Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved,
clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience.
{Colossians 3:12, NIV}
[linebreak]
Clothed in Christ . . .
We usually clothe ourselves according to the occasion.
A soft cotton t-shirt may mean a comfortable afternoon at home. A silky chiffon dress might mean a special night out.
In Colossians, God’s people are encouraged to clothe themselves with five distinct virtues of Christ. Not for a special occasion, but for every day.
Clothes yourselves with compassion.
Compassion is a state of motion. It compels us forward. We see a hurt or a need and our hearts move us to respond. Compassion is a way of living that reaches others with the hands and feet of Christ in very practical ways.
Clothes yourselves with kindness.
Kindness is a simple outward expression of an inward peace. It can be an encouraging word to a friend. Or a quiet pause to look someone in the eye, and say without words that “I see you. You matter.” Kindness is a way of living that finds the deepest pleasure in making others smile.
Clothes yourselves with humility.
Humility is the epitome of otherness. It’s a natural forgetfulness of self. Humility is a way of living that looks to others first, because they genuinely care.
Clothes yourselves with gentleness.
Gentleness is more than a softly spoken word or a tender embrace. It’s a manner of approachability that says, “You are welcome here in this space with me.” Gentleness is a way of living that draws others near.
Clothes yourselves with patience.
Patience is often paired with waiting. It’s a stillness of soul. Patience is a way of living that embraces the timelessness of eternity, trusting in the One who holds all things in His hands.
And this is our prayer . . . as God’s dearly loved children . . . that we will clothe ourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience . . . each and every day.
Share in the comments one of the ways you have been touched
by someone’s compassion or kindness or humility or gentleness or patience.
Bev @ Walking Well With God says
I would to say thank you to my online friend, that I found right here at (in)courage, Joanne, who has modeled all these virtues to me. To me, she is the embodiment of Christ and her life arrow is always pointing the way to God. Thank you sweet friend, and to others here at (in)courage who reach out with compassion in their comments. Good stuff!
Bev
Bev
Joanne Peterson says
Bev,
This just makes me cry. This is so kind of you, I was just thinking of how impatient I can get, and how much I need to change more to be who my boys need, and my husband needs. This is such deep down touching encouragement for me. Love you my sweet, sweet friend. You also have been this kind of a friend to me. So very much needed. You give my heart a lift when I need one by remembering me.
Joanne
Beth Williams says
I have some friends at work who encourage me. When it feels like a bad day and they know what to say to make it a little better.
I would like to thank Kathy, pastor’s wife. She exemplifies all these qualities and is always willing to be there for people. She is always point others to Christ. Good role model!
Debbie says
When my husband, daughter and I moved in our neighborhood nearly 40 years ago our neighbors, Marj & Bill, adopted us into their family almost immediately. Since we had no family in the area we were thrilled that over the years they became parents to us and grandparents to our children. This couple, both Nurses, spent their entire lives helping others. They have given us so much kindness, compassion and love. They are always humble and generous with everyone they meet. They are gentle and patient beyond belief. God had truly blessed us by giving us “Granny & Paw Paw”.
Virginia Gonzales says
I am honored to have a husband who honors me, values me, unconditionally loves me, respects me and listens to me. He lives by this scripture not only to me but to those around him. I see Jesus in his eyes … He harbors no anger against and I have not been the easiest. He opens his arms to me in my times of pain … There’s nothing more then to be one accord with your spouse by the bond of the Holy Spirit.
Leslie Burton says
Denise, thank you so very much for giving word pictures of actions that express each word. Love is a “doing” thing.
Kathy says
I recently had an accident that brought pain and a broken nose. My dear husband has been so kind in doing little things that keep our home running smoothly. In addition, I received the love from my neighbors next door as they called daily to see if I needed anything even sending a lovely African violet to cheer my kitchen. I am still bruised but blessed by those who ministered to my needs.
Amy M says
Such good reminders that love is a very active thing. I often wish I modeled these qualities better in my life, but I’m thankful for the examples I have among my friends and family. I especially think of my cousin who is one of the most unassuming, approachable people I’ve ever known. She has a gift for making everyone feel welcome and loved in her presence.
Joanne Peterson says
In addition to Bev, I have two friends, two stood by me when I had such heartache with my daughter 7 years ago. They taught me with Jesus even when my world was changed forever, and falling apart I would thrive and did this with these characteristics. They also still speak into my life in big ways and exemplify Jesus. I am grateful, and blessed for all these amazing Godly women.
Camille says
My mother is the most emotionally generous person I know! You need her she is available no matter what challenges she may be facing ( which believe me is always a lot) and she has such a heart for God.. I have a lot to learn from her grace.