I bought Seven as a light read. (If you’ve read the book, you can just insert a hearty chuckle *here*) I knew enough about it to recognize that I might be challenged by it but I had no plans to be bothered by it. In case you’re wondering, I rather prefer plans that make me feel better about myself as a general rule. Left to my sin nature and my ever present ego, it’s how I roll.
The first few chapters were tough; they basically hit me where my sore spots are. Food, clothes, possessions, media…yes, I struggle with excess in each of those areas, who doesn’t? But when I got to chapter five I thought, surely I don’t cause much waste and I’m only one person, how much of the Earth am I really affecting? As I began reading about the seven green habits Jen chose, I became so engrossed in each of them that I didn’t bother to look up and see the coming train, barreling down the tracks and headed my way. I took one look at the intro and thought I knew how to play along…
Recycle (I don’t, it seems like a lot of work. I know I should. I probably could.)
Shop local (Sounds fun?)
Garden (No yard, but I do grow basil and chives in containers, does that count?)
Conserve (Um, quicker showers?)
Compost (File that under hilarious, as in never going to happen)
Drive one car (I would love this. I hate all the costs associated with driving. My husband, not so much.)
Shop thrift stores (Score! I am a second hand shopper and a garage sale girl. I can do that.)
Clearly I was prepared to breeze through this chapter and leave it to those a little more green than I to chew on, because if I’m honest with you, I’m not green. One of the girls from the Council said she wasn’t even teal…umm, yes, agreed. I will admit, although seriously flawed, my opposition to the whole “going green” movement is often due to the inner rebel in me. While there are wars erupting, people losing their jobs and homeless people dying alone on the streets, I simply cannot (read: choose not to) find space in my mind to worry about the earth. In fact, when I hear about masses of people jumping on the proverbial bandwagon to abandon the use of plastic water bottles as their life’s mission, it makes me want to drive to Costco in my gas guzzling mini-van and load the back end with 36 bottles of “natural spring water” while throwing plastic bags out my windows.
I told you my thinking was flawed. Also, immature.
Seriously though, some of my angst centers on the dichotomy between people who are passionate about saving whales and trees with no regard for unborn babies or the elderly. I recognize that it’s wrong to paint whole genres and movements with broad, sweeping and dismissive strokes but if I’m honest, that’s just how I’ve viewed and dealt with the green movement. It seems out of balance and extreme, therefore I’ve just avoided it as a whole.
I never expected the Lord to use this book and this chapter on waste to bother me as I began opening my eyes to the way that we live. But that’s exactly what He did. I began thinking about all the driving we do, the things we throw away, the excessive buying we’re responsible for, the way we consume everything and worse yet, why none of it has mattered to me until now? I totally identified with Jen when she said,
We are wasters. We are consumers. We are definitely a part of the problem. I no more think about how my consumption affects the earth or anyone else living on it than I think about becoming a personal trainer; there is just no category for it in my mind.
Yes sister, me too. As I’ve opened my eyes to our ways, I see how often I consume with no thought for anyone but myself. Not only when it comes to natural resources, but regarding my choices in general. I get so wrapped up in me, that I don’t always consider how my choices and certainly my consumption, impacts others.
And that’s a problem.
In general, we are a consumer driven society that thinks nothing of making immediate choices with no regard for the generations that follow us.
Broken appliance? Don’t fix it, just replace it. Old car? Don’t drive it until it quits, move on to bigger and better car payments. Loads of crippling debt? Pay it off tomorrow and charge whatever you need today. Too tired to make lunches? Buy them and throw away loads of plastic packaging day after day after day.
Want, want, want?? Consume, consume, consume….
As I started reading more about the state of our world and where we are headed, I started to recognize the issue of consumption as more than just excess packaging and plastic water bottles. I echo Jen’s heart-of-the-matter questions,
What if we changed our label from “consumers” to “stewards”? Would it change the way we shop? The way we think? What does it mean to be a godly consumer? What if God’s creation is more than just a commodity?
I wish I had all the answers or the energy to tackle all the issues. I don’t. Right now surviving the grocery store with a toddler and a preschooler is all I can handle. Throw in the burden of remembering re-usable bags each time and I might break down in the produce section when I realize I’m failing at yet another thing.
So in the wrestling with it all, I’ve resolved to start small. I’m questioning a lot. Thinking twice before I buy, figuring out what can be fixed before it’s replaced, donating as much as I can to people who could use our stuff, and thinking about my kids and the world they will inherit.
Only in America do we have neat and tiny rooms dedicated to trash and the removal of it from our lives. But the dirty, little secret is that we never really get rid of the trash. We sweep it away, take it to a landfill or just remove it from our sight, as if it never existed. And yet, it does. It remains in some form or another for someone else to take care of. Behind closed doors, in labeled “Trash Rooms.”
I’m in process over here, transitioning from the role of a consumer into a steward of what God has given me. I like to think of myself as a reformed consumer, finally coming to terms with the errors of my former ways. In the words of the lady who wrote this crazy book on my shelf,
I’m done separating ecology from theology, pretending they don’t originate from the same source.
Amen, sister. Aren’t we all done with the bury-my-head-in-the-sand existence that so many of us choose? I’m saying no to that way of life and instead, I’m raising my re-usable cup in your direction and toasting the dawn of a greener day.
“The earth is the Lord’s, and everything in it, the world, and all who live in it; for he founded it on the seas and established it on the waters.” Psalm 24:1-2
Now about that compost pile…
By: Stephanie at Happily Ever After
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Amy Hunt says
Stephanie, your honesty challenges me. Truly. And yet, your honesty shows me grace, not shame. I am grateful for that about you. I’m not *there* yet, but in some ways I’m *getting* there. Even if it’s one reusable coffee mug carried to a meeting across campus instead of buying a cup at the cafe when I get there.
Stephanie Armstrong says
Thank you Amy, so glad you shared…Yes, grace to you! Much, much grace. This is a whole paradigm shift for me too, I’m so “getting there” with you. Reusable coffee mugs are a great start sister! I’m with you, a great journey always starts with a step 🙂 Blessings to you!
Jen Hatmaker says
Bravo, Stephanie! Thank you so much for throwing your two cents in here! Like all good conversations, this one has to start somewhere, and you’ve started it with us. What will it look like three years from now? Who knows? But here we are today, asking how to become stewards, and THAT COUNTS. I appreciate your honesty and transparency so much. All my love to you from Austin today…call me when you start your first compost pile. ;0)
Stephanie Armstrong says
Thank you!! Three years from now, I hope I’m serving dinner from our garden and drinking coffee from the same mug I’m using today! And believe me, IF AND WHEN I start a compost pile, you will be the first person I call! Because basically, I blame you for even putting the idea in my head 🙂 🙂 Thanks for challenging us in this chapter!
Jean says
So well said, Steph. This one echoes my heart as well. Thanks for posting!
Stephanie Armstrong says
Thanks friend! I think you live this out well….
Vicki says
Ya, what you wrote! LOL! I had a very similar reaction to this chapter. Thank you for being so honest and sharing!
Blessings to you!
Vicki
Stephanie Armstrong says
Blessings to you Vicki! Glad we can find some common ground to stand on!
Leanna says
Stephanie, well said sister and well done. Beautiful, honest writing. Your post has spurred me on to go and read this book, to ignore the fear and resistance, there is much work to be done. I pray we are never idle or ignorant to what The Lord is wanting to teach us. Here’s to learning to be good stewards, toasting with my reusable coffee cup of course!
Stephanie Armstrong says
Thank you Leanna and yes, read the book!! You will love it. I’m with you, never want to be idle or ignorant in what He wants to teach me…not easy but there is real wisdom in stewardship that honors God. Cheers to you too friend 🙂
Heather Conrad says
I just LOVE this. You basically took the thoughts out of my head as I was reading as well, and typed them on your screen! (Much more eloquently, I must add, with the perfect dash of sarcasm). I have found the concept of re-purposing almost adventurous! Gardening yes, thrifting no. So, I’m enlisting a troop of thrift friends to show me the ropes. Thanks for these honest thoughts and conversation starters. I’m still a little miffed God made me read this, but He’s right. He’s always right.
Stephanie Armstrong says
Laughing, Heather! Re-purposing is an adventure, I hear you! And guess what, I think if you’re all about the adventure, you will love thrifting too 🙂 🙂 Glad you have some girlfriends to show you the ropes, that’s the best way to dive in! You are right, His ways are always good for us…Thank you for your kind words and Blessings to you!!
Brandi says
Great post! Our city offered recylce bins, so we would put in our milk jugs and a cereal box or two. After reading 7, our new recycle can in the same size as our trash can and is filled to the BRIM each time it’s picked up. I now desire to garden, but don’t tell my dying house plants. Our city is also in the midst of creating a city garden that I am thrilled to participate in next year. Umm, yes, reading 7 wrecked my world… and I LOVE it.
Stephanie Armstrong says
Good for you! I love the city garden thing! That’s what I’m hoping to participate in next year too, I love the thought of gardening but live in a condo with no yard of my own so I’ll have to go that route too. Yes, there was definitely a wrecking that occurred with this book 🙂 Blessings to you!
Bonnie Jean says
I agree with you that many who are interested in saving the world and the earth do not seem to care at all about the unborn who are “trashed” and the elderly who are left to rot and die or the many who are starving around the world. That bothers me that not using plastic is more important. Also, those who use aluminum bottles beware… aluminum is connected with causing Alzheimer’s. And it is a long established link… so they might want to rethink that one. The biggest thing that bothers me about the “green” people is that they think that computers and technology are “more green” than paper. Paper can be recycled. Trees can be planted and grow. But there are vast wastelands of computers and related equipment along with last year’s cell phones at the bottom of the ocean in various locations and in huge landfills in places like China and Mongolia in remote regions where entire valleys are filled to capacity. Technology is NOT green. Especially in a society that must have the latest and greatest of everything. When I was a child, we had a rotary phone. One. There was no need for call waiting because a live operator could break in to the call in an emergency. I know this is true because my mother was an operator and I also had to break in to a call once. We had that same phone still when my parents moved out of that house to a smaller home. They added another phone (still rotary) but a wall mounted with a long cord when I was a teenager. Still one number and no call waiting or anything. We were only allowed certain times to call our friends and if an important call was expected, we had to wait. It is called patience and not immediate gratification as this generation seems to demand. That contributes to the destruction of more than the earth. When my father died they still had those phones. Oh and they were land lines. They don’t go out when there are storms unless the entire neighborhood’s telephone poles are torn down and even if they are down as long as the lines are unbroken they still work. Way better than cable or cells that need constant electrical supply or wi fi which only works sometimes or they need to be recharged. NOT efficient. Yes, they are good when you are out alone and need help… but we always found help when we needed it because we depended upon God and strangers who helped us along the way. Or we walked to a gas station if we broke down. Admittedly, that can be dangerous. But a cell phone does not matter if someone has a gun. So to me they are all just JUNK. I had a “pen pal” in France. I called my cousin’s in Canada when I saved the money. I wrote real letters that could be saved as treasures or recycled. Technology creates so much more waste and the “connections” it makes are soooooo superficial. I use the computer only because I like to read some writers and they only blog when they used to write in books or magazines which both can be kept and reused or shared or recycled. Amazing how much better life was then and how much less money was spent on such things. If my son’s school did not require it I would get rid of it. And never get another. I have the same cell phone I have had for years. I had to replace it once when the acid from the battery inside contaminated it. I don’t feel compelled to have the latest of anything and I WILL NEVER READ ANYTHING ON A KINDLE OR NOOK. NEVER. I HATE THEM. A book is a treasure. You cannot write in the margins or dogear the pages of kindle… it is just not the same. I am in my mid fifties and would give anything to have been born in an earlier time… or for technology to have been kept to a limit. Medical technology is nice,but you cannot change a moment of your life nor lengthen it no matter what you do. God knows the day you will be born and the day you will die before it happens. Most of the best medicines with the least side effects have been around for decades. As it says in Jeremiah… “look for the old paths and walk in them…” there you will find real people in face to face relationships and a far, far greener lifestyle. Imagine drinking milk or coke from a glass bottle and then recycling it !!! They used to sterilize and reuse them. We never once got sick from that. Think of how many plastic milk containers could be done away with !!! Greed and instant gratification are the enemy of us all and the earth. Along with “keeping up with the Jones'” or the Kardashians. There is soooo much waste and so much futility and emptiness in today’s lifestyles… people think they HAVE to HAVE EVERYTHING when the truth is they NEED a whole lot less. I am no minimalist, but I do not see any great joy coming from the excesses of our world. I have not read the book, but I have read excerpts and it is meant to make you think about what you are doing and we all ought to examine our lives now and then to be sure we are in line with what God wants us to be. We don’t all need to live as paupers or have just 7 or anything… but we do need to be good stewards and a whole lot of money could be used to feed and clothe the poor and needy and to spread the gospel and to fight disease and clean the water and figure out what to do with all of those computers in the landfills of the oceans and China.
Stephanie Armstrong says
Agreed! There is much to consider, so many choices we make without regard for the generations that follow. I think you hit the nail on the head at the end, “we all ought to examine our lives now and be sure we are in line with what God wants us to be…” Yes!! Definitely need to be seeking Him for what He’d have each of us do, it’s probably safe to assume that most of us could improve in the area of stewardship for His glory. Blessings to you!
Sarah C. says
Bonnie Jean, So why didn’t you use a typewriter and mail in your response?
Christine says
I’m green at heart. I recycle and I hate paying full price for clothing and I shop Goodwill, too. I try to buy as much organic produce as I can. I REFUSE to feed my family corn that is not organic because chances are it is Monsanto seed which has Roundup in it. Basically, I would be poisoning my family. Look at this:http://www.naturalnews.com/037315_Monsanto_GM_corn_breakfast_cereals.html I have to try and find organic corn tortillas. I rarely buy clothes for myself because money goes toward bills first. Although I recently splurged at Victoria’s Secret panty sale because mine had some holes in it. Terrible, I know. I won’t let it get that far again!
However, I can still do more. I read somewhere (and it might have been a link on one of Ann Voskamp’s posts) that old shoes can be donated for the children in Haiti because they have to have shoes in order to go to school. I have to find out more about that.
It bothers me that there is so much wealth in this country and so much extreme poverty in the world.
Stephanie Armstrong says
Good for you! Green at heart, love it 🙂 Yep, I’m with you…it is very troubling to consider all the wealth of our country in light of the millions who suffer and starve…we COULD do something about that if each of us would play a role! So grateful that the Lord is gracious and merciful as some of us (like me) begin shifting our focus off reckless consumerism toward Godly stewardship…Blessings to you!
Julie says
Seriously amazing perspective! I completely understand where you are coming from and where you are going with this! Thank you for sharing! (I’ve had that immature attitude before as well)
Stephanie Armstrong says
Thank you Julie, blessings to you!
Renee says
I’m curious as to how you connect environmentally concious people to them not caring about the elderly or unborn. Just because you hear someone talk about being “green,” doesn’t mean they don’t care about the other things mentioned. I’m “green,” and always have been, because I care about God’s earth and the damage being done and also because I’m frugal by being married to a student for so long. I read a lot of info on conserving, etc, and pin and share those things on social media… but that doesn’t mean that I am not against abortion or the mistreatment for the elderly. I picket for abortion and volunteer at an old age home… so because you don’t see those things doesn’t mean I don’t care. That’s not a fair thing to assume.
Good on you for “reforming,” though. And don’t consider it a burden, consider it your gift to the earth and God when you care and bring your produce bags to the store. After shopping I immediately put them right back in my purse so I don’t forget!
Stephanie Armstrong says
Thank you for the grace Renee…As I wrote, it is wrong to make broad, dismissive assumptions about whole genres and groups but if I’m honest, I’ve done that with the green movement before. But the Lord is exposing that flawed perspective for what it is and I tried (maybe failed) to expose the errors of my ways 🙂 Forgive me if that wasn’t clear? Here’s to the reformers like me…we need cheerleaders like you in this! Thanks!
Kimberley M says
Hi Stephanie – Just wanted to encourage you and anyone making the small steps to take on the stewardship mantle God placed on us to keep taking the small steps to bring (remember!) the reusable bags etc, especially with two little ones in tow! Been there, and it is not easy! It is hard to build these habits, but oh so crucial. I have considered myself green for years and found it especially challenging, but even more important, when my little ones came along. So kudos to you, keep it up!
Stephanie Armstrong says
Thank you Kimberley, yes, small steps being taken are better than no steps! I am going to make that switch to reuseable bags, I think there is much wisdom in that and it’s an easy (read: non-painful) choice to make. You are so right, this is a perfect time to demonstrate that when little eyes are watching 🙂 Now I just have to remember to buy them and store them in my car for my next trip! Blessings to you!
Jennifer McMurray says
Stephanie,
I love your heart! What a great article! This was well said and you shared in such a loving way. I’ve got to read this book. Trying at all these things too.
I wish I could garden and compost. I read your blog all the time and you and your family are so cute and we of course miss you but so glad for the work God is doing in you and through you guys there!!
Sarah C. says
First off, Stephanie is my dear friend and sister-in-Christ, so I’m not trying to pick a fight when I offer the following “yeah but…”
I share Steph’s “rebellious” mentality to the green thing. For me, it is the religious nature that “being green” (and other popular issues) takes on. We tend to swing from one extreme to the next. Consumerism is bad, but let’s not forget that minimalism is also an “ism.”
Frankly, I’m not convinced that frugality is a Christian virtue. We should strive to be like our Lord. Is the God of the Bible frugal? He strikes me as more lavish and excessive than minimal and frugal. Just look around at what He made. Why do we need so many varieties of apples? Wouldn’t one or two be enough? Do we really need a gazillion stars? And what about snow? Isn’t it excessive that each flake beautifully and uniquely designed? All that work and he made dogs to pee on it.
Scripture comes to mind too, “my cup overflows”, “a land flowing with milk and honey”, “showers of blessing.” He just doesn’t seem like the type to guilt me for eating a pineapple in Minnesota.
So, I think our first priority as godly stewards is not to recycle, rather, it is to be thankful.