For much of my life, the word joy hung ever before me. Taunting me like a dangling carrot I could never grasp. Others seemed to have it already, but I […]


The afternoon sun is coming in our front window, falling on the pages as I sit down at the piano my parents scrounged to buy when I was thirteen. The […]


I had lost my sparkle. This was a big deal since Sparkle was the nickname my best friend gave me in college. She told me it was the gleam in […]

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My friend — and fellow (in)courage writer — Sara Frankl passed away in 2011, but she is still teaching me about choosing joy. As I worked on the book that […]


This last year was a whirlwind of change for me. Our family uprooted from the city we had lived in for over a decade — the city where my husband […]

I wonder if we’d be so gung-ho about New Year’s resolutions if January didn’t come so quickly after December. The holiday season, with all its fun and festivities and falalas, […]


I didn’t realize I couldn’t see before I got glasses in the second grade. But I remember a night shortly after getting my super sturdy (and nerdy) frames with the […]


I love seeing musicals. It’s been a love of mine for a long time. In fact, I was just in New York for a few days and bawled my eyes […]