I could spell most words correctly until college when I majored in a foreign language (with its own alphabet) and my English spelling suffered. Now my phone and computer editing programs run in the background, seamlessly fixing my mistakes, but it bothers me that those squiggly lines appear and then disappear as if they never happened.
When I heard that writing words you misspell ten times by hand improves spelling, I tried it.
Chauffeured stumped me first. (The handwriting experiment must’ve worked, at least temporarily, because I typed it now without error.) I also had problems with vicious (I want to add an “s” in the middle), caressed (shouldn’t there be another “r”?), and the last name of a famous actor and author you would recognize.
Since I couldn’t verify the spelling of his last name in the dictionary, I went to one of his social media accounts. I confirmed how to spell his name, but what really caught my attention was what was on his feed. Instead of carefully curated images to match his acting and authoring success, he filled it with sports-related posts. And let me tell you, the man loves sports — particularly from his alma mater. He posted about football and golf and tennis. The banner on his account was a color-coordinated picture of him in his home team’s football stands looking so content it made me smile. He shares things that are meaningless to me, but bring him joy. I found it refreshing.
As a content creator myself, the world proclaims I need to do certain things to succeed. The world touts proven strategies, editable templates, and surefire marketing plans. As much as I hate to say it — and as detrimental as it might be to my professional success — my spirit often rebels against all the “best practices.” Rather than doing the “right things”, I want to do the authentic things.
I want to live so authentically that I too can fill my social media feed with the things that bring me joy — highlights from my favorite team (I’m looking at you, Braves) or pictures of my dog or backyard plants — without worrying if it resonates with everyone who interacts with my account.
The burden to fit in and follow all the “proven steps to success” is one I no longer want to bear.
I can no longer carry on a conversation about best SEO practices, but I can talk all day about the podcasts I listen to, the redemption arc of one of my favorite baseball players on and off the field, or the book I’m writing — things I care about. I aspire to be more like this actor/author (whose name I still can’t spell); I want to be so comfortable in my skin that I don’t over-analyze, sanitize, or hide who I am and what’s important to me.
The older I get, the harder it’s become to pretend to be what I’m not, and the more I recognize (and try not to rebel against) who God made me to be.
And God certainly didn’t create us with a one-size-fits-all mold. We’re weird, quirky misfits who love what we love and dislike what we dislike. We’re so unique God has numbered the hairs of our heads (Matthew 10:30). We’re as individual as snowflakes in a winter sky, yet we intersect and overlap in delightful ways. Have you ever met someone in a checkout line (or followed an online account) and a stranger’s words resonate so much it’s like you encountered a kindred spirit? What a gift to be drawn to and feel understood by certain people, while appreciating what makes others distinct, even if we can’t relate.
Sometimes, it’s living out our faith that makes us different.
Much of the world will reject the message of Jesus. They don’t want to hear about it. The world will tell you following Jesus won’t make you one of the cool kids. Having a moral compass will never be particularly popular; it’ll never be the latest fad. You and I will never satisfy the world’s expectations. It hated Jesus, after all. (John 15:18)
But the world needs our authentic voices. The world needs to hear who you are and who Jesus is to you — whether shared online, in fellowship halls, or in waiting rooms. Don’t be afraid to be yourself. Sharing stories can build bridges that connect hearts and minds.
The world needs what you have to offer. We need the one and only you.