The days are feeling normal again, the symptoms of jet lag nearly dissolved. I am able to sleep a regular night rather than going to bed in the sixes and waking in the fours.
I spent last week in Uganda, Africa writing on behalf of Compassion International. I shared a little here with the gracious (in)courage community before I left, so I thought it only fitting to give you a little update once I’ve returned.
I went in to this trip with an idea of what to expect, as this wasn’t my first trip with Compassion as a blogger. I traveled to the Philippines in 2011 so the intense poverty wasn’t as much of a shock this time.
It’s only been a little over a week since we’ve returned, but I’ve spent time considering some broad lessons I’ve learned (or at least been reminded of) because of our trip.
Here are six of them:
As a mother, I learned that touch, encouragement, and presence mean more than having a clean kitchen. I knew this already, but I learned it on a new level last week. In fact, the movement of a mother toward her child means more than having a kitchen at all.
As a writer, I learned the importance of telling the story that moves you rather than the one that makes the most sense. We spent each day with people living in intense poverty and came back each evening to gather around a long table and write for you back home, knowing full well you may be struggling through compassion fatigue, knowing perhaps we were struggling through the same thing, knowing out of the hundreds of stories we could tell from the day, we needed to pick one.
It was hard to fight against cliché when I was tired, especially as I sat small beneath a story that felt so much bigger than me. The temptation was strong to grab on to phrases that felt familiar and comfortable even if they were tired and over-used.
I also learned, as the clock creeped passed midnight and I still didn’t have a post finished, how important it is to ask for help, to lean on others even as I did the thing I’m supposed to be good at. Maybe especially then.
As a sister, I learned the comfort of having someone around who knows me well, who sees me in the room, and who can encourage me without having to say a word. I resist this kind of community sometimes, but that week in Uganda reminded me of the importance of showing up as myself and not a version of who I wish I was instead. My sister knows me and her presence reminded me to be myself in each moment no matter what the moment held.
As a sponsor, I learned that a still photo on a child sponsorship page doesn’t tell the whole story. The real life boy is living a real life. I would do well to stop putting my own spin and filters on my first impressions, not just in this but in everything. Sometimes the best thing to do is the opposite of what your instincts tell you to do.
I also learned (or re-learned, if you want to get technical) that the money I give as a child sponsor helps to save a life while the letters I send help to build a life.
As a freelancer, I learned the importance of doing my best work now. There were moments where I questioned the importance of coming home and continuing to write on my blog or work on articles for magazines.
What’s the point when people are starving?
But I learned an important lesson while watching the adults we met in Uganda: they work hard for everything they have. And they don’t have much. I have an obligation, really a privilege, to work hard at whatever is put before me so that my much can be turned into enough for someone else – whether that be my family, my neighbor, or a child in Uganda.
Perhaps the most important lesson I learned while in Uganda was this: I remembered the sacred soil from which every soul is shaped. No matter where we live or what circumstance we are born into, we all have a deep need for love, acceptance, security, and worth. And while those we met in Uganda have less variety from which to choose to meet those needs, the answer for all of us is Christ: behind us, before us, within us.
Those we met in Uganda cannot rely on themselves to have these soul needs met. And neither can I.
For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angles nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord. – Rom 8:38-39
Have you experienced something lately – a trip or an event – that has taught you new lessons about life or reminded you of lessons you already knew but had forgotten?
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