Our family will visit the cemetery today. Someone from the American Legion will hand us poppies. The pastor will say a few words to those who’ve gathered.
And then, we will bow our heads for a moment of silence. No one will speak. The air will fill with birdsong and the sound of flags flapping in the breeze.
In that moment, I will pray as I always pray: for peace to rule in hearts everywhere.
That’s how I’ve celebrated Memorial Day since I was a kid – with a few moments in a cemetery, observing and remembering. Maybe your Memorial Day looks similar to mine. Or maybe you’ll spend your day at a lake or a park or around the grill in your backyard. Wherever you may be today, may your day be filled with peace. And may you find a way to share a bit of your peace with the people around you.
The world feels short on peace these days, doesn’t it?
Mother Teresa once said, “If we have no peace, it is because we have forgotten that we belong to each other.” I worry, sometimes, that we forget that we really are in this together. It’s a noisy, hectic, I’m-right-you’re-wrong world out there. Today, I want to make a special effort to be less concerned with making a point and more concerned with making some peace.
If there really is going to be peace on earth, as the song says, “Let it begin with me.”
If there will be peace on Facebook,
or around the dinner table,
or in a sanctuary,
or out in this warring world,
or in a family squabble,
or in the midst of protest,
or on a lake,
or in some legislative chamber under a golden dome,
or in a world groaning under its own weight . . .
if there be peace here, or if there be peace anywhere on earth, then let it begin with me.
Here are six ways you can create peace in your life today:
Serve someone. There’s so much wrong in this world, which makes us angry and sad — as it should! One great way to bring more peace into the world is to bring a little peace to someone whose life is in turmoil. That’s one powerful way of taking our anger and turning it into a higher purpose. Find a person or organization near you who could use a bit of the love that you have within your heart.
Heal one piece of the wound within you. It’s hard to “pass the peace” when our insides are in turmoil. Take time this week to tend to your pain. It can feel overwhelming to think about fixing all that aches within you. If necessary, pick one piece and tend to it. Take that bit of wound to a trusted friend. Pray about it with your pastor. Write it on a slip of paper and burn that paper in your own personal bonfire as a way to say, “Good riddance.” (Invite a friend and ask her to bring the marshmallows.)
Point out the good you see. Take a picture of something that made you smile and post it to your social media channels. Of course, there is a time and place for us to use our social media platforms to point out injustice, but there is also a time and place for us amplify the good. Go, therefore, and show us your kittens, sunsets, and cute babies.
Resolve at least one conflict in your life this week. There may be someone who has gotten on your last nerve or who has stepped on your toes in a major way. The elephant is still in the room. Talk about that elephant, release it into the wild, and then move within that freed-up space toward a resolution.
Forgive someone. Nelson Mandela famously said, “Resentment is like drinking poison and then hoping it will kill your enemies.” You don’t have to forget, but when you choose to forgive, you have decided to stop drinking the poison.
Find inner peace. There are a lot of places one can go to find peace – a hiking trail, a sanctuary, a resort in Tahiti. But ultimately, the only way we’ll find true peace is when we look to Jesus.
And let the peace that comes from Christ rule in your hearts.
Colossians 3:15 (NLT)
*This post was originally written by Jennifer Dukes Lee in May 2017.
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Jennifer & (in)courage,
What beautiful reflections on finding peace in our hectic world. Men and women have served, fought, and died for our freedoms, and how do we choose to use our freedom? We hurl insults at each other and declare war on anyone who sees the world differently than we do. Jesus’ message was all about Peace. May we all, this Memorial Day, choose to use our freedom to serve, forgive, encourage, love, and bring peace. This would truly be honoring to those who gave their lives and the families they have left behind.
Blessings,
Bev xx
With a couple of trumpet players in my family, Memorial Day sounds like taps at the town memorial. I always hope the crowd is pondering the lyrics as the plaintive notes fade:
“All is well, safely rest, God is nigh.”
Yes lets live in peace with everyone. There is too much hate in our world today. We as Christian have do as that kids song says. Jesus loves all the Children of the world red and yellow black and white. Plus this sticks in my mind alway when in Hospital or not well you need a Doctor or Nurse or you have to A&E you don’t care what religion that Doctor or Nurse is as long as they make you well. Or help ease you pain or get to the bottom of what wrong with you. Jesus loved us all no matter what religion we are. He still does today. We are to do the same no matter as Christians. Live in peace with ever one and pray for ever one. Show them the Love of Jesus in our lives by how we live. By living the why Jesus would want us too live. If saved. As if saved we are the hands and feets of Jesus. Excellent reading. God Bless Dawn xxx
Oh I felt more peace just reading this! And moved to utilize these suggestions to promote peace. Thank you for creating space to encourage and inspire us.
Jennifer,
This world is so full of strife & turmoil. I don’t watch the news anymore due to the backbiting & yammering among our elected officials. They want the Republican president out & someone else in. I’m so ready for rest & true peace. The kind only God can offer. This week I will cook for my in-laws, pray for military everywhere, thank God & hubby for all the good they provide. Our military fight daily to give us our freedoms & many have taken those freedoms for granted. They won’t stand for the pledge to flag or national anthem. Something unheard of years ago. This generation feels entitled. They aren’t!! They need to go fight right along with the military instead of sitting in their cushy homes & griping about what’s wrong. IF you feel something is wrong go do something about it. Write congress, help, volunteer, pray about it. Only God can give you true peace. Put away that striving, griping & talk to God today. Thank a veteran for their service.
Blessings 🙂