kids more and do more crafting.
marsha says
savor photos of my children
Christine Walters says
I would love to spend quality time with my kids reading, teaching them to play games, sharing with them the great stories in the Bible, and building a strong and close relationship with each of them that will help me quide and lead them through their adolescence and teen years. I have 5 children ages 7, 6, twin 4, and almost 2. I feel so overwhelmed with just the day to day maintenance of the house and food and clothes not to mention all of the other things that need attention that I feel like I’m failing as a mother as meaningfully and positively bonding with each of my kids.
Jody says
I would read more books and write more without feeling guilty about it.
Emma says
to spend more time with the girls to whom I’m a leader at church and our youth ministry. I would like to be able to help plan the bible studies we use with these girls and find creative ways for them to be able to express themselves better.
C.M. says
I would take time for me. I seem to put myself last on the list of to-do’s. I would just breathe and be able to take a walk enjoying life around me.
Nkechi Okoye says
I’d take more naps, dream some more and go sight seeing all by myself.
Amanda says
I would spend more time with my children free from distractions… And maybe find a little me time for this single, working mom of two…
Cathy says
I would write. I would love to put into writing all the words that swirl around in my heart, my
head and rise up in my soul. Periodically I have a moment where I can spill them out onto my computer and its such a cathartic experience.
Yes. That’s what I’d do. Write.
Karyan says
I would play with my children more! I would truly listen to them, snuggle them and just be with them! Also, I would scrapbook again because I really enjoy creating!
Melissa says
Be more involved in church activities.
rita2bee says
I would love to have the extra time to mentor someone, either to teach someone how to read, or to be a mentor to a recovering addict or homeless person (to be a volunteer at our local rescue mission).
Billie says
Ohmygoodness write more. And read more for that matter!
Mrs.T says
I would have a hard time deciding what to do. I’m sandwiched in between eldercare responsibilities and being there for preteen granddaughters, plus I teach ladies in Sunday School (to name a few things) so I am always busy. (I do take a good solid couple of hours with the Lord every morning, though!) I would love to open an Etsy shop. I would love to do much more crafting — and yes, I always have a needlework project going, something that can make me feel happy and productive, but crafting moments at home are few and far between. I would also love to learn to paint and, in fact, have a Painting for Dummies kit that my dear hubby gave me many years ago. Maybe this can be the year I can do that.
Ruth says
I WOULD LOVE TO DO WATERCOLOR PAINTING.
Michelle Underwood says
I feel behind in life…..
I would love to spend more time doing things I WANT to do instead of things I HAVE to do.
Jill Culp says
I would love to be able to take my son on a vacation. He has cerebral palsy and with being a single mom, I don’t have much time to take him on special trips because of doctors appointments and therapy appointments.
Rebecca Levan says
I would just breathe. I have a four year old and a4 month old with a heart defect asking with other issues. Trying to work, juggle doctor appointments, and be a good mom and house keeper has me at a constant overwhelming state.
Liz McNulty says
I would blog more and walk more.:)
Erika hurst says
I would take a photography class and photograph children with special needs for parents who want to share their story & beauty of our little miracles! I would also like to write a book about my struggles of being a special needs mom & how I’ve persevered. I hope to inspire and help others by sharing my stories/photography!
Christy says
I would learn to REST. Haven’t done that in my lifetime, yet. I’m not sure I know how.
Rachel says
I would like to win this book for my friend Mel, everything you describe she describes about her life and as her friend it’s hard to hear her say about how she feels like a failure and sinking down even further into depression and it sounds like your book would really help her. Many thanks for taking the time to read this even if I don’t win xx
Lesley says
I would spend more time sewig and quilting and making handmade things for others.
Tabitha says
I would concentrate on the projects I have now and not take on more. It seems I search for things to do out of the love of helping others. I need to spend more time with my family, kids, and declutter my home.
Amy Peedle says
With a chronically ill daughter who is almost 13 and requires daily treatment and care, three other daughters ages 15, 22 and 25. And a 3 year old boy my husband and I was suddenly asked to adopt a few months ago. Soon to be 2 small grandchildren a 2 year old granddaughter and a baby to be born in the next couple weeks. Life has been very overwhelming and challenging. If I had the time I would play with my grand children more, Reach out to others that need some love and support and take up a hobby.
Michelle Breon says
I would play with my kids, learn photography, draw and write.
Danielle says
I’d spend more time enjoying my family!
Rachel says
I would enjoy life more by soaking it all in, especially my children. I feel like life passes me by most of the time.
Rebecca Frances says
I would make things for and with my husband and 6 kids. God made us creative, and we grow closer when we work together. It makes great memories!
Liberty says
Ooohhhhh, I would play with my kiddos and find my joy again.
Brenda says
Excellent advice and A Book I wish I would of read and need to read. So many things that I would of done and need to do. Thank you writing the book
sara chapados says
I would love to have more time to have people to our home to share the love of Jesus with them. We know so many that are lonely and we would all benefit from time together.
Mary says
There is certainly no shame in having help. I think I would write more if I had more time. Can’t wait to read your book!
Susan says
I remember feeling all these same things…..and I look at my daughter and see her……doing and feeling the same as I did. I would love for her to read this book to help her discover how blessed she really is!
Kathy says
Read all the books on my bookshelf. Spend more time with my family and friends.
David C says
I just might get might wife back!!!
M'balia Jones says
If I have all the help I will go back to continue graduate school, serve more & travel a lot.
David C says
I meant to say, I just may get my wife back. Sorry for the typo above.
Leanne says
I would start my studies for my dream j.o.b…….doula – nothing like being there for the first breath of God’s children!
Ruth says
If i had some me time–it would be spent in just reading; relaxing and soaking up some warm sunshine–with me being disabled and my James having two cancers –I feel overwhelmed at times
Lisa says
I think I would try to have more time with each of our children individually. We do lots as a family of 6 but I’d love to take each child out for a date every few weeks.
kathy says
I would write all the letters I wanted to, visit all the people I wanted to, not feel guilty for doing things for me, read, sleep, pray, study….could it be for real???
Kelly says
I would definitely take the time to have more real, unhurried, sit down conversations with people. There is so much rushing every day and it always seems so hard to take the time to do that without getting behind on the stuff we “have” to do.
Cathy Hinojosa says
SLEEP!!! I would LOVE to sleep all night long!!! Without tossing and turning and worrying about SO MANY THINGS!!! I just want to feel more relaxed and less stressed.
L. Ellen says
I have been working on de-stressing/de-cluttering this year, both physically and spiritually. In addition to keeping a gratitude journal ‘a la Ann Voskamp’s “One thousand Gifts”, I think I need to take the moments when I feel physically good (I have fibromyalgia) to NOT spend time doing my ‘to do’ list, but spend time doing my ‘wish list’. This would fill my tank rather than run on low to empty everyday.
Eileen Benthal says
I would write more and be more organized in my freelance work. I am a mom and full time caregiver to a very medically fragile and beautiful daughter. In 17 years , she has had 86 surgeries. I write and share our story in a weekly column called Life on Purpose (RiverheadLocal.com). I really need greater organization so I can pick up and put down my freelance work as a writer, speaker and wellness coach, with greater ease. I was also recently diagnosed with MS, a gift to remind me to take care of myself first. I need to complete the book I am writing now. I can’t wait to read yours.
Monica Addison says
If I could let go of some of my guilt and responsibilities, I would read and journal again.
Debbi says
I would spend more time just having fun with my kids!
Rhonda says
I am a wife, mother, daughter, practicing attorney and ladies Sunday School teacher. Most times I don’t feel that II do justice to any of those roles. My only child is a freshman in college so my husband and I have had to adjust to the empty nest. If I had more time, I would love to be a better wife in terms of time spent together, etc., to my husband and I would also like to spend more time studying and preparing for Sunday School.
Charlene says
I would spend more time taking care of my own spiritual/emotional life (reading/journaling/walking) and then more time enjoying my children, doing more “fun” things with them, including learning more about things they are interested in.
Lynn says
Cook more, read and spend more time with extended family and friends.