I also am 21 years old and so I can relate to the struggle of feeling as though we need “friends.” We all want community and to be loved and accepted as we are, that it is good and normal and a part of how we are designed. But, we already have all of that firstly, and most importantly, through Christ. I am learning in this season to not place expectations on people and to love them as they are; a child of God. There is not such thing as a perfect friend and I know I wouldn’t want that pressure placed on me. It is a challenge and an opportunity for growth to love those God has already and continues to place in your life just as they are. I pray that you have a blessed day and that you are surrounded by love and laughter.
This side of Heaven,