Big pines stood tall around me bearing witness to the smile stretched across my face. The campground was alive with morning noises — bacon sizzling on outdoor skillets, kids laughing louder than they would at home. I watched a bright blue chested bird perch on a branch heavy with pinecones while two hummingbirds zipped around in a magic dance. I sipped slow on my steamy coffee.
Everything is better in the mountains.
This was my family’s favorite week – when we (mostly) unplug, enjoy nature, and soak up lots of time just being together. It was the perfect way to end summer — connecting and refreshing before my husband begins his busiest season of the year as a college volleyball coach and our three boys start back to school and all the activity and responsibility that brings.
With fresh air in my lungs and no alarm to wake me up (save for the loud whispers of excited kids), it was easy to start each day with gratitude in my heart. I thanked God for crackling campfires, family corn hole tournaments, and sunny trails just waiting for the happy thud of hiking boots.
Thank You, God, for seeing our need for a break from ordinary routine.
One afternoon I sat on a huge log at the far end of our campsite. My husband was on a jog, and the boys were building an epic fort. In the stillness of the moment — no one needing me, no task demanding to be done — I answered the still small voice. Pour it all out to Me.
So I began to pray. For my husband and for each of our boys. For friends by name as they came to mind. I prayed for the young women my husband coaches and their upcoming season. For my book writing and other projects in the making. For you, our beloved (in)courage readers, for each contributor, and my staff-mates. For all that God has done and will yet do.
I talk to God every day. But it’s often in the whirl of fixing meals or the rush of driving here and there. It had honestly been a while since I just sat with Jesus without some pressing next. Given the space to think, feel, share all that was on my heart, I found myself overflowing with thanks. For every request I had, my praise was doubled. Not because I’m extra pious or righteous but because of God’s profound goodness.
With the sun on my back and the gift of time, I was flooded with awareness for all the ways God had answered so many prayers. So I was a little surprised by what the Spirit whispered to my heart next: Give thanks for the gifts you didn’t ask for. Praise Me for answers you never prayed.
Looking around, I realized that this moment was forged in blessings I never requested:
When I was dreaming about my future spouse, I didn’t ask God for a husband who loved camping; I had yet to discover how alive I felt in the greatness of creation. But God knew in advance my heart would crave the altar of nature and gave me a partner with a shared appreciation for fresh-air wonder.
I never thought to ask God for in-laws who would be generous with their time and treasure, yet that’s what God gave me in two people willing to loan us their beautiful trailer for a week every summer (complete with delivery, setup, and cleanup)!
Even in preparation for our mountain vacation, it never crossed my mind to ask God for the gift of good “campsite neighbors.” Some friends had planned to join us for part of our trip, but at the last minute it didn’t work out. My boys were super bummed. Brothers are great, but at the end of summer they were, let’s say, itching for some new playmates!
Then on our third day, a family with two boys pulled in. Within a few hours these five kids acted like they had known each other forever. They spent the next four days building Lego creations, having water balloon fights, and constructing the most elaborate military base Serrano Campground had surely ever seen. All their happy playing made more margin for this mama to sit and read — just be! God had gone ahead of our disappointment over friends who couldn’t make it and prepared the way for a whole new version of blessing.
Friends, God sees the needs you have today and the ones yet to come.
These are just a few examples from one small slice of my life. Imagine all the ways God is working on your behalf. Consider what you might usually just chalk up to luck or coincidence, good fortune or your own hard work paid off. That relationship restored or that closed professional door. That clean bill of health or nearly missed accident. That unexpected friendship or creative spark or good night’s sleep. I don’t know what it is for you, but I do know God is moving in your life whether you name it as His grace or not.
Let’s name it today! Let’s call out the answers we didn’t request. Let’s praise Him for the gifts wrapped in hardship and joy that we never knew we needed.
Start with this simple prayer: God, help me to see the gifts I didn’t ask for.
Share your gifts in the comments and purpose to walk eyes-wide-open to God’s goodness today.
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Donna Harvey says
Hi Becky, By luck, or probably by God, I found your Blog. I was looking for Christian Blogs that accept Guest Post Writers. But, I found much, much more. Your Story made me think. God gave me so much to be thankful for, blessings that I didn’t even ask for.
Thank you for showing me that God is always looking out for us by sending us the help we need when we need it most.
That was a beautiful story, I only hope that my writing will help someone as much as yours helped me,
Sincerely, Donna Harvey
Becky Keife says
Donna, I’m so happy you found your way here! It’s just like God to give us a gift we didn’t even know to look for. Blessings on your writing. We hope you’ll come back to (in)courage often. xx
Michele Morin says
Thank you, Lord, for my husband and kids–the gifts I did not have the good sense or the optimism to pray for, and now here they are, with grandchildren thrown in just because You are amazing!
Becky Keife says
Amen! What wonderful blessings to give thanks for, Michele!
Bev @ Walking Well With God says
Becky,
So true that we look to be thankful for what we asked for, but there’s so many more blessings that a Good Father pours out. In a string of ongoing doctor appointments, I am thankful for one that went really well. No more problems. Nothing critical that needs to be done. A Nice conversation with a physician that has been so caring. I’m thankful for the blessing of a husband who takes time out of his day to call me from work just to check in and say, “Hi.” Thankful for the blessing of the sensitive and loyal beagle that came along with the blessing of my husband. Thankful for seeing another day and the friendships I have here. Shall I go on? So many gifts I never asked for…but that’s just God 🙂 Awesome reminder to take note of the gifts I never asked for, but am oh so blessed with.
Blessings,
Bev xx
Cheryl says
Bev…PRAISING our great God for your good report… Yes ..He is busy working ahead of us always… It is exciting to anticipate what is around the corner as His gracious surprise!! Usually we are thinking instead of ” what can go wrong next” . Celebrate your wonderful news ..do deserve His blessings!
Becky Keife says
Love all of this, Bev! Let’s live a life that reads like a never-ending list of God’s grace. Praising Him with you today!
Jessica Sommer says
First day of School here in Ft Bend County TX and I am overwhelmed by Father’s countless blessings with 3 kids able to walk, talk and live happily! Mrs Becky- you are a phenomenal writer and I am getting more & more excited every morning that I see your face on the banner! Thank you for sharing!
Becky Keife says
First day of school here, too, Jessica, and I’m joining you in those praises! Thanks so much for your kind words. It’s a joy to share space here at (in)courage. xx
Leslie Newman says
Beautiful. Thank you for sharing a breath of fresh air and the reminder to be thankful in all things.
Becky Keife says
Thank you, Leslie!
Niki Hardy says
Becky my friend,
What a beautiful reminder God knows us so well, loves us more than imagine, and walks with us wherever we go.
If we assume every good gift from God is an answered prayer isn’t that ultimately and presumptuously giving us the glory??
Ouch!!
God gives us so so much more than we could ever ask for!
Xx
Becky Keife says
Niki! So glad to see you here in the comments today. There is no better giver than the Father. Asking Him to train my eyes to see His goodness every day. xx
Sadie says
Yes Becky as you encourage Donna and the women who wrote this morning… I am in love.. with the God who pulled me from the mire and muck! Here this cool sunny morning as I feed the yard cats the birds and the hummingbirds each sing their own song to me.. although I know it’s God’s voice through His beautiful creation.. isn’t it beautiful how He’s dresssed up our world for us?!
Mountains, beaches, grassy yards
I am grateful for my family and family in Christ.. praising Him with y’all \0/.. …. Happy Wednesday
Becky Keife says
He dressed up the world just for us — Yes! Love that. Scripture says that all creation declares His name. What a simple, profound gift that is. Thanks for sharing a slice of your morning with us.
Beth says
This is so great. And as I sit behind my husband as he drives his Harley and we speed through the countryside in an activity I never dreamed I’d become passionate for, I thank God for that gift that I didn’t know I even wanted!! Ride on!
Becky Keife says
Ride on! Love it, Beth! This put a smile on my face. Enjoy your countryside view.
Janette says
Thank you for this reminder to praise God for the gifts we didn’t ask for….looking for intentional little displays of only His Grace in our lives….the rain and coolness today and time to ponder these gifts, fresh blueberries in the Amazon….who would have thot these would grow in Peru……our daughter moving next door, being self supported thru farming and still making money to contribute to national ministries and pastors, the list goes on in my mind….thank you once again.
Becky Keife says
Janette, wow, I feel like I was transported for a moment all the way from California to Puru. I loved reading your list of gifts! Eat some fresh blueberries for me. xx
karyn jones says
i love this! thank you for reminding me that there is beauty and appreciation to be had in things you hadn’t expected to find it in. there is an unexpected “thank you” around every corner!
Becky Keife says
there is an unexpected “thank you” around every corner! Love the way you said that, Karyn! 🙂
Emily B. says
I didn’t ask for God to break my heart in Vancouver at the sight of all the homeless people, but I’m ready for Him to use that to change my life. I didn’t ask for my dog to be the sweetest ever created, or for my piano teacher to be one of the most caring people on earth, because I didn’t know I needed that. Other people notice I’m becoming more loving before I do, and God is introducing me to just the right people at just the right time. There are more — too many to count! Thank you, Becky, for this wonderful reminder to look for our daily blessings and that God knows what we need before we even think to ask Him!
Becky Keife says
What a wonderful list of thanks, Emily. Thank you for sharing!
Jen says
Becky,
Thank you for an awesome start to my morning ! As I read , I could feel like I was there in the beautiful mountains. ( been as I’m on the Texas Gulf Coast )
I thank God for all the many blessings he has given me , that I haven’t asked for. A great group of women as I read my morning devotional search day with y’all at InCourage, for a supportive, caring, loving, and hard working hubby. I also, thank God for the past weekend as it was Wedding Dress stand Bridal Brunch for our Daughter and it was all amazing, and I made it through both days . ( even after having s small Pneumonia last week and my other illnesses I have already ). I never asked for the energy to get through those two days,but somehow ( God’s Grace) , I made it !
Have a great day ladies !
Sue says
what a delightful article , just confirms things God is doing and saying… THANK YOU !
Brenda says
♥ Amen, Becky. So many reasons to be thankful. He’s so worthy of the praise of our hearts. There was one time, years ago, when God showed me that He answered a prayer I hadn’t even dared to ask, and even today, all these years later, I’m still so grateful. Hard to fathom that He’s mindful of me, but oh how thankful I am for His attentiveness to the details of my small life. ♥
Cynthia says
Becky, no sooner was I about to start typing, than my dog, Faith (yes, that’s her name…HA!), ran into my office to play. I asked her, “Should I be thanking God for this interruption I didn’t ask for?” So I got up, stretched my legs, gave her a treat, made another cup of coffee, and now I’m back at my desk. Turns out I needed it! What an opening of eyes and a broadening of perspective. What I was GOING to write (before I was so blessedly interrupted) was that I have been praying so much for full-time work this summer. My youngest child just graduated from HS, and I’ve been looking forward to getting back into the workforce. I have been applying all over the place and all summer to either no response or negative responses. It has been discouraging and I was fighting depression. But then I was having coffee with a girlfriend of mine who runs a nonprofit, BRAVE Global, an organization doing great work with foster girls at risk for human trafficking. She mentioned she had a grant writer on-board who suddenly dropped off the face. We looked at each other…paused…she said, “I think God might have sent you to do this. It just dawned on me. Should we pray about it?” We did…and I am! But beyond the work aspect, I cannot believe how drawn I am to this cause…how much I have enjoyed research…and how it is marrying a great passion (writing) with an incredible purpose. Talk about gifts I didn’t ask for! So today, with your beautiful reminder, I will be praising God and saying a profound THANK YOU for the gift of this work. Have the greatest day Becky!
Becky Keife says
Ooh, chills reading that, Cynthia! In our limited scope of sight it can feel like God takes a looong time to work sometimes. But, oh, He’s working! Congrats on your new position and blessings as you continue to live eyes wide open to His ways.
Cynthia says
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Ada Joe says
Thank you Becky for writing and sharing this…
God, help me to see the gifts I didn’t ask for. Thank YOU Lord for the job I have. Thank you for giving me an extra room when I asked and prayed for just a room. Thank you for your divine provisions. Thank you for making my Mum leave her phone with me which has become useful since loosing my phone. Thank you for the food items you provided through my colleague yesterday. Thank you for colleagues that get on my nerves yet have become the family I have practically. Thank you for the gift of singlehood which is teaching me the virtue of patience and waiting. Thank you LORD for life. Thank you for the experience of living with depression and surviving multiple suicide attempts that enables me now to support those in dark places like I have been…Thank YOU for life and for every gift and blessing I didnt ask for yet you have blessed me with LORD…Thank you Father
Becky Keife says
Ada, thanking God for YOU and that He brought you to this community. Thank you so much for sharing your list of thanks!
Jenn says
Time to shop and relax a bit while my kids are off fishing after some stressful days.
Brooke says
Oh how I love this Becky!! Sometimes…we’ll all the time, God knows better than we do all the things and gift and people we will need in our life. Beautifully written my friend! ❤️
Kathy Cheek, Devotions from the Heart says
I have always believed (and know) God is doing so much more than what we can see!
Enjoyed reading this so much today, Becky.
Penny says
Becky,
I accept your post this morning as an unexpected gift. Thank-you for sharing another of God’s miraculous ways. Sometimes it’s something sutle such as an unexpected call or like today as I remember my Mother on the eighth anniversary since she passed I can think of her as an incredible unexpected gift. I am also grateful for all of my family, dear friends, my son’s amazing team of Dr.s and nurses, and for all of you that contribute here, amongst all else I didn’t ask for but have received.
Have a blessed day all,
Penny
Nicki Janzen says
God I thank you for helping me get and stay sober, for the years previous that prepared me for today, though not always easy, the gifts given me in my new life today outweigh the hardship and I am forever grateful ❤️
Becky Keife says
Praising God with you for that gift of sobriety, Nicki! xx
Rashawnda Dunbar says
Becky, thank you for sharing such an important message. I was talking with my husband several months ago about this very thing: how the Lord has opened (and closed) some doors for us and blessed us with things for which we never even thought to pray. It’s awesome when we stop to think about His wonderful attention to detail and how He makes provisions for us that we don’t realize we need. He’s so faithful!
Rashawnda Dunbar says
Becky, thank you for sharing such an important message. I was talking with my husband several months ago about this very thing — how the Lord has opened (and closed) some doors for us and blessed us with things for which we never even thought to pray. Wonderful “bonuses” and we are so thankful!! It’s awesome when we can stop to think about His attention to detail and how He makes provisions for us that we don’t realize we need at the time. He’s so faithful!
Rebecca Jones says
I can appreciate that, thanking Him for gifts i don’t see and also for things that have not happened to me.
Carol Walsh says
Thank you Becky for your beautiful words that filled my heart. God truly had a hand with positioning us right next to you. It was the boys favorite trip thus far and they (all of us) hope we can meet up again next year. Or, come visit us!
Thanks for the heartwarming, uplifting article. The timing was impeccable. ❤️
Becky Keife says
Carol, I’m so grateful God crossed our paths. Yes, we’ll have to make a time to connect again before next summer. The boys would love that!
Mary Mccauley says
I didn’t ask for a semi driver hubby and life on the road. It was NOT the mobile home I had in mind. But God allows me this life with a wonderful man and gives us protection and grace on bad days. I didn’t plan to go out to Colorado when he hints, but I get to. Ya gifts come in unexpected ways. Praise God
H. says
I simply love everything about this post. Thank you.
Beth Williams says
Becky,
Our God gives us so many good gifts. Our lives get so busy that we often don’t realize what He’s given us. Lately I’ve gotten some in the form of no car accidents when driving. My gracious Father gave me a wonderful hubby who loves me for who I am. With that gift came a great small church-(Blue Springs Christian), terrific friends including his ex-mother-in-law. He nicely moved me from hot humid Florida to the mountains of upper E. TN. I’m thankful for my health & the nice part-time (sometimes full-time) job I have close to home. He has also allowed me to witness two miracles. My father was healed from severe dementia & once again allowed to go outside & take rides. My 90 yr. old father-in-law survived Stage III bladder cancer surgery & is doing quite well now. The list of gifts/blessings could go on and on. Each time something good happens that I didn’t pray about I know it is a God thing. His ways are higher & much better than mine.
Blessings 🙂
Judy Gordon Morrow says
Becky, sweet friend, I didn’t read this until tonight, and I simply loved it–thank you! Being mindful of God’s blessings must bless him, don’t you think? Just like when our children notice something unexpected we’ve done for them, just because we love them.
I’ve had some un-fun days this week fighting a sudden infestation of mice in my home, which is a challenge to deal with alone. Also had ants show up and a plumbing issue, but God helped me to praise him that I have a home at all. Ever since the wildfire last summer that threatened my home, I have a new appreciation for that gift.
I try to live noticing the sweet wonders God gives us, but I needed this fresh reminder tonight–so beautifully expressed from that beautiful heart of yours. Bless you!
Becky Keife says
Oh, Judy! Mice and ants and plumbing issues are the pits. I’m so sorry you’re dealing with that. But love how even in the ick and inconveniences of life we can still praise God for what is and who He is! Thanks for reading and sharing from your beautiful heart too. xx
Afton Rorvik says
What a great reminder! Oh, the life-giving power of gratitude. I recently discovered The Prayer of Examen—a way of looking back at the day and observing God’s hand in it: https://www.ignatianspirituality.com/ignatian-prayer/the-examen
A lovely way to fall asleep. 🙂