I met a girl in a brothel named Sarah about eight months ago via covert camera footage. And while I’ve yet to speak in the flesh to this young woman, I know her story.
Sarah’s home country in SE Asia is notorious for both government oppression and extreme poverty, and at the hands of her own mother, she was sold to a human trafficker to pay off a family debt. Moved across borders, Sarah found herself in a neighboring country where she didn’t know the language and was at the mercy of the pimp who now “owned” her.
Sarah was 15, and her virginity was soon sold for $600 USD.
Three days after Sarah was sold for the first time, my husband, who was doing undercover investigations into sexual slavery, met Sarah in person. She stared at the floor and fidgeted with a napkin. Contrasted with the other prostitutes who were dressed in short skirts and heavy makeup, Sarah wore street clothes and a hollow expression. My husband and another investigator documented the evidence of her sale to build a legal case for a raid on her behalf, and with the help of a translator who spoke her language, Sarah began to understand that they were there for rescue, not abuse.
Eventually, Sarah wrote on a local bill, “Please rescue me,” and handed it to the national investigator, daring to believe that what these two men claimed was true– that she would be rescued and find herself free.
The investigators left Sarah’s brothel that night with solid evidence and a promise to return. And then, Sarah waited.
For two. long. months.
Because two months was the timeline in Sarah’s case that was necessary for the local police to be effectively mobilized. Eight weeks was the currency which needed to be paid in legal negotiations and red tape in a foreign country that’s overwhelmed with the cancer of modern day slavery.
But two months later, on a hot night in the tropics, Sarah’s door was kicked down. Rescue came for her in the form of men in swat suits and cars with flashing lights. After several months of suffering in a brothel as a young teenager, Sarah found herself in a police car with a female social worker telling her she was safe.
And Sarah wasn’t alone- a total of eight underage girls were rescued by the police and raid team that night.
And here’s the thing I can’t get away from when I think about Sarah, when I remember her story. Young Sarah was given a promise of rescue, but then found herself still very much in a brothel– trapped by rape, abuse, and fear. I imagine she felt a deep sense of betrayal by these strangers who had promised rescue in whispered voices, but then had kept not showing up each night.
But what Sarah didn’t know, what she didn’t have the birds-eye view of, was that heaven and earth were literally being moved on her behalf, for her freedom. There were meetings happening in government offices in the capital city, and there was money given and spent to cover the expenses of the raid. There were prayer meetings taking place in the United States for her safety and her heart. There were plane tickets bought and plans formulated and obstacles pushed through with a tenacity that still inspires me when I think of it today. And there was risk assumed by a host of local and Western heroes, members of both governmental and nongovernmental community, who eventually did swarm into darkness, despite the incredible odds,
for Sarah-– this one 15 year- old immigrant.
And this, this to me is the part of Sarah’s story I can not escape. Because so often I find myself in a brothel of sorts– a dark place where I can’t see hope of rescue, a prison of self or circumstance. I taste in those moments of doubt a betrayal from what I feel are broken promises, a despair that redemption could even be impossible, anyway. And I’m tempted to believe that No One is behind the scenes fighting on my behalf.
And this. is. a. lie.
Of epic proportions.
Ask Sarah, I bet she’d tell you.
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January is Human Trafficking Awareness Month. If Sarah’s story moves you, consider learning more about the issues of human trafficking and modern day slavery by visiting The Exodus Road. This nonprofit is one which was begun in part by Sarah’s case in SE Asia. It is a coalition of organizations focused on rescue and redemption. We primarily do undercover investigations with an emphasis on empowering nationals, but we also support raids, prosecutions, and after-care facilities.
And you can help. If you have a blog (it doesn’t matter how large or small!), consider joining our blogging team where you’ll get to tell monthly stories from the front lines-– stories of slavery, rescue, and hope. You’ll get to use your online voice to speak for those that do not have one, connect with a quickly growing team of justice-minded bloggers, and potentially have the chance to travel with us to see the problems of slavery firsthand. You can check that opportunity out HERE.
If you aren’t a blogger, please consider subscribing to our Exodus Road Newsletter, liking us on facebook, or following us on twitter (@theexodusroad).
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Laura Parker | Laura Parker Blog | @LauraParkerBlog | The Exodus Road
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Beth says
Thank you for this post, I am always following different human trafficking organizations and looking for ways to get involved because these stories touch me so much. Hopefully one day I’ll find one that I can work for, because I would love to fight for girls like Sarah full time!
Laura Parker says
Awesome, Beth– love your heart and your desire to get involved! Keep searching and I am confident God will make clear to you what role to play in the fight for freedom.
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Missy says
Sarah’s story is heartbreaking. And hopeful! Thank you so much for highlighting this little known, but hopefully growing movement. I pray for these unknown girls (and boys) and look forward to learning more about these precious ones and the ones who fight for them.
laura parker says
Missy, thanks for your prayers and your heart for the oppressed. I agree that this is a growing movement of awareness and action to stop modern day slavery. We have only been in the field 2 years and are hugely encouraged by people’s recent responses. I can only imagine those who have been working to fight this for decades and their encouragement at the last years of growing awareness and concern for the issue.
Thanks again for your prayers!
Handsfull says
This is powerful! I have an area in my life like that – one that I’ve prayed over for years and have pretty much given up hope of God ever answering my prayers. Thank you for reminding me that there’s a lot more going on than I can see right now!
laura parker says
Praying for you tonight that you will have the faith to hold on to the reality that there is a God at work behind the scenes and He’s after redemption . . . in your situation.
Praying for faith and hope and trust and white-knuckled perseverance for you tonight.
Jodie says
Laura, I love this story of Sarah’s rescue…especially the part about her door being kicked down!
It made me think of Moses going to Pharaoh the very first time with his demand of “Let my people go!” and the discouraging result of Pharaoh actually making things harder for the Israelites. They complained to Moses and Moses complained to God, “Why have you mistreated your own people like this, Lord? Why did you send me? Since I gave Pharaoh your message, he has been even more brutal to your people. You have not even begun to rescue them!” (Exodus 5:22-23)
Just like you what you wrote: how easy it is when we see nothing happening, to assume that nothing is happening. When actually God was in the process of moving mountains on the Israelites’ behalf (like He did for Sarah) and they were going to see redemptive miracles before their very eyes.
“Now you will see what I will do to Pharaoh,” the Lord told Moses. “When he feels my powerful hand upon him, he will let my people go…You can be sure that I have heard the groans of my people Israel, who are now slaves to the Egyptians…I am the Lord and I will free you from your slavery…I will redeem you with mighty power and with great acts of judgment.” (6:1, 5-6)
May we cling to a steadfast trust in God when we we’re in a “dark place where we can’t see hope of rescue, a prison of self or circumstance.” May God keep our ears open to hear the words of Hope that He whispers. May we not close our ears to His promises like the Israelites did because of their discouragement and continued bondage (6:9). May we truly believe, as we wait, that God is working in ways that we cannot see.
Laura Parker says
YES! Love that you talked about the Israelites here– their story of slavery and rescue and waiting is one that has spoken to me time and again. In fact, it was this story of The Exodus in the Bible that spurred the name of THe Exodus Road– this idea of the way out of slavery.
I love that you beautifully bring in Scripture here– thanks for taking the time to share it!
Diana Trautwein says
YAY, Laura. So beautifully told, my friend. So glad you’ve gotten this lovely platform for your ministry and your heart. Prayers for all of you tonight – your family and all those working behind the scenes for rescue.
Laura Parker says
As always, as ALWAYS, you are such an encouragement to me, Diana. Thank you for your sweet words . . .
and your prayers.
Dr Mari says
Yes! The One who rescued us from darkness calls us to rescue others from whatever prison they’re in, whether physical, emotional, or spiritual. I love Galatians 5:1, “It is for freedom that Christ has set us free.” We’ve been set free to love!
Laura Parker says
Yes, FREEDOM. Such a theme for me this past year. I think I am learning that so often the freedom doesn’t come without a price.
And you are right, our bondage can take oh-so-many forms.
Melissa says
It breaks. My. HEART. That it takes so long for these girls to be rescued because of government red tape. Human trafficking is one of the things that makes me ache.
Laura Parker says
Thanks, Melissa. I love your heart of compassion. I think it’s a rarely beautiful thing to feel deeply on behalf of the oppressed seemingly so far away. I think that speaks a lot about the tenderness of your heart.
And yes, trafficking– whether in labor camps or fishing boats or brothels– it makes me ache, too.
Melissa says
Thank you for saying that. I’ve hidden my tender heart before because I have experienced ridicule for it, but I’m getting to a point where I know beyond a shadow of a doubt that God made my heart that way. 🙂
Janet Oberholtzer says
While I understand the concept of this post and the idea of comparing our own waiting to Sarah’s waiting… I can only imagine the horror someone like Sarah goes through and while each of our own struggles have to be acknowledged… I fear calling anything we go through “a brothel of sorts” cheapens what girls like Sarah actually go through.
Laura Parker says
Janet,
Thanks for this comment. I loved your honesty and caution. I know that you know from experience about the realities of suffering. Believe me when I say that I have journeyed to dark places from rubbing shoulders personally with stories of girls and women like Sarah. Her journey, and the brave work of those who rescued her, deserve the utmost respect.
I do think, however, that a person’s experience of suffering, whether its cancer or a divorce or a hard marriage, etc., has value that can’t really be “rated.” While logically it may not be “as bad” as a person like Sarah’s suffering, the pain is no less tangible. And can in many ways feel as dark and hopeless as being trapped in a brothel.
Janet Oberholtzer says
Caring for, helping and telling the stories of the Sarahs of the world is a tremendous work and I applaud you and everyone else who is battling human trafficking on the front lines.
You are right, pain and suffering cannot be rated, it all matters and all needs recognition. But one problem I have (and I have many, but that’s another issue) with Christianity is the tendency to allow caring for others to morph into feeling the need to identify with others to the point of convincing ourselves and them (both the people in pain and others looking on) that we “feel their pain”.
My caution is simply this as we acknowledge our own pain and the pain of others, can we do it without trying to equalize the pain, especially when we don’t (and can’t) totally understand the pain of others?
Janet Oberholtzer says
And one more thought…
I want the work that you and others do with the Sarahs of the world to be successful!
Wildly successful!!
So allow me to try to explain farther what I mean from the two sides of my experience.
Because I had horrific injuries doesn’t mean I know what others that had horrific injuries are feeling or what life is like for them. When I meet an amputee or someone who uses a wheelchair to be mobile, yes we probably share some similar feelings, experiences, etc. but I do not assume I know what they feel just because I almost had my leg amputated or because I used a wheelchair for a few months. Instead I ask them about their own personal experience.
And because I had horrific injuries doesn’t mean I don’t realize that a paper cut hurts you. I’ll be the first to acknowledge your pain (and curse the paper with you) and get you clean water to wash it with. But if you then tell me you now know what I went through with all my injuries, I will not believe you. Which means you’ve created distrust with me and any future connection we have will have less value for me.
I want every Sarah to trust her rescuers, counselors and others that help her to the moon and back… and I think falsely identifying with her pain will only put unnecessary barriers in the way.
Hope that makes sense….
Laura Parker says
Janet,
Thanks for taking the time to explain this– I totally get you and see where you are coming from. I think in retrospect, it would have been better had I put something in the original post about this very thing– a bit of a disclaimer that doesn’t paint pain with such broad strokes. Hearing you has helped me see that, and will shape the way I communicate in the future. 🙂
God’s really used this image/analogy in big ways to shape the way I think and the ways I identify with the precious Sarah’s in my own life this year, and that was really the heart of what I was attempting to share.
Thanks again for your honest dialogue. It’s made me think and that’s been really helpful for me as I move forward in communicating, truly. Thanks for taking the time to engage!
All the best, Janet.
Teri @ StumblingAroundInTheLight says
Thanks for sharing the real story.
Of pain, loss, abuse, neglect…
and the hope of rescue.
Laura Parker says
Thanks, Teri.
Love your kind tender heart, as always. Thanks for telling these stories with me, friend.
Gloria Cave says
I knew just from the title this story would make me cry. I once met 3 siblings who were trafficked by their mother. Now almost 11, 12 years later I am beginning my last semester of grad school and will be an MSW in a matter of months. …all because of those 3 kids who ripped my heart apart. My desire is to be the social worker in the back of that police car telling the kids they’re safe. We may need to talk. 🙂
Laura Parker says
Wow, Gloria, what a neat story! It’s amazing that meeting those three sparked such passion and drive for you to fight for justice for little ones. Oh, that is beautiful. I can’t wait to see how God will use YOU to bring His Kingdom to future little ones.
And, yes, please contact me. 🙂
Courtney Osborn says
Thank you for sharing this story and continuing to fight for girls like Sarah. And it is so true that we are not so different…waiting in the darkness and not understanding why the door hasn’t been broken down already. So I guess it is in these dark pits that we must endure and trust because if we do, one day will reign with He who sits on the throne in heaven. Until then, He who began the work is faithful to complete it…
Laura Parker says
Love that reminder that “He who started the good work will complete it”. Such a rich truth to remember in times of darkness and seeming “hopelessness”. Thanks for the reminder, Courtney.
Natasha Metzler says
So. so. so. good. In so many ways. Thank you.
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Melissa says
Wow. Stories like this both break my heart and give me hope all at the same time – hope because she was rescued. Human trafficking is something that really hits my heart hard and so I’m excited to read about the opportunity to share more about this through my blog. I will definitely be checking that out.