We are thrilled to introduce you to a new book from one of our own (in)courage authors today! Melissa Michaels has recently released Love the Home You Have, and we adore her heart for hospitality and the fun, practical steps she shares in her book to take your “right now” house and turn it into your “dream” house! Oh, and we’re giving away 5 copies of her amazing book PLUS 5 Everlasting Light Starburst Mirrors, so be sure to read all the way to the end!
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A Place That Is Warm
My family has always had fun creating a special atmosphere in which to greet guests. We arenβt the formal dinner-party type, but we love fashioning a casually festive ambience for simple gatherings with special touches. We line our walkway to the front door with small white candles in mason jars. We turn on the outside lights, sweep off the porch, dust off the cobwebs, and polish the doorknob. We set mood lighting in the house with adjusted lamps and candles that also offer a subtle scent. We hit play, and background music livens up the atmosphere. Then we take one last look to see what else we can do to make our home feel as cozy to guests as possible.
In our earlier years, I read a book on marriage that suggested greeting your husband at the door with the same warmth you would offer to guests. Yes! I loved the idea. In theory. But as I let that sink in, it clashed with the reality of my long days home alone all by myself with many small crying people covered in squash and Cheerios. I treasure those days, but even the memory of them can be epically exhausting.
It was unlikely that at the end of a day I would manage to be relaxed and genuinely welcoming, let alone have the walkway lined with candles in preparation for Jerryβs dinnertime arrival. Truth be told, my smile sometimes looked a bit more like a grimace, and I was usually ready to just hand him the babies as I ran out the door to Starbucks for a double shot of peace and quiet.
But in the pursuit of marital happiness and a warm and welcoming haven for our family, I realized there was a simple way to set a new tone for our home. Besides brushing my teeth and wiping the baby snot off my shoulders, I could walk over to the front door at dusk and turn on the outside lights and at least one inside lamp. That I could do.
Turning on the lamps was a little signal to Jerry that I was happy he was coming home. It was a reminder to me of the mood I could create for our home with a few intentional daily rituals. At that pivotal hour of our mutually long day, the atmosphere of our home offered the escape we both craved. That simple ritual was my way of saying, βWelcome home, Iβm glad youβre here (and not just because Iβve been plotting my escape to Starbucks).β
Donβt we all want to feel that way when we enter our home? Warmly welcomed?
Hospitality toward guests is important. Creating a place to extend warm welcomes to our family should be a priority too. You know how a dog wants to run over to greet you with a big sloppy-but-happy kiss when you walk in the door? The greeting makes you feel loved (and maybe even slightly overwhelmed by his enthusiasm). My son always gives me a sweet little wave when I drop him off at school — a tradition that still means the world to me now that heβs a teen. In turn, it means a lot to him if I have a snack ready for him when he arrives home (because boys are always starving).
Perhaps your family could adopt some special homecoming and departure routines to establish that same warm, loving atmosphere when people arrive home or head out for the day. Here are ten ideas you might want to incorporate into your familyβs traditions:
- Greet family with a kiss, a smile, and a hug.
- Light a candle and turn on your lamps for a cozy, welcoming ambience as you and your family come in the door.
- Have a drink or snack ready for after-school (or after-work!) enjoyment. Itβs wonderful to know you have something ready in the fridge or pantry to set out while dinner gets started.
- Turn on some music when you arrive home. It might set just the perfect tone for a relaxing evening.
- Allow a buffer period of time before asking questions and discussing the dayβs problems. My husband used to sit in the car for ten minutes to decompress from the stress of the day before walking in the door so he could enter the house ready to enjoy the evening.
- Create a stress-free departure. Nothing is as flustering (for you and your family) as trying to get out the door when you are stressed by disorganization. Make it a priority to prepare ahead of time for your departure so you can walk out the door calmly and on time instead of panicking to find your shoes and keys.
- Keep your entry tidy and welcoming so your house is one you want to come home to and hate to leave! Give everyone a hook and a basket to keep their belongings organized and off the floor.
- Always pause long enough to give a proper goodbye. When my kids would leave for their school carpool, I always made sure I was at the door to send them off with a quick hug and prayer for their day (as my mom did for me). Those memories are precious.
- Use timers to prepare for your warm welcome. Timers can be wonderful reminders to turn on a few lamps, turn on the heat on a cold night, or turn on a coffeepot or a crockpot with a hot drink, an appetizer, or dinner.
- Establish an evening ritual for meaningful conversation and reconnection. Before discussing any negatives, encourage your family to talk about the best part of their day. Keeping the welcome-home routine positive (rather than pointing out what chores werenβt done or what else went wrong that day!) will transform the rest of the evening.
Establish warm welcome traditions that make coming home the sweetest part of everyoneβs day.
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Isn’t Melissa’s book inspiring? We love her version of accessible hospitality and those wonderful tips to create a warm and inviting home! If you would like to purchase a copy of Melissa’s book, Love the Home You Have, you can grab a copy at DaySpring!
And today you can enter to win one of 5 copies we’re giving away! Woohoo! And each winner will also receive an Everlasting Light Starburst Mirror {happy dance}! Just follow the instructions in the giveaway widget to enter. Open to U.S. mailing addresses only, and winners will be randomly selected on Friday (4/24) so make sure you enter a valid email address so we can contact you!
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Melissa Michaels the creator of the popular blog The Inspired Room. With creative, simple ideas and a friendly style, she inspires over half a million women each month to love their homes and lives.
She was voted as the number one fan favorite decorating blogger at Better Homes & Gardens in 2014, and was also voted as one of the top five Better Homes and Gardens editorsβ choice favorite decorating blogs. Melissa is a mom of three and a pastorβs wife living in the Seattle area.
Lacey says
I like the idea of allowing a buffer time. It gives us more time to bond, rather than being attacked when you walk through the door!
Amy says
We love music in our house. when things start to get crazy and out of hand with just too much sibling bickering, we quite often turn on some music. I love the idea of using music as a way of setting the tone for a relaxing evening….or a ‘dance party’ π
janetb1 says
I come home after my husband some nights and some nights I work after he is home. I like the idea of some of these though. Thanks Melissa and InCourage for the giveaway!
Beth M says
I always do a quick cleanup of toys and whatever else has ended up on the floor in the last 10 min before my husband gets home. Just having the living room clean when he walks in makes him feel relaxed and he always compliments me on the fact that the “house looks so nice”.
Steph O says
That’s such a great idea, Beth. Walking into a clean house or clean room is so inviting and relaxing. The family will always look forward to coming home after being about their day βΊοΈ
Rachel says
My favorite time to welcome is summer evenings!
Sooz Peacock says
A warm and inviting home is just that…warm, not cold. It’s a place you want to be. Cozy, snugly throw pillows and blankets on chairs or couches are some of my favorite ways to make my home warmer. It’s inviting to enter a home that is tidy but not to neat to prop your feet up. That’s the home that you kicked your shoes off in, and not because you “had to leave them by the door”. An inviting home is just that, inviting, not cold shouldered. One of my favorite ways to do this is by loving people. Greeting people with genuine care and eyes wide with wonder ready to hear about their days or learn something new. Love for others will be at the heart of a believers home and every person who enters feels like they are a VIP. And really, aren’t they all?
Steph O says
That’s a lovely principle to live by. Love others & make them feel like VIP when they come in/ visit
Southern Gal says
Lamps on in our living area and flowers on the table help create a warm, loving atmosphere for me. I’m working on warming up the laundry room which is where everyone comes into the house. It’s the first thing they see! Not ideal, but I am working on making it beautiful.
gold says
hello dear i will like to know about and your family
SarahPinault says
I discovered this book and blog just days after the book came out. I have a horrible tendency to let my mood be shaped by the lack of order and beauty I feel in my physical surroundings, and I have a lovely house. I’m looking to take my blinkers off and re-learn what made me fall in love with this place.
Shannon K. Wheeler says
I feel most relaxed when things are tidy in our main living area. Things don’t have to be perfect, but it feels most warm and inviting when it’s tidy. And when we have something yummy to offer!
Adrienne says
Very encouraging – thank you!
Adrienne says
My favorite way to make my family’s home inviting is to have the rooms looking tidy, light a candle in each room, and have good smells coming from the kitchen. During Christmas we always have Christmas music playing in the background as well to increase that Holiday feel.
Angie says
It has always been about the lighting for me. Never even realized it was sending a message!
Kim Garbison says
With 2 teenagers, it’s hard to keep everything warm and confortable without it looking like a high school locker threw up in the livingroom. I love these ideas!!
Jennifer Bowler says
I highly need encouragement for our small and cluttered apartment. Thanks for the giveaway. I like lighting a candle and playing some nice music to make my home feel warm and inviting.
Ronnie Dornhoffer says
I make sure I am home and not out with girlfriends when hubby comes home. We are both in our mid 50s but he hates coming home to an empty house.
Sarah says
I’m not the best at this, but we don’t wear shoes in our house, so guests automatically feel they can curl up on the couch without their shoes on.
Donna Cress says
I try to always have the living room area tidy and smelling good. That helps me feel better about having guests.
Nila S. says
Organization is the key to a warm & inviting home. We love candles, placing floral arrangements around the house, music, the smell of something delicious baking in the oven…all ways to a warm & inviting home. π
Elizabeth says
I light candles, turn on music and offer a tasty appetizer like guacamole dip and chips!
karen says
We will soon be moving into a new home and I want it to be a place where everyone feels welcomed, accepted and loved! I want it to be a haven for my husband and grown kids. I want Jesus to be made known through it!
Mrs.T says
Music is always good, especially quiet and soothing instrumentals. I use a lot of little white lights here and there, too.
Lovely and inspiring read and a generous giveaway. Thanks so much for the opportunity!
Julie Heckman says
To me it’s about cleanliness and light.
Kim says
Good reminders. I try to make our house inviting and real! I don’t overly apologize if its messy or you have to sit in the chair beside three loads of laundry. It happens and I think in the past it has relaxed my friends to feel comfortable in our home.
Mary says
I am definitely a believer of warm light and good smells – turn on that fireplace, light a candle, or best of all, get a batch of cookies in the oven! That says “come on in, relax, and stay awhile” to me…
beemom says
I have found that while all these ideas are great, if you have the time and energy. A huge smile and sincere I’m so happy you are here welcomes guests immediately.
Lindsey says
I am so excited to read this book! In two weeks I am moving into my first house! I have been renting for years and I am so blessed to finally have a place to call my own. I am so excited to be at liberty to create an environment that truly reflects my family and feels like home. In our current place I rarely entertained guests for lack of feeling that the space was really “us” or welcoming. I am thrilled to read this book and be inspired to make my new house a loving, welcoming, inspiring home!
Jenny Herndon says
I really like having candles and tea lights around my living room to light and create a warm and inviting space for my family. We also have an “art wall” for the kids to display their artwork from school. I love all 5 of my kids being involved in decorating and making the space their own. It shows an actual family lives here π
Tiffany says
Thank you for the practical ideas! To me, simplicity is key.
Katy says
Bright colors and unique pieces.
Natasha says
I enjoy making our home more inviting and comforting for our family by hanging or displaying special photos of our family throughout the home, having comfortable throw pillows, blankets and candles in our living room (the area we spend the most amount of time) and keeping my toddler’s toys and books picked up when he’s not playing with them so the room is not cluttered. I also enjoy lighting candles or using warmers in the kitchen to make the area more inviting.
Shelly R says
Music! We play it all the time. During the day it’s a stress break breaker when the day has become overwhelming. We crank of the music and dance. In the evenings and on weekends, it fills the background. Worship music is always inviting God into our days.
Karen M says
I love to light candles to make our home feel warm and inviting!
Lillian says
I try to always clean the front room before my husband comes home from work. Even if the rest of the house is a disaster at least he doesn’t see it first thing!
Jill says
Making the entry way tidy and welcoming is important to me. I can think of three things I could do today to act on that. Thank you!
Andrea says
I think the smells of a delicious home cooked meal make such a warm and inviting home.
Kathy says
When I was a stay at home mom, my husband and I agreed to the buffer time. The last thing he wanted to do when he walked in the door was to tell me about his day. He had a very stressful job and if I started in on how bad my day was with the kids, etc it only added to his stress. I found that when I was allowed him that time he was very open to sharing his day and to hearing about mine. – Candles are my way of having a nice inviting atmosphere in my home.
Pam says
Having a fire in the fireplace when it’s cold and sitting outside on the deck with stinged lights when it’s warmer. Opening the door and letting your spouse and children and others know that you are glad they are home/here.
Michelle says
Lighting
chrisgharmon says
I am terrible at creating a warm & inviting home – hoping this book can help that. Does shoving all the junk into a drawer or another room count?! π
Erin says
A clean, tidy entryway and living room is welcoming at our house. Also something wonderful cooking in the kitchen!
Cheryl Jacobo says
I love the idea of buffer time. My grandson and I have a routine before he heads off to preschool “bye Grandma, bye Brandon have a good day, okay Grandma you too, I love you, I love you too!
Kim V says
I love candles! I have the good old fashioned ones, battery operated and timers. Warm and welcoming π
Jenn Collins says
I love to light a candle before people come over or have something amazing cooking so the smell hits them and makes them feel at home!
Liesl says
This book is so timely! Working on some decluttering (aka “this stuff is stressing me out, so we should use it to bless someone else instead!”)
Kathryn Smith says
I love making sure I have a candle burning and my disorganization put somewhat away before guests come over!
Alycia Morales says
My favorite tip is to only allow positive discussion first. That will make a huge difference in our evening, I’m sure!
Cindy says
Sounds like a wonderful book to help create a warm, relaxing environment. Would love to win.
Amanda Jobe says
Love this!
katieterpstra says
Warm lighting!
Suzanne Wray Rowan says
I love these ideas!! the books sounds like a real eye opener
Kim says
I like for my family to come home to a tidy home, with the smells of dinner cooking.
Kirsten Allen says
I love the concept of the buffer time too – I live with a roommate and her children – the kids are very enthusiastic some days and I do feel attacked when I walk in π I am just not sure the littles would get this concept – but hopefully its something I can teach them π
Marla L says
I like to burn candles.
Kristin says
I like to diffuse essential oil in the kitchen, the heart of the home and where we spend most of our time hanging out. My favorite essential oil to diffuse is Young Living Joy. I also like to play contemporary christian music. I think it helps calm my 2 little boys!
Darcy says
My favorite way is to have a non-cluttered home. I think people can relax easier if there isn’t so much competing for their attention.
Carol says
I like things to be in order for when someone comes in the door. If the rest of the house is a disaster at least they come into some order!!
kay says
Love these ideas. I’m sure the book is great. Can’t wait to get a copy.
Debbie Taylor says
I struggle with this. I want to make my home warm & inviting – first to my family, and then to our friends & guests. I like the idea of playing music – I think that does help shape our moods & emotions. I am working on getting our entry way tide & keeping it that way!!!
Heidi Lara says
Love having lamps to turn on and make the evening cozy!
Kelsey Riley says
Having an empty sink is always something that makes me feel good about when entering my house after a long day of work! I love some of the other ideas though, especially things like having music playing and a candle burning. A scented wax warmer is always a nice touch too!
Alisa says
My husband works from home and I am a stay at home mom so this is a good challenge for me to come up with some ways we can start and end our “work day” even though no one is coming or going.
Gr8fulLady Amy says
Kitchen Dance Parties & Family Fun Nights! Also, always trying to do, speak, interact and bless the way I ask and direct everyone else to. i.e. Please(s), thank-you(s), excuse me(s), etc…
Kaitlyn says
I love white Christmas lights — no matter what month it is.
lisa says
my daughter and I always take time after school to sit together and have a snack before she heads outside to play. This gives us a chance to reconnect.
M Bunn says
We used to do “couch time” which was 15 minutes of mom and dad sitting on the couch and talking with out the kids interrupting. My husband also really likes to be greeted when he comes home.
Karen says
We definitely employ the buffer zone at our house. It gives everyone time to catch their breath and make the transition from work or school to home.
ErinKC86 says
I love the idea of starting rituals to make leaving and coming home a happy experience!! I am going to try a couple of these out!
Stacey says
One piece of advice that was given to me before I even established my own home was that it should be evident when people come into your home that you love the Lord. My favorite way to do that is through scripture art and small chalkboards with memory verses. It can be such an encouragement as you are reminded of God’s promises often.
Brooke Green says
I like to light a candle and play soft/happy music when my husband gets home and at breakfast. This book looks right up my alley! Can’t wait to read it.
Cara Cates says
I think smell is key. A warm smell is so inviting.
holly says
We all gather int he living room and dance, make sofa pillow forts, read, play with puzzles. the living room is where it’s at.
Asheritah Ciuciu says
Fresh flowers! They make an immediate difference, making a room feel light, airy, and spring-y.
cloudninegirl says
What wonderful ideas! Home is truly where the heart is and making sure we don’t allow daily stress and busyness to take over is perfect. We should always remember to go slowly and ENJOY our life – not rush through it trying to get things done! We should never forget that family and home comes first!
Kristen @ Joyfully Thriving says
I try to pick things up throughout the day, so the house is generally neat. For my husband, I try to have dinner ready too. It might be 1950s advice, but I find it still is applicable. π Mainly though, greeting with a smile (wherever I am) is the best thing I can do.
ThatOne says
I love putting on music, I don’t do it nearly often enough though. My brother in law gave us a Bluetooth receiver for the stereo so I can play Spotify or Pandora or any of my playlists. It makes the house feel so relaxing (Nat King Cole anyone?)
Angie Bridwell says
I do a quick clean up of toys and dishes before my older kids and husband get home. Putting things away and playing music does help create a more peaceful environment in our home.
Angela Bell says
When guests come over, I like to make them feel special and important by doing little things like lighting a candle in the bathroom, using the good china, and having food and drink available.
Joyce (and Norm) says
Yummy food and good conversations
Brooke Montgomery Cassinelli says
I like to have a “cozy” scent burning. Also flowers always add SO much.
Judy says
I left up a bunch of white Christmas lights after the holidays this year. I like to turn them on in the evenings to create a soft glow for dinner and relaxing.
Karen G says
I like to light a nicely scented candle so others are greeted by a nice scent when they come to our home..
Daisy Fuentes Dronen says
I love the idea of lighting a candle! One time my husband was coming home from a long trip and the kiddos and I ran to target to get a candle to light before he got home- but he beat us home! ( target is way distracting for the whole family!) but we laughed about it welcomed him home while we lit the candle!
Karina Flores Dulin says
Thank you for this! It’s so encouraging! I set a timer to remind the kids and I to do a quick pick up before the Boss gets home. We return books to the shelf, put away schoolwork, and make sure the toys are in the right spot. I love the idea of music and candles. They would help all of us!
sally t says
What a helpful book!
Carrie turano says
Love listening to music when i get home…brings me back to MY reality π
Elizabeth smith says
Candles and lamps all lit for the guests π I like good smells and lots of light!
Melanie says
Keeping my home organized is one way to create a warm and inviting atmosphere. We have lots of natural light and comfy places to relax and have good conversations.
Tara Brown says
I love having fresh flowers and candles or the melting wax to scent the air with relaxing smells. It creates such a comfortable and inviting environment.
JoAn says
Everything in its place, plenty of lighting, fireplace, and warm-colored paint on the walls
Kelly H says
Music playing. Don’t worry about every last Lego or army man being put away. Candles lit and drinks and snacks easily accessible. That’s how we welcome people!
DA Schuhow says
I like a clean house with candles burning to make it warm and inviting.
Jenn says
I find a lot of it is all in my attitude – though I try to keep a tidy home, a cheerful, welcoming presence can go a long way in overcoming a bit of clutter or dust in the corners! π
Loan N says
I like the idea of turning on the porch light and entry lamps! Such a small yet big thing… I would have never thought of it. You’re such a thoughtful person, Melissa!
kara says
I love using our essential oil diffuser, people always love how it smells!
Experienced Bad Mom says
I do like to greet my kids and my husband with eye contact and a kiss and a hug. Even my tween likes it!
Danielle says
Love this post! Such great ideas!
Sarah M says
I love to have a fire going, and low-lighting during the evenings to make my home cozy, and of course–reading to my kids every night!
Courtney says
My husband loves lit candles, and we usually light them before guests come over so I need to start doing that for him as well
Paige Estes says
I like to keep one light on at home so when I get home from work, its not dark and unwelcoming for me. I also like to try and always give my hubs a big kiss on the lips so he knows I’m happy to see him. All four of us go our separate ways during the day with work and school. I love for all of us to congregate back at “home base” together at the end of the day for a meal and snuggles. Pizza and a movie on Fridays is a family favorite!
Angela Sangalang says
I like having food available, whether it’s dinner or easy to make meals in the refrigerator. It’s the Filipino culture π The first question guests are asked is usually, “Do you want to eat?” and it’s really an invitation, not an inquiry.
Cheri says
Scented candles or baked goods – the smell is what helps to welcome others.
Kristina says
Having the house smell good, candles, essential oils, etc!!
christin says
Music and candles and a nice meal always makes my home feel more inviting
Tracy says
Greet my hubby when he comes home!
RJ says
We have these all natural candles that give off nice light and not-overwhelming scent!
Misty says
A clean, tidy home with candles and blinds open with sunlight shining through that offers that sense of “welcome”.
Amanda says
Love this!
Amanda says
I like using candles and music as well as lamplight.
Meli Y says
One of my favorite things to do to create a welcoming home is to wipe down the table with lemon oil, it’s just such a nice refreshing smell.
Kristen says
I love all these ideas! Thank you!
Gwyn says
My favorite way to make my home inviting is to have homemade goodies, ready to serve.
Charlene says
I like to sit with each family member for a few minutes and discuss their day, and have the orders of dinner cooking smelling up the house.
Debra @ Msmoozys Open House says
Oh now I would love to win this book, I have purchased already but would LOVE to win one so I can share with a friend and have her join in the book study. I already have a place for that mirror now I just have to win it….LOL Thanks so much for sharing with us and so enjoy your website. π
Angie says
I like to keep the house neat, so if someone stops by unexpectedly, I’m not focused on how embarrassed I am about the state of my house and can focus on them.
Sheila says
Give the children a small snack so they can calm down and discuss their, day while supper is finishing cooking both. That way Mom and Dad can hear about any school news. Soft music in background.
Misty Keith says
We enjoy playing light music in the background as we enjoy a meal together. We enjoy having one meal together as a family daily. We, like others have already said, often have dance parties to some rockin music. We enjoy game and movie nights as well.
Jessica White says
Freshly washed quilts, good food, and comfy seats.
Heather Dietz says
We love listening to favorite Pandora stations to set the mood for the day/evening in the house. I also try to buy fresh flowers each week or two to add some color to the kitchen and living room where we spend most of our time!
Tammy says
I can relate. My husband doesn’t remember any details if I don’t give him some down time before engaging after he comes home. We always greet with a kiss, though. That’s our goodbye in the morning and our hello when he comes home. π
Misty Keith says
I love to bake and have friends and family over in the Autumn or Fall.
Cami says
Our house is old and far too small for our growing family. I don’t have a dishwasher, the laundry area is inconvenient, only one bathroom and even when my stove is clean you can’t tell. When I dwell on what my house looks like my HOME suffers. I believe that my home is far more than what my house looks like. However with this small space it is very hard to keep order and organization, but I’m trying.
Susan Gruener says
Thanks Melissa. Lots of good idea. I like the name of your book…sounds like ‘being content’ with what we have. That’s scriptural – and that’s always good. π
Blessings!
Laurie says
The smell of fresh bread baking makes me (and my family) happy!
Erin Smith says
This sounds so lovely! My Mama always makes sure the house is ‘picked up’ before my Daddy gets home.
Melanie Potter says
My home is inviting with warm colors & blankets on the couch. It’s always clean because that’s me, hot tea & enjoying quiet time or movie time with friends or family in our cozy living room.
Jamie Arlt says
I can’t wait to read this book, I try to make sure I have my Scentsy burning to make my home feel a little more welcoming.
Jeannetta says
I love to briefly straighten up and try to have a clean and organized dinette table- our family drop everything place. This says we are ready for you and you are welcome.
Robin in NC says
I really enjoy my flameless candles! They fill the house with such a welcoming & pleasant scent. Our furniture is also very comfy with a throw & a fun pillow on each piece.
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Christine says
I love to have homemade chocolate chip cookie dough in the freezer so I can make cookies at a moment’s notice. I also like to scent my house with orange essential oil.
Audra says
A clean house with food to share and plenty of comfy places to sit. I want people to feel comfy and at home when at my home!
SueBE says
This book seems to be full of the concrete reminders that we need to thrive.
Pippi says
Taking away the day’s clutter would be a wonderful way to welcome others. It’s not important to be minimalist or hospital clean, but a tidy room gives space to breath a little.
Kathy Wallace says
I like to make sure things are picked up and the counter top looks pretty with fresh flowers.
Mandy DeTurk says
I love having a tidy house, it makes me feel at home, and comfy and relaxed.
Vanessa says
I love keeping main spaces fairly clean. Then it looks neat and calm even if there are toys about or a bag or coat lying out. I also like turning on lamps and not the overhead lights.
SaraG says
Sharing a cup of tea.
Jodi White says
I love to light candles and have inspiring music playing when my family arrives home each day!
Jenn says
My favorite way to create a warm & inviting home is to have fresh flowers and candles for a yummy smell but most importantly a calm & relaxed heart π
Becky Jones says
I love to layer in my home…heavy quilts and throws and candles for the cool weather seasons and lots of light coverlets, fruits, flowers and soft lights for these warmer months..I always try to greet my guests with BIG hugs and something to refresh them {food & drink} and aim to fill up their love tanks before they head home…and I am so blessed in return! xoxo
Mary says
Love these ideas! It’s also important to keep your greetings warm and welcoming.
Gina Elder says
I love candles and soft lighting most of the time. However, summer nights I enjoy lively classical guitar music while I cook. I guess it depends on how tired I am after work?
Frances says
Candles, lights, something baking, have something fun out for people to do or read or play with (like slinkies or a cartoon book).
Lacey C. says
Candles and cookies help, but what really makes home feel warm and inviting is if the hosts are relaxed and encourage their guests to relax, too.
melaniefuller says
I always try to make sure the house is picked up & I usually have dinner on the table when my husband walks in from work. He loves this!
Rachel B says
I like to have a clean sink in the kitchen and clean countertops.
Lady Dorothy says
Some great tips! I put a soft lamp that is by the front window on a timer, so I won’t forget to turn it on in the evening. I have it go on in the early morning, too, so when my husband goes into the living room in the early morning (way earlier than I do), there is a soft welcoming light.
Deborah A. Nelson says
I would meet them at the door & have hot water for tea.
Susie says
I am so interested in this book. Would like to make my home more inviting and hospitable, but with working nights and being on the road a lot, the ideas have to be simple and not take a lot of time. I’m sure there are a wide range of them in the book. What a blessing it is to walk into a home and feel one’s blood pressure calm, the tension in shoulders release, to feel the uptight slide right out the end of one’s toes. That is the atmosphere I’d like to make with the “home I have”.
Susie says
Ooops, I commented before I read the question π I think soft quiet music and the scent of warm candles are my favorite warm and inviting things right now. It would be nice to expand my repertoire.
Maria says
Yummy smells: from the kitchen, from candles, from fresh flowers, etc.!
Leah says
Candles and clean surfaces.
lnhiggins says
I turn our Sonos onto HIllsong Live and let the music set the warm tone for my husband and our guests when they first enter the house. A little of God’s word in worship song goes a long way.
Brittany Waller says
My husband and I make sure to have dinner together with our kids (even though still very little) every night and we each share what the low spot and the high spot of our day was. It helps us to connect through more than the normal “how was your day?”
Lissette Romero says
I like to make the house inviting by cleaning it and making sure their is something to offer as far as a snack, and it helps if it is fragrant. π
Crystal says
Candles and worship music make our home inviting. : )
Nell says
My mother and grandmother taught me how to decorate a home. I inherited the “country” look from my mother. I love lamps and ceiling fans. I love roosters and apples. I love spiritual and inspirational decorations. I like photos of my family on the wall. I love books. And in just a couple of weeks, I will be in a townhome, living by myself as a single, independent Christian woman! This apartment has been my home for 1 year, 3 months, and my daughter lived with me for a while with her newborn son, and then I got involved in a relationship at about the time my daughter moved out, which really should have never happened like it has. So, this home hasn’t seemed like my home, even though I did rearranging after the New Year and Spring cleaning. I am looking forward to “Love the Home I Have” with all the suggestions and ideas from everyone. I like “home sweet home” and “happily ever after” in Jesus’ name!
Linda N says
I love soy candles (French pear is especially refreshing without being overly sweet), keeping the main areas generally picked up, and having a clean guest bathroom. As long as those things are in order, I don’t feel unpleasantly surprised by unexpected company.
Kris A says
Copious amounts of yummies [and sometimes adult beverages] along with lots of laughter and conversation.
Joesette says
I love to have yummy smelling wax melts warming throughout the house. I usually have a fragrance of vanilla or something similar to make the house smell sweet and like home baked cookies.
T Knowles says
Candles, especially Yankee candles. They make it smell really inviting and are pretty, too.
Mary says
I like the idea of setting timers for when you come home. Not coming into a dark quiet house anymore π
Stephanie Oliver Graeler says
So many creative ideas to make our house our homes!
Tess says
My husband sits in the car too and I am grateful he resets.
Courtney F. says
Buffer time is a great idea…though a bit of a challenge to convey it to toddlers! π
Charisa says
I like to light a scented candle, and greet my guests with a hug and smile. That always sets the tone by saying “you’re safe and welcome here!” π
Jodie says
Diffusing oils and playing my favorite music. It makes my less than perfect old home seam a little nicer.
Wendy Speake says
The Inspired Room is one of my favorite feeds on Instagram. Can’t wait to read this book.
Cait says
This article and her book are just what I need these days, really hits one of my biggest struggles as a wife and mother that I have been praying about lately as a new mom and new home owner.
Yolanda says
I love having music playing when the kids come home. It really sets a positive mood
Abby Breuklander says
I always try to have the house at least semi-picked up by the time everyone else comes home, makes it so much more inviting than controlled chaos
nicole says
Music! We are a dancing family and yes music can put us all into a great mood! Putting it on when my kids get home from school or my husband from work is an awesome idea!
lauracarter says
Make sure the house is clean and play music
Pam Adams says
I love using scented candles to create an inviting atmosphere and the warm glow of a candle is always welcoming. Love all the great, practical ideas!
JenP says
Big fan of background music, along with great smelling seasonal candles and open windows and patio doors (weather permitting, of course!). The music usually leads to our kids having a dance party π
Deborah says
Great ideas!
Kaylyn Johnson says
Pictures of my little family. I have lots of pics all over!
Tina says
I try to have everything picked up and the house smelling yummy.
Angie says
“Establish an evening ritual for meaningful conversation and
reconnection. Before discussing any negatives, encourage your family to
talk about the best part of their day.” <— Love this!!!! Will need to start doing this!!!!
bobbi says
We always eat dinner at the table together, with just my husband and me, or with our kids and family and friends too.
Joi Loree Leamons says
These are really good tips esp for how to greet your husband when he arrives. I need to do better with that.
Jennifer Delk says
These are some fabulous ideas that I look forward to trying!! Thanks for the suggestions. Hoping to get the book soon to read!!
Debra Schramm says
Fresh flowers are my favorite way to make my home inviting.
Theresa says
I love the idea of a time to just BE when everyone gets home. For me, it would a time when everyone gets home from school to just talk about what went right during the day, have a snack, and just enjoy each other.
Lori says
Beautifully written,we are creating a new space and these are great ideas for making it feel like home
Joanna says
I love the simply beautiful… A candle, fresh flowers… What my husband and children will notice as they enter, without fail… Yummy smells of freshly prepared food!
Sgoody says
I like putting fresh flowers & having candles going in my home. Also, I don’t like to have my house messy butβ¦I like a “comfortable” house, one that guests can hang in and not feel like that will “mess” things up or relax & enjoy themselves!!
Mandy says
I love te time spent eating breakfast with my littles before they are out the door, so we dour best to have everything for school prepped the night before to have this stress free time in the morning!
Wendi says
Light a candle, have some music on in the background, some freshly baked cookies making the house smell good and a nice treat for the family and any guest that stops by, and comfy places to sit and relax.
Chris H says
I like the idea of turning on the front porch light and some indoor lights. It sets the stage for a happy homecoming no matter the chaos that has happened that day.
Margaret Fehrenbach says
I think that a smile and a hug or handshake at the door is the way to always welcome everyone into your house.
Adams Family says
I enjoy light background music and the idea of stopping dinner prep to give a genuine welcome – eye contact, a kiss or hug.
Carole J. says
I love to light candles & use lamps instead of overhead lighting to create a homey environment.
Heidi says
When most people enter our home it is through the garage entrance, which comes right into our kitchen area. I always like to make sure the room is picked up and tidy (which is sometimes challenging because this is the room where a good deal of time is spent by everyone). It’s so nice coming home after a long day to a clean home.
Rebecca says
I like to have fresh flowers somewhere in my home and the floor free from clutter. We also have music playing most evenings while I prepare supper.
Carmie says
My goal is always to have supper ready or nearly ready by the time my hubby walks in the door. It’s amazing how much more relaxing the evenings are when supper is on time! When I’m behind on supper, bathtime and bedtime get shoved back too and that isn’t usually a very peaceful combination!
Kristie says
I would love to learn more about making our home a welcoming place. We are about to host a group from South America, and I want our home to be a reflection of Christ’s love. I can’t wait to read this book!
Becky says
Reducing clutter, warm colors, good company π
Cathy L says
I like the idea of lighting a candle. These little touches are nice.
Jane Gsellman says
Love your blog and all of the inspiration!
Janna says
I love to have something tasty to offer my family or guests–we have a comforting home cooked meal every evening! And it is always a goal to have the main living areas tidy–shoes seem to pile at our entrance. Nothing says “welcome home” like actually being able to make it through the front door. ;o)
tammy says
I love to bake. Walking into a house that smells like cinnamon, or baked apples, or cookies is always so nice and my family loves the treats.
Becky Teegarden Runyan says
I like to make my home feel welcoming to my kids and husband when they get home by having things as picked up as I can get them. Walking into a mess is stressful! I also like to have special snacks for the kids every now and then. We always greet my husband with hugs when he gets home <3
Julie says
We try to have our meals at the dinning room table – just a time for connecting & sharing the latest news…. We do give lots of hugs. When people leave, we tend to go to the front porch to wave goodbye ( with a smile ).
Stacy Brickhouse says
Candles are very inviting I always love to smell one burning when I go to someone else’s home. So I light one whenever I know someone is coming to mine.
Amanda says
I always try to have dinner at least PLANNED when he gets home. And I try to tidy up the living room before he walks in. I know the stress I feel when I come in and see stuff everywhere, so I try not to let that happen with him!
saf affect says
Thrifty finds that have a back-story make my space warm and inviting and personable.
Peggy says
Great post..welcoming ideas that are so simple. While my kids were growing up, I would make cookies several nites a week. There’s nothing like coming home from school to warm-from-the-oven cookies and a glass of cold milk.
Anna says
I love to use scented candles that I change with seasonal scents. I love using ocean scents for summer, flower scents for Spring
Valerie J. says
I like to cook and bake. Having dinners planned ahead make evenings easier for our family and we can relax at the end of the day. A bed made first thing in the morning, a Sunday cake, Friday evening family dance parties are part of the little things we do…
Tricia says
If I can’t greet my hubby at the door after work, I at least make sure it’s unlocked and I yell “Hi Babe!” from the kitchen when I hear him come in π
Marisa Patel says
I love the idea of music to help create a calm mood. I already do most of the other suggestions, minus candles, so I may try to do that as well.
Laura says
Lamps and candles are my favorites – nothing softens a room like good lighting!
sandra says
Loved reading this. I’m going to start applying a couple of these to our routines!
Emilee Hope Turner says
I like to have seasonal decor and a relaxed feeling in my home so you feel comfortable coming in and taking your shoes off and getting comfy with a quilt on the couch or a glass of sweet tea at the kitchen table!
lynelle says
I like to have enough comfy seating for everyone, as we are slowly furnishing our first home that has been a priority for me.
Lillian Warkentin says
Thank you for this reminder that we can create love and beauty wherever we are. Getting up and greeting with a genuine smile and a hug let’s my loved ones know I am happy they are here and worth my time. π
BirdinHandVTG Laurie says
Buffer time is key for me too! So I have the table set ahead of time and know which linens, serving platters, bowls, etc. that I’ll be using (“dressing” the table is my favorite part!). And fresh flowers in a vase or creative container always.
Melissa says
Thank you for these great ideas! I look forward to trying some of them!
Gloria York says
I love to light candles and turn on my lamps. I love the atmosphere it creates!! I know my family appreciates the extras I do to my our home cozy and inviting!!
Courtney says
My favorite way to create a warm and inviting atmosphere is to light candles! They instantly brighten a room and make it feel warm, inviting and peaceful. I also love to play uplifting music for a group of friends, or peaceful music when I want my family to wind down and de-stress after a long day.
Alisa says
What a wonderful read. Thank you for all of the wonderful suggestions and perspective! It seems like it always a whirlwind when we leave and when we come home. After reading this i have encouragment to make some changes! Thank you.
Kim says
I often ask the kids to do a chore right when they come home from school because it is on MY mind that it needs to be done, not taking into account that THEY need to decompress after a day at school. Thank you, Melissa, for showing me that asking them to do a chore as soon as they walk through the door does not feel like “WELCOME HOME” to them. I will be changing that practice TODAY!
Stephanie says
When I walk in the door home from work, my kids always come running and give me huge hugs. It makes me so very happy.
Joy says
A warm and inviting home starts with you. You can have the most beautiful home, but unless you have love in your heart your guests won’t feel welcome. Thanks for the thoughtful reminders on how to show others that they are welcome.
Shanna Schlabach says
I love to light a candle and make sure there is music playing softly in the background.
Kesha says
Music on in the background, a tidy house, and snacks ready. Thank you for the giveaway!
Meaghan says
I can completely identify with wanting to run out for some alone time as soon as my husband comes home from work. π Melissa has inspired me to think about how HE feels when he comes in from a long day to three children and a (sometimes) disgruntled wife. Thank you! for the reminder that I can set a welcoming tone for my family on a daily basis, not only for our occasional guests.
Cathy says
I find when the kitchen table is clear from clutter that it creates a peaceful atmosphere when my husband enters the house.
Teresa S says
My husband is always home before me and he (almost) always greats me at the back door or outside at my vehicle to help me inside. I LOVED the example of turning the light on outside at dusk. I had previously read that idea somewhere, and it meant “I love you” and care about your safety and glad you are home!! Love it and love my hubby and the little things we do for each other!! Nice giveaway!!
Barbara says
I like to welcome people to my home with lights, candles and FLOWERS!
Heidi says
I love having lots of throw blankets around to wrap up in, especially on our long, cold MN winter nights!
Melinda Wilson says
I have read several books on love languages, his needs/her needs and these really gave me some insight to what each of my family members needed to feel loved and happy to be home. My husband was one that needed words of affirmation so I would greet him with a smile and be interested in his day. That didn’t mean having to greet him at the door every day because many times I would be cooking so he would walk on in to the kitchen. Just taking that little bit of time usually set the tone for the evening.
Even though the house wasn’t “clean” all the time, I would keep the living room picked up and items in their proper place so we wouldn’t have to be stepping over things to walk into the house.
J Riggs says
I like to have a buffet of food out. Everyone loves it and eats and visits and laughs and stay connected. I believe in the power of a warm brisket, potato salad and a nice warm peach cobbler π
Rachel B says
Those are great ideas and as hard as it might be with random schedules they are still worth doing even several times a day.
Valerie says
I like to create an inviting home by lighting candles.
RENONFL says
LOVE YOUR BLOG
Mj says
Two cups of hot coffee and classical music in the background are our favorite ways to welcome our guests or family into our home.
Kristin Smith says
Love these ideas, I need to work more on creating an inviting and warm space. I love the idea of having an evening ritual!
Shelly says
Cleaning the house and lighting a candle. I just have to run the vacuum and wipe off the counters–and flush the toilets (Why can’t my people just flush the toilet?).
Jen S. says
Oh, I think this book was written for me! Can’t wait to read it!
Becky Stepp says
I always stop what I am doing and greet my husband with a hug and kiss. So does our little dog, Willy!
Jen S. says
Candles, soft music, and something cooking!
Jan says
Love to open the windows, have music playing, and a fresh scent in my warmer. Love Melissa’s blog…anxious to read her new book!
KarenH says
There are great ideas just in the article so the book must be great! I love the idea of greeting family when they come home like guests.
Jenny Shinsky says
I am always trying to find new ways to make my home inviting.
Gayla says
I really like the idea of holding off negative thoughts and discussion. Although, the reality is that some things need to be addressed by Dad “the Principal” since we homeschool and are home all day, we could work better at focusing on the positive. I love this starburst mirror. It would look great in our guest house that we are currently remodeling for intinerating missionaries.
DonnaS says
Love your tips! We always try to keep it positive when everyone comes home. It’s a bummer to be bombarded with the bad stuff when you first walk in the door.
Erika Williams says
I like the keep the entry tidy. That is hard with 2 boys and a dog. I am going to really work on that!
Ally says
Fluffing my pillows, cleaning the kitchen and clearing off my kitchen table which seems to be the “catch all” place!!
I am so thankful to have found your blog from Ann Voskamp – and I’m sending it to my girlfriends now to recommend us doing your book in our next bible study!!
Teresa says
We love casual entertaining too – call it porch time and background music adds so much. Summer weather is in the air and time for friends and family to visit. Love your ideas!
hobbitbride says
I absolutely need to set timers! It’s easy to lose myself in whatever I’m doing and not remember to freshen up until I hear my hubby turning the key in the door. I am also a big fan of good scents–be they candles or food cooking or whathaveyou–as a way to welcome in guests and family.
Lisa says
What lovely ideas. Thank you for sharing.
Teresa says
We enjoy casual entertaining too, porch time we call it. Weather is perfect now for porch talk, food and music.
Rhetta Stephens says
I love the warm, indirect lighting from lamps placed around our space as well as the fragrance of a scented candle. Dust bunnies magically disappear in the soft glow–bonus! When hubby arrives home, I try to stop whatever I’m doing to greet him.
Julie S says
I love candles and quiet music to create a mulitsesory relaxing atmosphere. Also, deep, honest conversation and feeling safe to share in my home are important to me.
Amy P says
Just what I needed today!
Angeles says
I make my home welcoming and inviting by not having everything too perfect. Others relax when they realize my home is for living in, not showing off.
Jules says
Accent lighting (which hides a multitude of sins), inexpensive grocery store or farmers market flowers, & music make everything look better/more welcoming. Then no one notices the dust!
Laura says
I like candles:)!
Lauren Anne Powell says
I love to light the scentsy candle by the front door and to lower the lighting for ambiance right before my husband arrives home. I’ve noticed he enters more peacefully when I’ve taken a moment to do this. something about a positive smell in the house, whether the candle or food cooking, makes for a happier home after a long day.
Jami says
What is your favorite way to create a warm & inviting home?
Just keeping an open door policy and always having a bed to sleep in or a shoulder to cry on.
Erin S. says
I love music and candles to make a home feel cozy
Jeanne says
I love all these ideas for making your family feel loved and welcomed.
Kristen says
lamps and comfy blankets π
Tina says
Lighting and music sets whatever mood you’re trying to attain. If the lights and music are bright and welcoming it revives the spirit and makes you happy to be there!
Chrissy says
I do the best I can to keep my home neat and clean, and then I don’t let myself fret if if it’s not perfect!!
Ingrid says
For some reason, clean floors are a big deal to me and are the one thing I want to have when company stops by on short notice. After that, it’s all about investing myself into each person who walks through our door so that they leave feeling like they’ve been accepted and loved in our home.
FarAboveRubies says
I love the idea of leaving the lights on when he comes home. My husband and I work together all day long. Sometimes he goes out at night to do an estimate on a job. I usually stay home during those nights. From here on in, I’m leaving the lights on for him when he comes home after dark.
Lynn says
I find it a challenge to welcome my husband every time he comes through the door — we have a farm. I need to find a way to keep the home always welcoming to him.
Kayla says
Before company comes I always like to have the main areas tidied, main surfaces quickly dusted, the radio on in the background, and a candle or two lit. I don’t know why I never thought to create a similar welcoming atmosphere for my husband to walk into each night. Great idea!
heidi says
Fresh flowers, a lit candle (day or night), throws on the couch to cuddle with, little clutter, simplicity in everything you do…makes it home…all the “messes” of daily life are left outside the door~
Lisa says
This is easy for me to forget–I’m such a lowest-common-denominator person. I do try to give a special greeting as family members come or go in our home, but I’ve let it drop off. Time to try again! It’s a good day if I can get the living room tidied up at the end of the afternoon π
Pat says
I no longer have anyone to come home to or wait for but I do enjoy coming home from work to My Home and My Home welcomes Me.
Denise Martinez says
I love our family time around the dinner table. It gives us a chance to talk about our day and decompress before we start the kids bedtime routine.
sharon says
well frankly, i made a goal on those certain days ‘that got away from me’ to put some makeup on before the husband got home! occasionally this meant only minutes before is arrival. it was part of looking fresh, and happy and welcoming — for him to be home, and the inner feeling that he was just as important to me, as the truth that I would put make up on to go to Target!!
Brandi Nabors says
I am a huge lamp fan. I love the soft dim light that lamps give off and it makes our home feel so cozy and inviting…or so I think :D! I also love that home is a home, it’s not a show piece. It’s a lived in home that shows signs of active little ones and love that’s growing each and every moment!
Janet says
I am loving this book!!!
Scarlette Chapman says
I always have at least one light on in the entry way and a few scented candles lit.
Jamie D. says
To me, good food served with everyone around the table makes a cozy home.
Corrie says
I love that I get home around 45 minutes before everyone else!
Kelly says
I enjoy diffusing essential oils and playing music. We frequently have dance parties at home that really bring us closer together
bigeyedchick says
I could really use this book!!! My home needs help!
Teresa Andersen says
I love and have used many of the tips you gave….I find little touches like real cloth napkins for dinner and hugs go a long way. Happy Day
Andie Ellis says
I love having soup in my freezer! When someone stops by..we can ALWAYS have soup supper and light the fire.
Melissa Osigian says
I love to light a yummy-smelling candle…peaks two senses…sight and smell.
Barb Ward Dittrich says
Candle light is a warm way to not only have family members have a visual reminder of my love, it’s a great way to signify God’s presence in our midst.
C Johnston says
My friends can put their feet up on the coffee table and help themselves in the kitchen.
Karen says
A relaxed atmosphere with comfy seating (in or out) and great smells to welcome anyone coming in.
Dana S says
A quick clean up, music and candles at dinner!
Gina says
Dim lights and candles make my home warm and inviting
LB says
This is so affirming because it is do-able when broken down into small tasks that end up meaning a lot. We strive to keep our dining room table clean and make it a space for food and conversation only (though it is SO tempting to pile up random items there!!!)
Kathleen Grace says
Having a warm and welcoming home has always been my goal. We both work from home so there isn’t any welcome time, but we do like to walk away from our desks and take a walk together to end the day. It’s our time out of the “office”, and time together to talk.
Jenn says
I light a candle to quiet myself and refocus.
Debbi says
I need some encouragement in this area! I’m pretty good about making my home welcoming for guests, but not always so good about welcoming my family home. =(
Becky Dart says
My parents have always been known for their hospitality in making people feel warm and loved whether in our home or anywhere else. Gentleness, compassion and a true interest in others are the keys to a warm welcome. In my house what feels warm and inviting to me are the stories and memories behind each piece of furniture and other items that surround me. So many echoes of love and gratefulness make it a haven for me.
Christine says
My favorite way to make my home warm and inviting is candles and lighting, throws and pilows, the colors I’ve chosen for the main living areas
Rachel says
I like to make my home warm and inviting by always having music playing and a candle lit!
Martha says
I think, for me, making space for beauty in the home helps make it warm and inviting, whether that be a fresh bouquet of flowers, a scripture printable taped to the wall, or a clean and tidy space to sit with some books nearby.
Wendy Munsell says
This post highlights an important idea, that of taking the time and mental energy to be proactive about welcoming our friends and loved ones whenever they arrive. Too many times I’ve allowed the day’s pace to determine the mood of home at the end of the day.
Jan says
I like special lamps on, the smell of freshly brewed coffee. I also like to have my entry ways clutter free. π
Claire says
I love these ideas!! As a mama of a little one, this is an encouraging reminder that I still can do a few small things to welcome my husband home at the end of the day, and others into our home, however messy it may be! π
mary says
Books, plants and flowers and a comfy reading chair!
Yevette says
Clean and put the face on the house!
Lorie says
My mother always told me that candle light solves a myriad of problems… from disguising a dusty slightly messy house, calming everyone down at dinner, or creating romance. And she was right. Thanks for the reminder.
Joanna Ainscough says
It is really touching about how to make the house to be home. Good tips to get the happy family. I always love to have either TV or radio in my home when I am working.
Pam Graber says
At our house welcome was something as simple as having supper in the crockpot when my husband got home. He never fails to comment, “Something smells good in here!”
Rebecca M says
I like to make sure things are tidy enough, then light a candle or two! These simple things help me relax.
Wendy says
I always try to greet my hubby at the door with a kiss. Some days I don’t make it over to him before he gets out of his work boots, so he finds me…usually in the kitchen! It takes two seconds to stop what I’m doing acknowledge and honor his presence and helps us to connect even through the chaos and baskets of laundry that having four kiddos generate! π
jenn says
My husband works nights and comes home in the morning. I try to make sure the door has been unlocked and coffee is ready to welcome him in. It’s not much, but he knows what it means!
Cindy says
I always have lit candles on the dinner table, whether it’s just my husband and I, the whole family, or company. It makes out time together seem more sacred.
J-walk says
Your simplistic decorating ideas are beautiful and pocketbook friendly! Enjoying your posts immensely — and your tie-in with HOLY EXPERIENCE!
Jamie Foote Griffith says
candles!
Peg says
A welcoming entry, pretty rug, flowers, candles, a lamp turned on at twilight…these are a few of my favorite things!
Diana says
My mom’s friend gave me the advice to always put a little lipstick or lip gloss on before my hubby came home. This is almost the same for the home. I can’t wait to read this book. Hope I win!
dgpangburn says
With 3 boys, it’s so hard to keep up with everything! I try to declutter as much and as often as I can!
Bernadette says
Good smells! Nothing is more inviting than the smell of yummy food cooking, begging to be eaten:-)
Ellen says
I love the idea of having a lamp or two on timers, so that the house is lit up upon arrival. It’s always nice to have nice smells to come home to as well…potpourri or the like is very welcoming.
Leslie Burns says
I make my home warm and inviting by keeping it clean! Nothing deters guests or make them feel unwelcome like mess.
Kathy says
I love greeting people with a hug.
Marilyn Holeman says
To create a warm and inviting home, I like to have fresh flowers from my garden, and make sure that the house is in order, with everything picked up and counters clear. It doesn’t always happen, though! π
Pacific Northwest Girl says
I always welcome my weekend guests by saying “I’ll leave a light on for you”. There is always relaxing instrumental music playing, nourishing food and snacks available, and the guest room is welcoming with fresh linens and towels, fluffy and warm bath robes, good books and magazines on the nightstands along with a little sweet treat. I try to have everything ready “ahead of their arrival” so I can relax and spend quality time visiting. If my guests are simply coming for a meal, I again have the table set ahead of time and the food preparations complete so I can come home from work, put dinner on to cook, and be ready to relax and visit when my guests arrive. I love opening my heart and home to guests!
Kate says
I know of a woman who would try to make sure her husband came home to a homey environment. Some nights she would start sauteeing onions and garlic just before he came in the door (even if dinner wasn’t quite underway) so he could enter to the smell of something delicious on the stove and know that something good was on the way.
Tanya says
My husband and I both like to cook. Family and friends alike know that they won’t go hungry at our house. Nice giveaway!
Molly Viars Lewis says
Now that my husband and I are retired (and empty nesters) we keep our home cozy and inviting by starting each day with fresh coffee and morning conversation. No matter what our day holds, we start with time together. When family and friends are coming, our way to say ‘welcome’ is to provide a meal in a casual and relaxing atmosphere, a place where there is no pretense or expectation, a place where intimate and life giving conversations happen around the dinner table or while cleaning up afterward. After all, it is the people and not the dΓ©cor who are important.
shelby says
lighting a favorite candle, so the house smells like baking when you come in, instead of smelling like diapers π
R Trittel says
My favorite way to create a warm and inviting home is to have nice smells – candles, soup, cookies, etc. It is amazing how strong our sense of smell is – it always brings up memories of childhood. I know that the smell of fresh cut watermelon is the signal of summer, for example!
Bertie DeWane says
My husband and I arrive home from work about the same time, so I need to be more consistent about leaving the house in good shape when I leave in the mornings. I would love the book and the mirror!
Dana says
Our family is opposite. I work and my husband is the one greeting me with a warm lunch or dinner and a smile. I am blessed!
Julia Anderson says
Having a basket of toys under the sofa for the grandkids, and a basket of outdoor toys on the front porch.
Frances says
What great tips! I often do the first one listed.
Alexandria Howard Smiley says
trying to stay organized for a stress free exit is a must in our home
Char says
Love the tips!! I think a warm and inviting home starts with candle light and lamps! Anything that just feels cozy!
Beth says
My husband and I have always called the outside porch light the “love light” because it means I love you and am anxious for you to be home safe.
Sandy A says
Fresh bedding and bath towels, a must that takes so little effort but you feel so pampered! TVs off but soft background music.
Luanne says
I light candles, play soft music, leave the TV off and at times add flowers to our table.
Leilani says
I like lots of pillows!
Debbie says
Love your daily posts! Find them so encouraging, especially because I need to love my home!!
Vicki says
Scented candle burning in the downstairs washroom.
Julie says
i love using my diffuser, and giving my kids some time when they first get home from school to grab a good book and cozy up to some good writing in a quiet, good-smelling home.
Rona Berry-Morin says
I love having a balcony. Over the years, hubby and I have created a small garden and sitting area. It’s one of my favorite places during the early morning. And when my husband is home on the weekend, we can enjoy it together.
Ashley says
Thank you for sharing and being REAL, Melissa! It’s true: even turning on that warm glowy lamp or adding a vase of fresh-cut greenery makes a place feel lovely and cared-for… and I think that feeling extends to whoever makes their home in that place. π
Lisa says
i like having a snack for guests to munch on and plenty of drinks.
joanne says
I love scented candles, not too strongly scented though, and comfortable seating.
The Starburst mirror is beautiful.
rachel l. says
These are all so attainable, and for my busy family of six, that’s exactly what I need. Simple ways to take pause and set the tone for the day/evening. I love this.
AB says
I love the idea of protecting your home as a ‘safe’ place, both cozy & comforting. I also love music & lighting.
Jamie says
I love low lighting. Lamps for now as having little ones has meant I put the candles away.
Terri H says
Thanks for the chance to win. I like comfortable furniture, bright windows and music in the air!
pam says
I find certain candle scents are so warm and inviting. My house can be messy and my friends will say they could stay all afternoon because it smells so good. Even the mailman came into the foyer to deliver a package once and told me how great my house smelled.
latanya t says
keeping the house clean and smelling good
Linda says
Many of these tips are ones that we use in our own modified ways. I find many of the new ones that are new to us worth a try as well.
Sally Welch says
We have family photos combined with a special basket collection and live plants in the family room. Throw pillows, throws, and lamps make it cozy. I notice most of you like candles. I do too, but I have known of someone burning down their condo with a candle and another who came home to find a puddle of wax on her new carpet where she’d forgotten to put out the candle on her bsr counter. So I’m mostly now using a neat electric wax burner that has a switch for off and on. Just my 2 cents.
Sheralynne Petty says
Whenever my husband comes home I make sure to stop whatever I’m doing and give him a quick hello and a kiss. He then heads upstairs to change out of uniform and decompress. It’s perfect for us because we acknowledge each other and then prepare for the evening so when he comes back downstairs I have the kids busy with tasks and we are able to discuss our days before I begin dinner.
Staci Mann Torgerson says
When my girls come home from school the tv’s Pandora immediately comes on so we can listen to music as we sit and have lunch together and talk about their day and what we need to do to finish homework and get prepared for the next day. When my husband arrives home from work I try to always go to the door and greet him with a kiss and tell him how glad I am that he’s home. I know I can be doing more and what you’ve suggested are so great ideas I am going to definitely try,
Anne B says
Great ideas. Some already in place but will be adding a few more. Thanks!!
Erin says
My favorite way to welcome guests is to set out a nice tablecloth or pretty napkins, enjoy tea or coffee and hopefully have a baked item too if I can manage. But a hot something on a pretty table isn’t too difficult & always seems to be appreciated.
Dawn H says
Coming home to a clean yet lived-in home is relaxing for all of our family. We all do our parts to try and leave the house somewhat picked up. Thanks for the giveaway!! Melissa your book is so inspiring to truly love the home we live in!
Karen says
Bowls of a signature potpourri give our home a welcoming scent…my adult children still breathe deeply when arriving “home” after an extended absence.
KimberlyInVA says
Calming scented candles, dim lighting, and a cozy place to relax.
Tina W says
I always have a warm and furry friend to greet myself and my guests. My cats are what makes my home feel loved.
craftytammie says
I like to burn candles that smell like baked goods, it makes the house feel welcoming!
Donna says
I like having the table set for supper and the smells of good food cooking for when my husband comes home. Plus greeting him at the door. He is usually hungry, and he loves to be greeted. He feels welcomed home and loved. That sets the tone for the rest of the evening.
ali t says
i like making sure i have cozy blankets!
Lee Sullivan says
I’m very much looking forward to trying some of these ideas at home.
Vicki Leet says
I totally agree, the no hassle home, and creating the loving atmosphere is crucial. I always use candles and fresh flowers to warm up the space. My tradition is to leave a welcoming note by the bedside for guests .
Shanna says
I love all of the ideas! I’m going to print them out so I’ll have quick access to them. π
Candace says
I love the idea of greeting family with a kiss, a hug, and a smile when they come through the door!
Jennifer says
Love this. want to read it
Jennifer says
i want people to feel comfortable to come in and relax, warm blankets, good candle smells maybe something baking
Kerry Brasher says
I love to use my diffuser for smells to set the tone of the day. Something bright and clean smelling for the day keeps me upbeat and going. Something soothing at night helps my brain wind down. The same goes for music and lighting. I tend to keep my house neater and feel less like a mama maniac when I am creating a peaceful rhythm and flow for my body throughout the day. And when mama is happy…seems like everyone else jumps on board too!
Madeline Osigian says
I bought my mom this book, and I know we’ll both end up reading it and LOVING it!
My favorite way to create an inviting home is to put on some peaceful music and put out flowers
Bethanie Ryan says
My favorite way to create a warm and inviting home is food. I’m half-Italian, it’s in my blood to feed people.
Stacey Hall says
Thanks for these ideas! I’ve loved making our home a sanctuary for my family over the years it is amazing what implementing these ideas can do for your home & the ones you love!!
Kaitlin Geddis says
I feel like my family’s more like roommates, my sister spends most of her time in her room.
CyndaP says
I love the idea of rituals for homecoming.
Cynthia Hardy Studer says
My favorite way is to greet my kids with a quick hug and how was your day. We usually have a snack and they will goof off while I start dinner. My husband gets a hug and a kiss and we talk a bit while he either makes a quick sandwich or we make dinner together. With 3 men in the house the sooner we eat the better!
Samantha says
My little pup and I are always at the door ready to greet my husband when he comes home from work. He lights up every time he sees us standing there. I try to make my home welcoming by being a hospitable host. Asking if a guest needs anything goes quite far in making them feel welcome in your home.
susanmulder says
Candles and dimmed light add just the right amount of warmth and camouflage(!) and make evenings feel special-even if it’s just a Tuesday!
Judy Westmoreland says
When guests come I like to have a clean front entry. It is so nice to have guests come and stay. Freshly washed towels and sheets plus great smelling soaps are so very welcome after a long day of traveling. Music and candles complete a home cooked meal. Would love to win your new book. Thanks for all the great ideas and encouragement you give us on your blog!β₯
Heather P. says
Definitely candles…plus they help relax me.
Rebecca Greenland says
I like to have music playing softly in my kitchen,
along with scented candles burning and lots of seasonal dΓ©cor throughout the house to greet my guests!
Sara Stover says
I keep the TV off!
Lauren says
Looks of encouraging words! We try to build each other up.
marsha says
Wonderful encouragement to change the tone of welcome home!
Thank you!
angie says
All of these are great ideas! It is about taking a little time and consideration.
Holly P. says
I love to turn on music and have a light snack after a long day at work!
Blair Mynatt says
Lower lighting and candles seem to do the trick for me. Maybe it helps hide the mess!
Debbie Keith says
Keeping things fresh simply by cleaning and then rearranging what I have. Things are never static in our home!
Marty says
I love all the ideas! My greatest find for warming up our home and setting a welcoming tone are flame less candles on timers. Both my husband and I are sensitive to scented candles so these work so well for us. I like to set them near a mirror to reflect the glow!
Sheri Clark says
I love using candles and/or baking something.
Tammy_Skipper says
Our current home is the first one where I’ve truly felt it was “worth” putting our money towards things we will enjoy now instead of only thinking about the features I don’t want in our forever home. I’m enjoying it so much more!
Janet magina says
I have followedMelissa and her blog since the very beginning. She is truly inspiring.
Sherry says
Softened lights and lit candles create such a welcoming atmosphere. Thanks for all the great ideas!
Grace says
As newlyweds with crazy schedules, my husband and I will tidy up and leave little surprises to prepare for the other to get home. We choose things like soft blankets, spicy candles, and flowers to warm up our tiny apartment. There’s also always some chocolate hiding somewhere…
Heather Barnes says
I like making my home a haven by having it decluttered and having special pieces around.
M. Wing says
I like to keep plenty of throw blankets around for extra comfort!
lauracarter says
I love the mirror, it’s so pretty. We love music and love to play it loud sometimes.
Heather B says
I try to make a clear entryway and kitchen island…light a candle…play music. Can be a challenge with 3 littles…but when my husband comes home especially…I would like to offer calm before the chaos π
Lela says
We all love a scented candle or incense… we move frequently and those scents make our home feel comfortable right away.
darla says
I love candles and cleanliness π
Crystal Clark says
I think the easiest way to create a welcome environment in my house is to light a candle. It’s pretty, and even if everything doesn’t LOOK nice, at least it can SMELL NICE!
Claudia says
We love to seat around the living room once a week to talk about our week with our young adult children
Jessica Lynn says
Love what your saying here! This book is definitely going on my reading list. I have twinkle lights in our living space above the china cabinet that go on toward the end of each day. They add a bit of warm to the room, and are welcome home to anyone entering the house toward the end of the day.
Patty says
I have strands of tiny blue & white lights in our wall of bookshelves in our living room. I love to turn them on as soon as I get home from work (usually before my husband gets home), and look forward to seeing them on when I’m the last one home. Now that my youngest son often gets home at midnight or after from work I leave just those lights on when I go to bed, as a welcome sign for him. And now I understand why they’re so important to me!
Kim says
Man, I definitely needed this encouragement today! I spent the night at a friend’s house to take care of her kids during her surgery and came home after work to so much clutter & mess. I am going on a purging spree and what is left is going to be stream-lined, warm, and welcoming to our whole family!
Aimee says
I love our personal family photos on the wall! It makes moving around a bunch so much easier when each place feels like home.
Kate says
I think the best (and worst) welcome is set by a mood! Lights and candles and food might be a part of it, but a smile and hug and letting the person know you are glad to see them and plan to enjoy your time with them for the evening…that’s the kind of house I want to visit. We used to live in the upper Midwest, so lights and a cozy fire for guests or weekend family nights were a great way to say “welcome home!” Now, in the Southwest, enjoying a few minutes outside whenever possible before going in for dinner and the evening tasks…that helps my husband and kids calm down from a busy day.
nadya kotik says
Vintage items that are not very expensive so people don’t feel like they will break something that’s expensive. Bright colors!
Carmen N says
Add fresh flowers – especially if they come from the garden.
Nancy Broquist Hornbeck says
My husband and I recently moved from a house to a small apartment. I love the ideas I found here. I feel encouraged and have new resolve to begin to create a home that both of us can love.
Debra Bacon says
I enjoyed your post. I especially like the idea of greeting family in special ways. I agree that “coming home should be the sweetest part of the day.”
Kimberlee Powell says
I like to try to have dinner started. I am a big fan of scents, so lighting a good smelling candle works well too.
Caitlin Baker says
Music playing always seems like an instance mood lifter for my family.
Jennie C. says
Flowers help warm and welcome the space.
Annette says
My avorite way to create a warm & inviting home is with the use of throws, scented candles, and pictures.
Janice Justice Kellam says
nothing warms a home like candles, yummy foods sitting around the kitchen table!
Erica Sooter says
These are all fantastic tips. I work really hard to provide a relaxing and welcoming atmosphere for when my husband gets home and I can tell it really makes a difference in everyone’s attitudes!
Lisa Keys says
I have always said that it’s not what the outside looks like it’s the love on the inside that makes a home
Kari says
I love offering something to eat and drink. Such an intimate way to offer hospitality to others.
Kimberly Ross Marshall says
I like playing music and lighting some candles around my home all of the time. I have coffee ready when company comes over or something to drink such as iced tea. Gives a warm and inviting atmosphere. The candles help before and after cleaning.
Nichole Turner Kuehl says
Seeing clutter definitely adds to my husband’s stress. To help him feel better after a long day at work, I try to pick up the main areas that he sees as soon as he enters the house.
Susana Serapicos says
I love to encourage my daughters with post-its wrote by me to give confidence and support them, and I place it on the bathroom mirror. Sorry I don’t have facebook…
John Helene Trueheart says
I really think it’s important to have a tidy home, not perfect, but welcoming. π
tammy cordery says
I love the sound of this book. I have never thought about caring for a house as honoring God but I guess it would be right because he gave you this house he would like you to care for it like you are caring for your child.
linda says
Love the candle idea and music…sets the tone for a very content evening
Jean says
I like to decorate with proverbial sayings and have light inspirational books and magazines scattered around the house where guests might be.
Marlo says
Dim lights, light candles, and play an instrumental station on Pandora. Then have whatever food and drinks are suitable. Thank you for the giveaway!
Chinita Patrick Hayden says
The title, the graphics, the commentary makes me want to read the book and also buy copies for my adult children. Thank you.
Kelly Jones says
Love the idea of buffer times as our household gets really crazy with a teenager & all the activities! Also am looking forward to turning on music instead of the TV! Thanks!
Wynter Rose says
I love the fragrance and the ambience of candles; so depending on my mood I have several different candle holders I will use. It makes the home feel cozy and bright.
Leslie says
Hi! I did 6 of the additional items and it is still showing 1 post???
I really want to win the book and mirror!!! Thanks!!!!! :>)
Jenelle G says
I have a fairly big family so stress in the home has been a common occurrence among us all for years. Because I feel like I’m constantly busy, creating a stress-free departure is my favorite way and still something I’m working on for myself. I’ve noticed when I do that, it gives me a really good feeling of accomplishment to know I’ve allowed for more time and prepared in advance–plus, I don’t have to rush around getting things together last-minute.
Issa says
Thanks for those insightful advice!
Diane says
The best welcome home for me and my son is to have the simmered smell of a beef roast that has been in the crockpot all day. It smells like someone else made it and welcomes us home!
Trudi Cook says
I appreciated the thoughts of entering into a peaceful and welcoming home. I live alone, and one thing I appreciate is having a subtle lamp come on via timer before I get home on winter evenings so I don’t have to walk into a dark house. And this encouraged me to straighten up the area a little more before I go to bed so I walk into a neater area!
Bonnie Reeb says
You speak my heart and ignite my passion for hospitality with fresh and loving ideas. Thank you. So glad I stumbled onto your site! Exciting!
Elizabeth P. Deans says
I try to offer refreshment of some kind to all those that enter my home, to some it is food, to others it is a beverage, to others it is a place to sit and relax.
Patricia Isabella says
I love music in my house, especially the Gaither’ s or any Christian music or old country tunes.
Krisanne Millan-Burgess says
I would LOVE to have your book !!! God has been teaching & speaking to me about hospitality for quite some time and I recently signed on to rep for a Christian direct sales company whose focus is on hospitality. So I LOVE learning anything new on this topic !!
Kirsti says
I just moved to a across country and and mired with things out of place. My husband now works crazy long hours and I never know when he is coming home. I think I will do music and lighting to make the atmosphere warm. When I find my crockpot, I would love to fill the house with smells too. For now, I use essential oils.
Renee Steiner Pasich says
I hung mason jars in my kitchen window and put led tea lights in them. I also light a scented candle.
Randelle S. says
I’m still trying to learn how to make my home more inviting. I’m a newlywed, and am terrible at homemaking at the moment. I’m ready to learn!
coral says
How I create a warm home for husband and family members Guest give hugs and let them feel at home
Renee Ortiz says
Yesterday my daughter and I picked flowers and arranged a spring bouquet.. What a difference to my catastrophic house… Just fixing up one tiny little corner!
Melisa M. says
I think a warm and inviting home needs to be comfortable for all the people in it, not just myself. I try to remember that and keep things casual enough for my husband and son. I’d love to win the book!
Susan Capps says
Thank you for encouraging me with these helpful tips and ideas! God bless! π
Sarah Jo Burch says
It’s hard to create a “tradition” of welcome, what with my husband’s inconsistent work schedule – but I have found that a candle (on the busy days) or a batch of cookies brightens his face whenever he gets home. π
Jennifer Lam says
We like to prep our children so they greet our guests cheerfully and maybe even by name. If friends with children are visiting we talk about our plans to share our toys cheerfully with our guests.
bhull02 says
I like to have the fireplace going on a chilly evening and have some candles lit. I also make sure to have a few throws placed on the furniture so my family can cuddle up to read or watch television. Fresh flowers in springtime are always nice too!
Annette says
We love to light candles at supper time. We have three girls, so one day they will know how to make their house feel like a home. I would love this for a summer read. We have been our home for 12yrs next month so I need some ideas to freshen it up.
Amy says
I love walking into my house and it’s filled with the smell of a delicious meal I left in the crockpot that morning. I says its time to get together and share at the table!
Vickie Davenport says
Love that hospitality seems to be making a reappearance – Love the ideas of sitting a pretty table.
Rhonda says
Soft music, candles, lots of pillows, and throws!
Rhonda says
Soft music, candles, lots of pillows, and throws!
Kimberly says
A nice smell, a fresh bouquet of flowers picked by my kids, and some soft piano music playing.
Tina says
Thank you for sharing that excerpt Melissa!
Enjoy your day!
Kris says
I need this! I struggle in this area and always feel a little like a fraud with a sign on my door that says “Welcome”. Hospitality is my hearts desire!
Peg Ricketts says
having flowers (in season) on the entry porch, and having soft classical , or Christian instrumental music playing softly gives love and JOY!
Steph O says
So many good tips. Prepare so you can leave calmly. Take time to decompress before entering into the house after a busy day… for me, might mean spending a few min in the car after driving home. Or even decompressing on my way home. If I can use two tips at once, why not: listen to music on the way home & decompress (unless there’s crazy traffic to be maneuvered… But I’ve noticed that having good music definitely reduces negative feelings in any crazy traffic jam)
ali grace says
I like the idea of lighting candles, turning on the lights, and having a snack or something ready for my husband. I think that would really mean a lot to him!
Annie says
I like to have candles and the scent of cinnamon wafting through the house. My mom would also allow a buffer time for my dad to relax for a while when he came home from work.
Jan says
I try to welcome my husband home with a hug and kiss – that is the best way to create a wonderful mood. It doesn’t hurt to have the table set even if dinner isn’t going to be ready for awhile…..
Erin says
Candle and music
Connie says
I live by myself, but I want my home to be welcoming and comfortable, even to my pets. I always greet my kitties (and my dog before he died) first thing when I get home. I take time to acknowledge them, talk to them, and hold or pet them. I have also planted many beautiful flowers for myself and everyone to enjoy. My elderly neighbor once told me that she got as much good out of my flowers as I did. I am in the process of building a house with a 10′ front porch which will have several patio chairs on it so that my neighbors and guests can visit and talk. I want people who visit to know that they don’t have to worry about breaking anything, “tracking dirt in”, spilling or messing anything up–my home is meant to be lived in. All of those thing can be cleaned up. I want people to feel at ease.
Dianna Auton says
I love to use candles and lots of family photo’s.
Lori says
My husband is the one who works from home and cares for our son. He is amazing at creating a welcoming environment. He picks up the main room and has dinner waiting almost every night! The house always smells so yummy. And we always greet each other with a kiss and hug π
Lina Rochette Hill says
Such great easy ideas! I have to say that I miss having small children to run to the door when I get home from work… I used to love that!! Now I come through the door with a “honey I’m hooome” even if I know no one is there. It makes me smile. I read the other post and decided I need this book. I need a simple and happy home.
Joy says
To create a warm environment, I try to get something baking in the oven and always have the couch cleaned off with cute pillows.
Jensrambles says
Simplifying my home has been a big focus for me lately, less to clean makes life so much easier! And having a place for everything also helps!
Kristi Sweeney says
Keeping it smelling nicely with the diffuser going makes a warm atmosphere for our home.
Darlene Summerville says
We enjoy visitors in our living room without a t.v.. We get a lot of compliments on how nice it is to sit and talk without a t.v. on. The seating is arranged so that we enjoy the view provided by a large front window, a soft rug underneath our feet, plenty of toss pillows, and usually a home-cooked meal.
Elaine says
I love turning on the CD player and listening to music to unwind as well as lighting candles
John Roberts says
I really like being positive to my family when they first come in the door
davidcarter says
I really enjoy the use of music to liven up the atmosphere
Jody says
This is something I need to work on! (and I look forward to reading the book) I know my family notices when even the little things are done… a straightened up entryway, a paper cleared table, seasonal decorations giving a pop of color, and putting my favorite “Two Are Better Than One” pillow at the head of our neatly made bed.
Maxine says
It’s in the details to me. Doing everyday things with just a little more attention to deal.
Lisa Dryzal says
Great ideas! I do many of them, but it seems like my family doesn’t notice…lol…maybe it’s just not said.
Naomi says
I love this idea of love the home you are in because it helps us to be content and satisfied with what we have.
Her number one
Greet family with a kiss, a smile, and a hug helps create an atmosphere of love, appreciation, and respect.
I am looking forward to this book!
Angela says
To have a warm and inviting home, besides a quick toy clean up and putting some music on before people come over, I feel like the smell of coffee brewing and cookies in the oven goes a long way to making up for the inevitable mess of 4 kids….
Solducky says
We keep clutter to a minimum so it feels restful.
Becky says
It is really difficult for me to decide on where to put what when I decorate. This in turn has made our house very cold and it’s cluttered a lot of the time. I hope a few candles will warm up our house a little and get me started on creating a warm, loving home.
Beth Williams says
I love music and scented candles in my house. I light the candles often & play Praise and Worship music. It helps to calm my nerves. I want to please God with my home and make it a haven where He is welcome and delighted to come in and sit with me!
Blessings π
Christi Leach says
Melissa – I love this post! We actually have some of those same habits. I always make sure to turn on the outside lights if my husband will be home after dark; I’m rarely out alone after dark, but I know how comforting it is to come around the curve and see the lights of home. I always keep one lamp on because as a child, that was something my mother did. She didn’t want anyone to come home to a dark house. I light candles (even in the daytime) about 30 minutes before my husband is due home from work.
Can’t wait to read your book! xo