My kids and I love writing little notes to each other. We write on post-its, scraps of paper, even the backs of church bulletins, any paper we can find, just to give each other a little love and a smile.
It’s not uncommon to find these notes hidden in lunch boxes or under bedroom pillows for added surprise. We just love a good love note!
Our notes are nothing fancy. They simply state “I love you” or “You are awesome” accompanied by quick drawings or silly stickers.
These notes always give us a smile in the moment, but recently the words in a note I received from my eight-year-old daughter lasted longer than a moment. They went straight to my heart and claimed a place in my soul. Her note said: I love you for how you are. I love you because you are you.
Tears in my eyes and huge breath of relief. This little one loves me because I am me. Not because I drive her around to all her activities or help her with her homework. Not because I am the picture perfect mom of magazines or advertisements. No, she loves me because I am her mom. And that is enough.
How often do we think we have to measure up to some super-high standard of perfection to be loved?
On most days, I run late to work, there is no clean laundry, and I lose my patience more than I’d like to admit. I spend time wishing I were that super-cool relaxed mom who doesn’t fret over the minors — but guess what? I’m not that perfect woman, and I’m finding out no one needs me to be her anyway.
I’m the only one who thinks I have to be perfect, never mess up, or lose my cool. I’m the only one that places all these unmet expectations onto myself.
I know the love notes won’t last forever. The kids will grow up and grow busier. There will come a day when my daughter is upset at me, and I will again start measuring myself up to my own impossible standards. And when that happens, I’ll need the reminder that measuring up to impossible standards will never make me any more loved — because I am already much loved.
Christ, in all His lavish ways, will always love me for me.
He always has and always will love me just as I am. Nothing I can ever do and no impossible standard will ever keep Him from loving me any less.
That is why I need love notes. I need notes to remind me of the greatest love note ever written — the one that says over and over again, I have loved you with an everlasting love. {Jeremiah 31:3, NIV}
All Christ wants us to remember is Him forever loving us. Let that truth go right to your soul and let it stay there.
No matter how imperfect we feel, His love is there, waiting for us to remember, whispering to us to remember, I will always love you.
Just as you are.
Forever.
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